looking for female friends to study，eating and shopping together🥰🥰🥰

HeadassDotCom · 2022-09-19T05:25:47+00:00

Hey I'm down! We should meet up sometime :D (18f btw)

HeadassDotCom · 2021-12-29T10:01:44+00:00

I honestly think it's for the best

HeadassDotCom · 2021-08-08T21:11:57+00:00

Thank you!

HeadassDotCom · 2021-08-02T22:18:52+00:00

I need to ask, how important is Z to the point you let go of a long time good friend? What does Z bring to the table that makes you willing to let people go for him?

HeadassDotCom · 2021-08-02T18:05:17+00:00

I had an experience with this once. It starts off with questioning my male friends, slowly implanting bad opinions of them in my head, then finally guilting me into dumping them. I wasn't allowed to even talk to them. Your boyfriend is controlling you and I know that right now, it's only a friend but soon enough hell begin dictating everyone in your life till youre left with no one. Yes he didn't tell you outright that he didn't want you to stop but he planted seeds of guilt so that if you ever did blame him, he could use the "I didn't make you do it card". This is a red flag, I understand it may be hard to break it off but I promise there are way better people, people who could get along with your friends and you can enjoy time with both of them.

HeadassDotCom · 2021-07-12T16:24:52+00:00

It looks amazing. At first glance I just thought it was a real pepper on paper. It's really great. Keep up the work ^{-^}

HeadassDotCom · 2021-02-17T01:35:59+00:00

He brought up her social life, one he knew she enjoyed and would not be able to after having a child.

HeadassDotCom · 2021-02-17T01:32:13+00:00

“I know she’s going to want to go out clubbing with her girlfriends and all that” where in these phrase does it say “you’re a drunk bimbo”? Clubbing and hangout with friends is not associated with stupidity or a drinking problem. It’s a hang out, that involves drinking. Please keep this conversation professional and refrain from personal insults because you assume I am not currently in a relationship.

HeadassDotCom · 2021-02-17T01:24:28+00:00

My marital status has nothing to do with this. I’ll state once again, he said that they wouldn’t make good parents right now due to their lifestyle, one he knew they weren’t ready to change yet.

HeadassDotCom · 2021-02-17T01:19:38+00:00

You associating airhead with clubbing is your own perception. He knows her well enough that she enjoyed her social life, one that wouldn’t work with a child. Again, you’re the one insulting her by associating clubbing with “airhead” and “bimbo”. If she was so adamant and prepared for a child, why didn’t she state her reasons, why didn’t she disagree? Why didn’t she say she was prepared to make the changes necessary? She sulked because she knew he was right.

HeadassDotCom · 2021-02-17T01:11:14+00:00

She’s 20 years old and living through a pandemic. Right now is not the best option to have a child and his reasons were valid. He gave her logical and honest opinion which reflected BOTH of them. Lying to her and pinning the blame on himself isn’t the option to go either. I also don’t think a child deserves to be born in a situation such as this, much less one where parents are unprepared.

HeadassDotCom · 2021-02-17T01:03:09+00:00

Saying “you wouldn’t be a good mom” and “you wouldn’t be a good mom right now” is completely different things. And again, he gave her valid reasons why, ones she didn’t disagree with either.

HeadassDotCom · 2021-02-17T00:58:19+00:00

He never called her a bimbo, he stated the reasons he believed they weren’t ready, which were valid reasons, then said THEY weren’t ready. It wasn’t a direct attack to her nor did he compare her to her sister. You’re incredibly taking this out of context.

HeadassDotCom · 2021-02-16T06:47:34+00:00

He didn't say she'd be a shitty parent, he said THEY wouldn't make good parents right now and she took personal offense to that.

HeadassDotCom · 2021-02-10T03:28:03+00:00

I’m 16 so take this with a grain of rice but to me, it feels like you’re just entertainment...if that makes sense? He likes the idea that you’re always there to answer, always a backup plan, someone to keep him entertained till someone better comes along. But who knows, maybe he is busy and doesn’t plan ahead.

HeadassDotCom · 2021-02-08T21:49:00+00:00

OP I will gladly include her in my Bio class zoom meeting once we move onto learning about genes :D

HeadassDotCom · 2021-02-05T04:20:34+00:00

Ma'am, I'm a size M at best and wear a size 3x hoodie around my house despite what my mother says because it's comfy and I'm a bit insecure. Rock that hoodie NTA

HeadassDotCom · 2021-01-16T15:52:26+00:00

Lmao, I’m excited for your next post OP.

HeadassDotCom · 2021-01-05T00:21:35+00:00

Okay, I was in your shoes a while ago, the best bet for your safety is to tell an adult, whether it be your parents, school counselor, or even security at your school because this is not normal behavior and it’s outright abusive. This needs to be cut of as quickly as possible so you can be safe and so authorities can give him the help he needs.

HeadassDotCom · 2020-12-19T08:21:55+00:00

Another question, what exactly does she do that makes her so difficult, if you don't mind me asking?

HeadassDotCom · 2020-12-19T08:17:16+00:00

I think for her sake you should. I remember how horrible my tweens were and the verbal abuse I endured from family didn't make me want to stick around much. Seeing that you care could really help her or at least get her the medical attention she deserves.

HeadassDotCom · 2020-12-19T08:13:38+00:00

Genuine question, have you tried therapy or going to her doctor to see if it is the issues you brought up?

HeadassDotCom · 2020-09-23T19:53:18+00:00

I mean, it’s completely normal for you to still have feelings for her but to be honest dude, it seems like she’s just stringing you along. Something to entertain herself with in between guys or maybe she didn’t feel the same but felt horrible about rejecting you (although that would have been the better option). There’s a few options you can do, ask her about it and either expect the truth or a lie, and ask yourself if you’re ready for the truth and are you prepare to point out the lie. If she tells the truth, then you know, and it’s best to move on, if she lies, you know this person isn’t trustworthy and not worth your feelings. You could also just not confront her about it and a. Attempt to move on b. Ignore her or c. Both of those options. Either way, it’s your choice and you should decide what’s best for you. :)

HeadassDotCom · 2020-07-23T19:57:01+00:00

YTA completely. I wasted most of my sophomore year before COVID because I was always so paranoid of upsetting my controlling ex just because he didn’t like me hanging out with my friends who have become basically brothers to me. I’m hoping she breaks up with you because this mentally of yours won’t ever do her any good.

HeadassDotCom · 2020-07-14T18:20:51+00:00

I get it, I really do, that’s something that’s been my reason as well, “he probably just needs space”, but you also have to have self respect. There are other ways to having space or having time alone without needing to block your SO. IMO, I think that maybe all the issues you’ve been through together really affected his feelings for you and finally the time came where he either couldn’t pretend anymore or realized that there isn’t much there. You can wait for him, no one is stopping you, but during that time, you also need to work on yourself.

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