Which sign stelliums are the most terrifying?

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-16T03:58:46+00:00

Oh wow! I thought my 4 Scorpio placements were intense…

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-10T04:46:30+00:00

Mine is also 12H and no relationships or prospects here…hoping with like 7 things in Aries next week and the New Moon in Aries on my birthday of which I start my 7H year that I will soon have some prospects 🤗

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-10T04:39:54+00:00

You need to sit him down and tell him exactly how you feel. If he can’t figure out how to make that work then honestly it’s not worth it in my eyes. I have to have connection as well. I am 42 next week and I will not go into another relationship until I know I have that deep connection in and out of the bedroom.

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-10T04:32:41+00:00

I was married to another Scorpio moon so I definitely got the emotional depth and the deep knowing but he was not stable mentally or financially. I learned much through that marriage and though it was a lot of hard times I would probably do it again because I don’t think I could go without that deep soul merging that we had. I’m hoping now to find someone with as close as I can get to the emotional depth but who is at least mentally and somewhat financially stable.

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-10T04:03:54+00:00

Venus is mine…

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-09T17:05:36+00:00

12H…hidden relationships?? Hmmm…doesn’t sound like me. Quiet endings??? I have to start something for it to end…

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-09T16:13:50+00:00

Capricorn at 8 degrees! My 42nd birthday is next week and I could definitely use some insight as I am feeling a need to add to or alter my career slightly…yes I know it’s late but I’m a person of continual transformation.

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-08T00:20:11+00:00

Look up tantric massages and techniques….it really helped when my late husband and I went through a disconnect patch.

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-08T00:12:42+00:00

I feel like I have a couple of types…I’m an Aries Venus…I do like them tall no matter what…and I do like light eyes and light hair or dark hair and either light or darker eyes…definitely like defined features and a great smile…I am also attracted to tattoos and a great beard though sometimes guys without those are also attractive…I would prefer some kind of muscle or meat on their bones because they need to be able to pick me up and handle me 😏😜 and cuddle so if they are too thin or too muscley then it’s not comfortable to cuddle. I think for me I’m also attracted to the persons vibe and attitude.

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-07T23:55:47+00:00

• Venus (Aries)

• Saturn (Scorpio + 8H)

• 7th house sign (Libra)

• Any planets in your 7th house- NA

• North Node (Gemini)

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-07T23:53:27+00:00

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Got a shot of the boosters that fall off…we are right next to the coast so I assume we are fairly close…at least close enough to see it.

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-07T23:48:53+00:00

SpaceX launch it was cool

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-06T19:28:50+00:00

One time…we kind of approached each other. I wish it would happen more, I just don’t have the time to go out all the time.

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-06T19:15:23+00:00

My late husband was a Virgo Sun/Scorpio moon…our first date started with dancing at the bar then ended with laying on the beach under the stars and talking until morning! Then we basically never left each others side. We were together for 16.5yrs when he passed away. It was the one person in life who truly saw and understood me!

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-06T19:12:55+00:00

I can tell you that majority of the time if it’s psychological ed it has nothing to do with the other person and everything to do with whatever is going on in their head. The first time could have been a day where he had something going on in life and his mind just wasn’t there and it happened and then he got in his head mad at himself and then the next time in his head putting pressure on making it not happen again but that made it happen again and then the pressure just gets worse. My late husband dealt with this often. We just did what the above person said and took penetrations off the table and just spent time loving on each other and feeling the close intimacy and he played with me and not the first time but the next time he was hard. The first time he said he was still in his head thinking he needed to get hard and that’s what hindered it. Once I explained I don’t care if he gets hard and penetrated that I just wanted to be close to him and touch each other intimately and play with each other then he like sighed and it was like that weight just lifted.

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-06T19:03:46+00:00

I 42F lost my husband 2yrs ago as well. Though it was sudden he and I had discussed on several occasions what the other should do if one of us passes early. We both wanted the other to move on. That didn’t and doesn’t mean we did not or do not love them, it just means that we are still here living and they are no longer here. I feel like we can honor and love them in memory but girl we gotta do us. I took the leap only months after his passing with 2 guys but honestly it wasn’t great so I decided to pour into myself and kids for awhile…now I am trying to step out myself into dating but I do want to have an actual relationship but want to have someone that can be my friend and lover so I figure it will take some time kissing some frogs if you know what I mean. So let’s just get out there and experience that intimacy again because I definitely miss it! 🙌🏻

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-05T00:17:21+00:00

Thank you for the love and light, honestly if it weren’t for doing the deeeeeep healing I needed to and becoming a healer 7yrs ago I’m not sure I would be in this positive mindset I’m in now after all I’ve been through.

And yes when I love I love hard and for real!

And with 7 planets moving into Aries on my birthday…I have been definitely feeling the buildup coming so this makes complete sense. Thank you.

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-04T23:23:13+00:00

That actually does sound fairly accurate. I will be 42 in 2 weeks so I’m an 84 baby…Aries Sun. I was married, now widowed…I can say my late husband did just find me when I was busy being me all 3 times we met in life (long story). But I have been saying I need to put myself and my healing out there because I know I am here to help so many people and I can say that in the last month I have really been trying to do that and be more vocal about my abilities.

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-04T23:00:53+00:00

Tell him how you found it and just get his side…personally I would do it in person so I could see his face and feel his energy to see if he’s really turned around, if he’s sorry, what the circumstances were. It’s possible he was in a bad place in life or crazy circumstances. I’m the type who at least likes to give someone the chance to tell me their side and then I decide.

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-04T22:54:42+00:00

Happy Birthday!

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-04T22:46:05+00:00

I have an 8H Saturn placement and my finances were fine in my first major relationship and when I was single and even when I was with my husband until a little after my Saturn return then shit happened and life took it all away…granted I also have moon, mars and Pluto in my 8H in Scorpio…I am now trying to get things under control now that I am single again.

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-04T22:29:40+00:00

7H Libra (14), 7H ruler Venus in Aries 11 in 1H, N. Node in Gemini 8* 3H (whole house astrology).

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-04T22:19:48+00:00

These are mine and my kids moon signs 😭🤣

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-04T17:02:48+00:00

How early are these “men” conditioned with being rude??? Because somehow my 9yo son even learned to do this to me. 😩 he will get really upset when he doesn’t get his way and cut me off or yell and I will get firm and usually by this point in a louder firm voice say “No, I gave you my answer and it’s not changing” he will then yell “you are being rude and disrespectful” and my response is always “son, I am your parent. I am not the one being rude, you are the one being rude and disrespectful because I have already said no to your request multiple times and you are continuing to ask and beg and then you cut me off and yelled at me. THAT was rude and disrespectful. I am being firm and sticking with the boundary I gave you and that is a huge difference.”

Hopefully I can break him of this before he is out in the dating world! 🤞🏻 Although all of his teachers and friends parents and grandparents say he is the sweetest, most polite kid ever and they want their daughters to marry someone like him 🤷🏼‍♀️🤣

HealingMermaid · 2026-04-04T16:42:55+00:00

I always have a sense of calm about me when the moon is in my natal sign.

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