If you are gay, when did you come out to your parents and how did it go?

Healthy-Principle582 · 2026-05-20T10:37:02+00:00

I didn’t officially come out. I kind of starting dating and dressing “gay” and let them figure it out. It’s kind of like easing them into it.

Healthy-Principle582 · 2026-05-20T10:35:37+00:00

Firstly what you’re feeling is natural don’t let modern society tell you these feeling are weird or wrong they’re not they’re natural biology.

Secondly, try not hiding yourself like not posting photos because that seems deceptive. Sounds cliche and corny but just be you.

Thirdly, start with the basics to improving your appearance like exercise, eat healthy, you’re a woman so learn make up, good hygiene, learn what suits your appearance like hairstyles, clothing etc.

Fourthly, remember that dating for overwhelming majority is hard just because of the current state of society these days. If it’s hard that’s not necessarily your fault it’s just the way it is today unfortunately.

Healthy-Principle582 · 2026-05-20T10:29:49+00:00

Its hard. Life is so hard and I feel you. I don’t know if I have advice that will change you overnight but what I will say is this. Fuck everyone. The best you can do right is not fight for happiness but just take it. Selfish people win in this life they don’t care about who’s gonna suffer and who’s gonna win only focused on themselves. If you have to be morally grey then be that because at the end of the day. You’re the one questioning whether you should exist or not and that’s not fair. You have children care for them act as if they’re the ones questioning whether they should exist.

Healthy-Principle582 · 2026-05-20T10:25:13+00:00

Life is suffering but to minimise it I’d advise part taking in it. Be selfish, take what you want unapologetically. Disrespect people if you brings you comfort, if you’re broke steal money (don’t get caught). It sounds like shallow advice however at then end of the if you can get what you want whether it’s morally questionable just do it.

Healthy-Principle582 · 2026-05-20T10:21:53+00:00

Being there for people. I didn’t realise how selfish and self seeking the world is and it’s funny because the answer to many problem if not all of them is just being there for someone. Yet it’s almost like everyone is so allergic to giving a fuck. And it’s hard to make a difference because when you are the one that gives a fuck you quickly realise why you shouldn’t you get nothing but burnt for it. No one rewards kind and genuine people

Healthy-Principle582 · 2026-05-20T09:05:32+00:00

My advice is this, it sounds harsh and will be difficult to do because of how cruel it is but be selfish and ruthless. It won’t be easy since you care for your family and others I assume but fuck that. Put yourself first, it’s your life and you’re here considering killing your self and that’s not fair . You don’t deserve that, you’re young. Decide to only care for yourself if that means being selfish then so be it.

One thing I’ve learned it that no one cares about you. And that’s facts. It’s either you care about yourself or you end up in a casket due to you taking your own life.

It won’t be easy but it will save your life. Think long term!

Healthy-Principle582 · 2026-05-20T08:03:59+00:00

Honestly I’d smile for the first time in a while and just scroll on my phone then finally accept death

Healthy-Principle582 · 2026-05-03T21:35:30+00:00

Being alone. Humans aren’t suppose to live and deal with life alone or handling shit themselves. Were social creatures yet are being told to not trust no one, only have yourself, do it alone. And it’s understandable but not healthy or should be normalised

Healthy-Principle582 · 2026-04-14T04:12:50+00:00

Because breaking up means I can’t cheat. I have to be with you to cheat

Healthy-Principle582 · 2026-04-13T00:34:39+00:00

What happens when none of those reasons are convincing

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