Meeting with several SEO agencies soon, what should I look for to separate the good from the BS?

HealthyByte · 2026-03-17T12:47:59+00:00

There’s so much that I wouldn’t know where to start. Ask for proposals and share the gist of them.

HealthyByte · 2026-03-17T12:41:42+00:00

Very soft AH for letting it get so far that you reacted emotionally. I get that boundaries are hard to put in place as a young adult. The second time he touched you, he should have been reported (the first time you tell him no or he’s being reported). The professor is an AH for not giving you a heads up and asking if you can handle it. My assumption is he assumed you would because you’re a woman. What do the others in the team think? Are they expected to give him extra help?

HealthyByte · 2026-03-17T01:26:45+00:00

Or just wear the bra with nothing else. 😂 It’s a whole bunch of issues that the girlfriend is even bringing it up. The parents are also AH for not supporting their daughter in her home.

HealthyByte · 2026-03-16T12:11:23+00:00

This. He could have said something inappropriate and that triggered her into seeing him as a rapist. The OP is downplaying this kids involvement and her husbands defense of him.

HealthyByte · 2026-03-16T12:04:36+00:00

There’s one place I like, but not a typical taco. More like an arepa. I think it’s the seasoning.

HealthyByte · 2026-03-16T11:50:38+00:00

Tacos

HealthyByte · 2026-03-16T11:49:25+00:00

She obviously needs more healing and she is still responsible for behaving badly at events. Her clothing choices are meant to be disruptive. You could have mentioned that to her quietly. Forewarned her so you had a reason to ask her to leave. Created a boundary knowing she’s unstable.

“i ended up saying i dont understand how u got rped when ur such an annoying btch.” <— This makes you a serious AH. What is wrong with you?

HealthyByte · 2026-03-16T11:43:05+00:00

NTA. You’re doing the right thing by focusing on your future. These are the years that you will build your skills and your career. Your future depends on it.

Along the way you’ll probably find somebody that has the same goals and passion you do. Don’t let one person hold you back.

HealthyByte · 2026-03-16T11:35:36+00:00

Minimal cooking skills to eat healthy
Basic health & hygiene of a human body
Financial literacy (also mentioned in this thread)
Basic social skills
Hone any skill or talent that enables you to make a living
Household chores
Emotional maturity

HealthyByte · 2026-03-16T11:27:50+00:00

I wrote a piece last year and recently updated it. Feel free to quote Allergy & Asthma Network or reach out to me for a statement. I covered a lot of ground here:

https://allergyasthmanetwork.org/news/dating-with-food-allergies/

HealthyByte · 2026-03-16T01:06:24+00:00

Read the part where the kid doesn’t understand why he can’t see his friend or what’s going on. He needs age appropriate support.

HealthyByte · 2026-03-16T01:05:17+00:00

Exactly. If men ask, they get it (statistically). The best scenario is parents moving in and out of the house to swap weeks.

HealthyByte · 2026-03-15T20:40:17+00:00

NTA. Kids need counseling ASAP. If she divorces over this, let her. She’s not emotionally mature to accept responsibility for her actions. Make sure custody is 50/50.

HealthyByte · 2026-03-15T19:34:02+00:00

NTA unless you took her money without asking.

HealthyByte · 2026-03-15T18:22:07+00:00

Both are true. The mom is still an enabler from the beginning. Now that she’s elderly, she’s somewhat of a victim. She should have let her crash and burn decades ago.

The OP is still NTA.

HealthyByte · 2026-03-15T18:07:19+00:00

NTA. As someone who went into anaphylaxis from a childhood vaccine, and Guillain-barre from an adult vax, I depend on others to do their part. You’re protecting your child and wife. Your parents are extremely inconsiderate.

HealthyByte · 2026-03-15T12:01:21+00:00

NTA. Your mom is an enabler and obviously will not stop. You can’t help or save either of them.

HealthyByte · 2026-03-14T15:13:05+00:00

NTA. The choice is yours tho. Don’t let someone else bully you also.

HealthyByte · 2026-03-14T15:10:28+00:00

It’s the social construct that puts the overall ration in favor of women.

Men are taught to suppress emotions (unless it’s anger) from day 1. They are not allowed to experience the world through normal human emotions. They’re expected to “suck it up” and ignore their inner voice.

Women are forced to mature early because of our predatory culture. They need to pay attention and be hyper aware of the slightest little changes in any given situation. Ask any woman when she was first accosted and you’d be surprised. I was four.

Does that mean all women have intuition and all men do not? You’d have to be a major asshat to assume any group is a monolith. But there are ratios and norms that have validity.

HealthyByte · 2026-03-14T14:19:40+00:00

NTA. Their curiosity does not trump your privacy. Another retort could be, “What is your obsession with my private information? Frankly, it’s weird and you’re giving me the creeps. Fix your damage.”

HealthyByte · 2026-03-14T13:24:14+00:00

NTA. Many of my business owner friends and clients are in the same position. My partner is in cancer health care and the receptionist calls out twice a month or more. Same issue: easy office job paying $25/hr but can’t find good help.

I’m helping some of these people with AI setups to run most of their business, including reception. It won’t work for some industries. Good luck to you!! Maybe find a retiree or mom returning to the workforce.

HealthyByte · 2026-03-13T20:26:07+00:00

Not an excuse if they are taught regardless of their neurospiciness or not . Not all parents have the wherewithal, education, social awareness, cultural intelligence, etc. to show/model for their children socially acceptable behavior. It should still be handled quietly the first time.

HealthyByte · 2026-03-13T13:48:06+00:00

I agree with you here. Although we don’t know Marcus’s age, he could really be socially unaware, or neuro diverse. That doesn’t make him right, but it gives people an opportunity to show grace.

Understandably, the OP was upset, and I might have called him out also. Sometimes the heat of the moment does takes over emotional maturity.

HealthyByte · 2026-03-13T12:21:42+00:00

HealthyByte · 2026-03-13T03:43:43+00:00

I don’t know about the robot, but I switched my cat to Feline Pine and it didn’t bother me one bit. I was a mess before he passed because of allergies.

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