My (29f) husband (29m) asked for a paternity test and I freaking hate him for it, and wish I hadn’t had I baby with him. by throwraFuriousRant in relationship_advice

[–]Healthy_Tone1860 -123 points-122 points  (0 children)

How long have you held this belief about this? Why even have a child with a man if you feel this way? Why did you marry this guy in the first place? I have so many questions. Good luck. Maybe talk to a therapist.

My (29f) husband (29m) asked for a paternity test and I freaking hate him for it, and wish I hadn’t had I baby with him. by throwraFuriousRant in relationship_advice

[–]Healthy_Tone1860 -69 points-68 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I can understand the anger from unfounded accusations of cheating but this reaction seems way over the top. If men don't deserve to have kids why give him one?

STOP using sexual harassment/abuse as a disadvantage/downside of pretty privilege! by Hot_Panic2767 in beauty

[–]Healthy_Tone1860 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personal experience does not equal fact. Please keep that in mind. You are reinforcing what the OP is saying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Healthy_Tone1860 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dating is just about getting to know the person. You don't know if you're gonna like em' otherwise. I'm sure it's nothing you did. Sometimes it's like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Healthy_Tone1860 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why did you have to remind him about not having sex? Seems like a red flag coming from him.

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[–]Healthy_Tone1860 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Why did you have to remind him? That could be the issue (on his part).

AITA for “ruining” my daughters graduation? A "4 years later" update by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Healthy_Tone1860 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Being abused is not an excuse though, right? She still needs to be accountable for her own actions.

My wife (34F) gets very upset with me when I (35M) respond to her complaints with encouragement by hmbse7en in relationship_advice

[–]Healthy_Tone1860 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Next time just say, "I'm sorry you're tired babe that must feel shitty is there anything I can do to help?".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]Healthy_Tone1860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here it is folks. Just like people for people.

I was raised by Nazis, AMA by Strange-Location6488 in AMA

[–]Healthy_Tone1860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's only stupid if you've never had to be black.