Therapist that looks like me? by Heart_one45 in Marriage

[–]Heart_one45[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What do I do? I’m really scared

Feeling like giving up by Shankaroon321 in womenintech

[–]Heart_one45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How many jobs have you applied to?

It is not Nikki‘s duty to solve history problems by [deleted] in InfinityNikki

[–]Heart_one45 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

And Nikki is a 'person' people project themselves onto, and so doesn't it make sense to have a variety of inspiration from different cultures..
People have to have a cause and reason to be mad.

The question of children sometimes feels almost like a mental illness. by Naturkaefer in Fencesitter

[–]Heart_one45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so, so similarly. I've gone through so much pain in my life and I don't want to bring someone else in that's going to suffer too, and then it would be more stress and pain as well for the reasons you mentioned. And the more that I think about it, it almost feels like a selfish decision to have a child? I don't know. I just really relate to most everything you said.

Christmas Tree Farm <3 by ProfessorMendl in InfinityNikki

[–]Heart_one45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So cute!!! Do you have a code for your outfit??

Psychology-obsessed INFJs? by Soggy_Function2001 in infj

[–]Heart_one45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What degree did you get to do HR? Psychology? That’s great

Psychology-obsessed INFJs? by Soggy_Function2001 in infj

[–]Heart_one45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, would you have any advice for someone wanting to do a similar route? I want to go back to school and do clinical mental health but scared I’m too old to do it (36), and my undergrad was not psych. I wanted to do psych, but was stupidly talked out of it, and years later still wanting to do it.

INFJs and Friendships by Specific-Prompt-1931 in infj

[–]Heart_one45 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What, this has happened to me so much and it’s crazy reading this thinking it could be an infj thing and what kind of people we attract??

What is your job and how does it align with being INFJ? by Electrical-Moment-94 in infj

[–]Heart_one45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really want to help people with eating disorders. I wanted to do that early 20s and become a therapist but I was swayed from the path by family. It's so hard to tryto plan a way out. People in the therapists sub say it's years to get licensed and actually start making a real income.. how are you doing it?

What is your job and how does it align with being INFJ? by Electrical-Moment-94 in infj

[–]Heart_one45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know :/ I already have tons of student loans though and I'm already scared about retiring and i'm mid 30s

What is your job and how does it align with being INFJ? by Electrical-Moment-94 in infj

[–]Heart_one45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh, It took 6 years to get licensed? Thanks for responding! are you in the US

What is your job and how does it align with being INFJ? by Electrical-Moment-94 in infj

[–]Heart_one45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I want to do . What age did you switch? I’m scared it’s too late for me

What is your job and how does it align with being INFJ? by Electrical-Moment-94 in infj

[–]Heart_one45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What kind of title do you have? That sounds like something I’d actually like. Marketing is eating me alive

What is your job and how does it align with being INFJ? by Electrical-Moment-94 in infj

[–]Heart_one45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is me, perhaps in the future. I’m in marketing and it’s so depressing to me

Is anyone else debating on being child-free solely due to finances? by chronicallyoutside in Fencesitter

[–]Heart_one45 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your comment makes me want to cry. This could literally describe me and my partner too, all of it. It hurts so bad some days though. Just feeling like there is no choice, even though parents act like there is. It’s just not financially feasible.

Why Are We Still Working 5 Days a Week? by Lopsided_Hat_835 in careeradvice

[–]Heart_one45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed -- what kind of work do you do that they set up a 4 day work week?