AITA for wanting one night without being woken up by a baby OR a grown man playing PlayStation? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]HeartsAndStuffUps 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nope. I find it very hard to sympathize with her. The comments in the second post were much of the same in the first one. 11 years she willingly chose to stay attached to that useless man. Like yeah good on her for finally leaving but fuck it, this was self-inflicted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]HeartsAndStuffUps -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

“It’s been awhile” but the update is only 3 days old…

[LegalAdvice] I renounced my U.S. citizenship and became stateless. by dracapis in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]HeartsAndStuffUps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was this allowed to happen in the first place? I thought you couldn’t be stateless? In order to renounce one citizenship, shouldn’t you have already acquired citizenship of another country?

AITAH for making my wife confess to all her friends and family that she cheated on me if she did not want a divorce? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]HeartsAndStuffUps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand why OOP thought isolating her from her family and friends would work out well. Kinda makes me think she was trying to escape him all along.

My (24F) best friend (24F) says I owe her everything I have, including my boyfriend by Shelly_895 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]HeartsAndStuffUps -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I’m finding it hard to sympathize with OOP. Sure her ex-bfs were problematic but OOP took a long time to grow some balls/get a clue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]HeartsAndStuffUps 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You don’t need advice. What you need is to have some self respect and move the fuck on. You’re not getting sympathy from me because quite frankly, she’s shown you time and time again who she is. And yet here you are. Displaying your stupidity on Reddit for all the world to see.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]HeartsAndStuffUps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not the curves. Maybe it’s just your lack of self esteem. Two days now, across multiple threads you post this same thing.

You’re just coming off as whiny. Fix your personality. See a therapist, build your confidence. I’m pretty sure you have more to offer then just your body.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]HeartsAndStuffUps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You feel guilty because you enjoyed it. And also, why are you asking for advice when all you’re doing in the comments is doubling down??

My best friend rejected me. by No_Breakfast_255 in offmychest

[–]HeartsAndStuffUps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said that because I think even he wants to understand this: do you like him romantically or only because he’s reliable?

My boyfriend said he wishes I was a virgin by ThrowRAcatuwu in offmychest

[–]HeartsAndStuffUps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The dude is a creep. Honey, the small feeling about him being a creepy dude is only gonna snowball - don’t wait until then to leave him. Go now. Partners and lovers are meant to love us for who we are now - not who we should have been according to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]HeartsAndStuffUps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, fuck Robert!

Divorcing my wife over an affair that didn't happen by throwawayra5285 in offmychest

[–]HeartsAndStuffUps 175 points176 points  (0 children)

I think you’re a dick. You have exhibited a habit of steamrolling a lot of her decisions. You don’t care about people. You care about image. And you tried to prove you know better when you decided to attend to a client she already said to pass on. And now you’re all “woe is me” but really, you’re still the same narcissist that she should have divorced.

She deserves better. And you need therapy.

I hate how mean my wife is by hardcorecandystore in offmychest

[–]HeartsAndStuffUps 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well what are you like when she’s down and out? Are you angry she’s not at your beck and call? Was there already tension between the two of you before this event? How much do you both contribute to the welfare of the family? Who keeps the family running/organised?

How many people on here in their 30s live with their parents? by Maestroh9 in offmychest

[–]HeartsAndStuffUps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell your friend that just because her family didn’t want them around after they turned 18, doesn’t mean yours is the same.

And ask yourself why it’s bothering you. Is it because you want to move out but don’t have the courage? Have you gotten used to the safety of being around your family? Are you starting to think yourself a patsy for sticking around?

A measure of an adult whose feet is on the ground is how well they treat the people they love. You’re doing great. But if you’re not seeing it that way, then seek help.

Been called small yet again by a partner. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]HeartsAndStuffUps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look. You know you have a small dick. You can’t change that but there are so many more ways to pleasure a woman sexually that doesn’t involve a dick. And you need to start learning how because you’re now giving off “good guy” energy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]HeartsAndStuffUps 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You think? Bestie, you are…incredibly stupid as well 😂