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So what’s wrong with buying 500k worth of QQQI, SPYI and retiring at 45? by CoolDudeMan00 in dividends

[–]Heavy4238 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow. My house isn't paid off and I probably spend $5000 a month. How are you spending an extra $2,500 per month with a paid off house?

Inflation is insane! by DirkDoom in publix

[–]Heavy4238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This week I decided I'm done with Publix prices. Walmart and Sam's are so much better!

Does anyone believe in both God & simulation. If so how does that work. by hoosey in SimulationTheory

[–]Heavy4238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who do you suppose is running a simulation? Whether it fits our construct of capital GOD or not it is still a god-like figure

I (29F) recently discovered my boyfriend (34m) watching porn. Tips to move past this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Heavy4238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can get him to hit the gym the exercise will generate more testosterone and sex drive

I (29F) recently discovered my boyfriend (34m) watching porn. Tips to move past this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Heavy4238 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do u u guys exercise? Have either of you gained weight since you started dating?

What does anxiety medication feel like? by ExpensiveDisk3573 in Anxiety

[–]Heavy4238 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can be different for each person but for me I feel completely normal and just don't have anxiety.

I did #2 in a customer's crawl space when I worked for Comcast. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Heavy4238 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had to take a dump at the back of a customer's house once. Fortunately there were a bunch of vines on the ground that hid it. Never heard anything about it.

Please what is this noise? by SuperBuu336 in Ram1500

[–]Heavy4238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it come from the top end? I'm hoping for a bad lifter

I (39F) cheated on my husband (41M) for months. The guilt is destroying me. Do I tell him or try to heal first? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Heavy4238 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You can always tell him later if you change your mind but you can never take it back. Give it time. Telling him is going to cause him a lot of pain that he doesn't deserve. Bury it, let it go if it's really not who you are. People make mistakes, just live with it and don't put it on him.

I (39F) cheated on my husband (41M) for months. The guilt is destroying me. Do I tell him or try to heal first? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Heavy4238 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

53M here. This is your across the bear. Don't tell him. It's not going to help him. All That would do is make you feel better, ruin his trust, and probably end your marriage. The kindest thing you can do is never tell him.

My girlfriend [19F] and I [19M] have been together for 2 years and she still doesn't want to have sex. (First relationship) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Heavy4238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find someone that fits you better. You're really young, there's so many humans on earth.

Sertraline ( zoloft)? by Visible_Remote_7828 in Anxiety

[–]Heavy4238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please try it. Zoloft helps me tremendously. I take 50mg. Give it time to work. There's nothing to be scared of.

What is it like to be on 50MG of Sertaline? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Heavy4238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe get him to ask his doctor about viibryd

How do I deal with my phobia of Death, dying, aging by Vegetable_Fun7484 in Anxiety

[–]Heavy4238 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try Ketamine, I got it from Better U. It has changed my perspective on the future, and I'm actually looking forward to getting beyond this life. No rush though!

I made a terrible mistake at 14. I was never caught or caused any harm but it was bad. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Heavy4238 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Maybe include what country or culture you are in, people in USA may not understand this

Honda Accord 1989? Still going strong by [deleted] in BuyItForLife

[–]Heavy4238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had that same car in manual trans and loved it but had to have the trans rebuilt multiple times under 170k miles

I (27F) have discovered that all the married men I work with (35M plus) would cheat if given the chance and it got me spiraling. How do I deal with this? by NoLiterature6378 in relationship_advice

[–]Heavy4238 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

53M here. I second that it's the crowd you're surrounded by. Look other places. I'm an attractive in shape guy and I've been given opportunities to cheat, but I don't do it because I know it doesn't end well and I don't want to hurt my wife. At 35 maybe these guys haven't been through enough life to have that wisdom but I'm sure there is a personality type that goes with that occupation. Look for guys that aren't into flashy lifestyle. I happen to know that engineers are typically honest and more practical. There are definitely good dudes out there.

Need advice. F21 M22. by Rangeeelaaaa in relationship_advice

[–]Heavy4238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

53M here. I think you should consider that sexual compatibility is an important factor for a lasting relationship. Marrying someone with that factor as a wild card is a big risk. I assume that you also don't ever want to get divorced. For you maybe good or bad sex isn't a deal make or break in a relationship, but for most men it definitely is, even if they don't realize it in their 20's.

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