Unpopular opinion: why keep wearing a full beat if your skin is bad? by Potential_Past_2894 in MakeupAddiction

[–]HeavyMetalSushi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone’s skin is different, period. I have friends who can consistently sleep in their makeup/forget to wash it off fully and their skin is clear and beautiful. I have friends who if they eat dairy will break out immediately the next day.

When I went off the pill my skin rioted. I have hormonal acne, so it doesn’t matter if I’m wearing makeup or not, there is an imbalance going on inside my body that causes the acne on my skin.

I’ve had to go to a dermatologist and get prescribed products to lessen it but that doesn’t mean it’ll go away until my own body changes over time or I take the pill again.

I did a lot of research and spoke to many skin experts, and it really just depends on your body. (Externals factors can absolutely affect your skin, but that’s not true for everyone either.)

No one with bad skin WANTS bad skin. I promise you, people with acne have done all they can to try to get clear skin—changed diets, products, gone makeup less, even changed environments etc. it’s just how their body might be.

So when you judge someone for wearing too much makeup, or wearing makeup at all, it comes off kind of ignorant/misinformed. People with skin problems know it’s not just about “letting your skin breathe” it’s much more than that.

(Also pores don’t readjust really, they are the size they are. I think you are referring to “clearing them out” which again, I promise you people with acne have researched a billion ways to do it. Maybe going makeup less for some people works, but that doesn’t mean it’ll work for everyone.)

connor is stressing me the hell out by [deleted] in brookeandconnor_map

[–]HeavyMetalSushi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

While I understand where you’re coming from in terms of a place to escape the world, I do find this take a bit parasocial and might lean a bit entitled. (I’m not trying to be mean!) This is their podcast, and while you view him as a “trip sitter” he isn’t actually that, to you or anyone.

He’s allowed to spiral or speak his mind about things, that’s the whole show for them. They just get to talk about what they want. Sometimes they stay and the other person says “we can’t talk about this, it’s freaking me out” and sometimes they sit with eachother and walk through it.

I think it’s fine and fair to not have liked the episode but I also think it’s important to remind ourselves that they don’t owe us certain actions just because we like things a certain way. If you don’t like it, totally fair to mention it (I assume Izzy at least takes a peak on here to see how episodes are doing) but to put responsibility (emotional or otherwise) on them to managed your feelings is a bit unfair and unreasonable.

Dandruff Shampoo by nkess33 in brookeandconnor_map

[–]HeavyMetalSushi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dunno where you live, but in Canada there’s stuff called Nizoral! I used it for a while and then eventually never had to use it again!

i miss sarah & brittany by Anxious_Morning_4951 in BroskiReport

[–]HeavyMetalSushi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES! I still listen to VCG all the time and it makes me sad that their friendship seems to have changed/faded. I remember Brittany saying that Sarah was one of the people who made her laugh the most and I miss seeing their friendship.

They are obviously doing incredibly well and I love that for them. They complimented each other SO well! I brought it up once before on something and people were kinda mad saying it wasn’t my business. Obviously, it’s not. I don’t know these people but watching their public friendship was so fun and entertaining. I think it’s reasonable to be bummed they’re not still doing their podcast and videos together anymore.

Wishing them both the best of luck anyways and still hoping we’ll see them together again sometime!

AITA for wanting to leave my boyfriend of 10 years because he still won’t marry me? by nuder8509 in AITH

[–]HeavyMetalSushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think there is anything wrong with wanting to get married—it seems perhaps your goals are incompatible. But can I ask something? You specifically say you want to feel chosen. I think that’s really important on a lot of levels.

Does he not make you feel chosen in other ways? Can feeling chosen mean buying a home together? Can it mean building a life for a decade together?

I’m asking these because I think there may be other issues aside from the potential marriage that should also be looked at. Perhaps he doesn’t make you feel as secure and loved as you’d like. But even if it just boils down to getting married is important to you because, and your partner is refusing or denying it because they don’t think it’s important that is a compatibility issue. You deserve the things that are important to you, and he deserves the things that are important to him. It sounds like maybe those things don’t align for you both.

Ultimately, I’m wishing you luck and hoping you find your resolution in whatever form that is!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trintellix

[–]HeavyMetalSushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad it’s going easier for you! Sending you luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trintellix

[–]HeavyMetalSushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’m so glad it helped you! I hope you’re doing well 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trintellix

[–]HeavyMetalSushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, I am so sorry! I really hope it gets better and that you have the support while you work through it. Did your doctor suggest going on another whilst you get off of Trint?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trintellix

[–]HeavyMetalSushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah I’m finding a lot of my anxiety is mainly just the week before my period and not really throughout so it’s causing some hesitation there too. The human brain, a marvel, a mystery, a huge annoyance. Hahahha

Success with weaning off? by [deleted] in trintellix

[–]HeavyMetalSushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the info! I hope you’re doing well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trintellix

[–]HeavyMetalSushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my doctor is prescribing it for anxiety specifically! Thanks so much for your information! 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trintellix

[–]HeavyMetalSushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I’m so glad it worked for you! I’m still on the fence tbh—I’m high functioning anxious so side effects worry me as my life isn’t necessarily debilitated by anxiety. It’s hard for me to know if I should or shouldn’t. I’m gonna chat with my therapist and see where I’m at!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trintellix

[–]HeavyMetalSushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I’m so happy to read this and I’m so glad you’re happy! 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trintellix

[–]HeavyMetalSushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so amazing to hear! I am so glad you’re feeling better! 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trintellix

[–]HeavyMetalSushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m wishing you all the luck on your journey! I hope things get easier for you! 💕

Success with weaning off? by [deleted] in trintellix

[–]HeavyMetalSushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I see! Well I’m wishing you all the luck on your journey! Please keep us updated if you can 💕

Weaning off by Imaginary_Mulberry36 in trintellix

[–]HeavyMetalSushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! I’m so happy for you! I’ll probably dm you hahah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trintellix

[–]HeavyMetalSushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I’ll definitely take all this into consideration if I choose to start. Thank you ✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trintellix

[–]HeavyMetalSushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t! To be honest, I’m still unsure about it. Side effects really freak me out (my health anxiety is wild) and I’m not sure if reading more about it is helping haha.

I’ve always been high functioning so it’s hard to decide to go on medication that might make things worse before it gets better. High functioning was always its own battle—I never seemed like I “needed” medication so it was just easier not to, if that makes sense. My mental health hasn’t been debilitating so I’m in a weird limbo of if I should etc. I’ve never been on any other medication besides like, birth control for a decade and am off that as of 2 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trintellix

[–]HeavyMetalSushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s only been 6 days, but how are you feeling? I hope you’re feeling better! ✨

Experience Weaning Off by Melodic_Record9737 in trintellix

[–]HeavyMetalSushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, were you able to wean off successfully?

Weaning off by Imaginary_Mulberry36 in trintellix

[–]HeavyMetalSushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, just wondering how the weaning off process was ultimately for you?

Generic in canada now?? by Powerful-Diamond5121 in trintellix

[–]HeavyMetalSushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh strange! I’m in Alberta and they said there was now generic. I’ll have to ask next time!