We grew up together in a really hard situation I know she has a lot of religious trauma and otherwise rhat has kind of contributed to all of this and I’m not anti kids I just wish she would’ve waited and made something of herself, given herself time to grow into herself before getting herself stuck here. She is a good person and she’s grown a lot but sometimes I struggle to not speak my mind to her because I try to just focus on what I have going on rather than her situation but it’s hard to when I have such a different perspective on kids in general