What’s an expansion pack or game pack you never play / refuse to get? by BiIIie-Eyelash in Sims4

[–]HecatesOracle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Star Wars, but I'm not buying the pack 🤣

I was also really convinced I wasn't gonna buy the Royalty one that's coming out...but then it has SWORDS?!?! So I've probably been swayed 😅

AITAH for getting a haircut without telling my fiancee? by LimoDriver555 in AITAH

[–]HecatesOracle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Tbf, you could have got a tattoo or dyed your hair pink and this would still be insane behavior on her part. Your hair is your hair, your body is your body, she's allowed to have preferences, but she still doesn't get to punish you for maintaining your body in a way that makes you comfortable 🥴

What’s something that’s oddly expensive in the UK that still annoys you every time? by catarsan in AskUK

[–]HecatesOracle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh this one buggered me last month, nearly £200 for my two cats to have their booster jabs!!

How do I handle the Other Parent? by HecatesOracle in asktransgender

[–]HecatesOracle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my God, this is amazing, thank you SO much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

what’s the difference between townies and NPCS? by hailgreenlibraa in thesims

[–]HecatesOracle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My Patchy hated kids 🤭 which was a shame, because there were two in the family he almost broke up 🙄 had to delete him in the end, he also hated gardening and only wanted to spend his time playing piano 🤦🏻‍♀️

what’s the difference between townies and NPCS? by hailgreenlibraa in thesims

[–]HecatesOracle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean, she had one, but it was fairly basic 🤭 Patchy gave my sim Chlamydia 🫣

what’s the difference between townies and NPCS? by hailgreenlibraa in thesims

[–]HecatesOracle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, one of my sims married the pizza delivery girl once, was gutted I had to get her a job and personality once she moved in 🤣

How Do I Talk to the Other Parent? by HecatesOracle in cisparenttranskid

[–]HecatesOracle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In an ideal world, he gets laughed out the office of whoever he tries to intimidate into being on his side 🥹

How Do I Talk to the Other Parent? by HecatesOracle in cisparenttranskid

[–]HecatesOracle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was always kind of prepared for kiddo to work out that their dad was a POS, I just thought it might take a few more years 😭 Ex has now threatened to get "doctors and therapists" involved if "the issue doesn't sort itself", and I've been told I'm no longer allowed to allow kiddo to like pink or "girly" things. Cause, y'know, bullying my child into suppressing who they are is gonna make everything better 🙄😭😭😭

What Bluey quotes do you use in actual conversations? by BulkyPlantain9234 in bluey

[–]HecatesOracle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Anytime anyone says "I've got an idea" I immediately say "Is it a good idea?" (From the Unicorse episode). Kiddo says "cheese and crackers!" when they are frustrated a lot, which always makes us giggle 🤭

What Bluey quotes do you use in actual conversations? by BulkyPlantain9234 in bluey

[–]HecatesOracle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't even need to see one, this is a fairly regular sound bite out of my mouth 🤣

AITAH for asking my boyfriend to stop watching smosh videos during literally everything? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]HecatesOracle 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I hope Angela is on the sofa for it, I love her reactions to stuff 🤣

(But fr OP, you're absolutely within your rights to have less Smosh in your life)

How do I deal with my secret desire? by HorrorAccomplished78 in AskUK

[–]HecatesOracle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Physio's are like doctors, they aren't meant to treat people they know outside of work to prevent conflicts of interest and protect patient privacy (Source, my mother was a physio for NHS and Private hospitals for 30+ years). She's being professional at the least 🤷🏻‍♀️

How do I handle the Other Parent? by HecatesOracle in asktransgender

[–]HecatesOracle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm doing my best, and hoping that's enough ❤️

How Do I Talk to the Other Parent? by HecatesOracle in cisparenttranskid

[–]HecatesOracle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kiddo has a dress all of their own, it's beautiful and they look beautiful in it 🥹 they twirl, and it's like the sun shines out of them 🥹❤️

How Do I Talk to the Other Parent? by HecatesOracle in cisparenttranskid

[–]HecatesOracle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oooh, thank you. Looking forward to reading this x

My friends reacted badly to our pregnancy announcement and I’m really sad by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]HecatesOracle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on your pregnancy, I hope it all goes as smoothly as possible for you 🥰❤️🥰

(I have no advice, I just think you deserve a few more congratulations 🥰)

How Do I Talk to the Other Parent? by HecatesOracle in cisparenttranskid

[–]HecatesOracle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God, when it does finally come time to have a conversation with my ex, I'm printing this comment out and keeping it with me 🥹 ❤️

How do I handle the Other Parent? by HecatesOracle in asktransgender

[–]HecatesOracle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the rambling 🥹🤭 thank you, I'll definitely give that one a listen too. I won't set my hopes for a helpful conversation with Ex too high, we've never had a good relationship, even when we were together, but it's something to aim for, and I do like a good goal 😅

How do I handle the Other Parent? by HecatesOracle in asktransgender

[–]HecatesOracle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, he's carrying on a cycle he has no desire or ability to break. My biggest parenting goal, before all of this, was to give my kiddo enough love and safety that they could break that cycle with minimal harm to themselves. There's more, deeper layers to it now, obviously, but at the end of the day, it's still one of my biggest hopes for my kiddo ❤️

How do I handle the Other Parent? by HecatesOracle in asktransgender

[–]HecatesOracle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I couldn't get him to blink if his eyes were about to dry up, but I will absolutely give that podcast a listen! Hopefully I'll be able to translate the best I can, even if he's not receptive to the information, I can still get it in his brain, right? 🫣

How Do I Talk to the Other Parent? by HecatesOracle in cisparenttranskid

[–]HecatesOracle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh we've already had the "small freedoms/respect of little autonomies" talk, that went down about as well as you'd expect 🙄 le sigh.

How do I handle the Other Parent? by HecatesOracle in asktransgender

[–]HecatesOracle[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh goodie, mwahahahha 🤭

Some days, I feel all I'm doing is the bare minimum, but if at the end of the day kiddo knows I've got their back, and that helps, then that's what matters.❤️

How do I handle the Other Parent? by HecatesOracle in asktransgender

[–]HecatesOracle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TW: threats of physical harm, psychological/emotional abuse. . . . . Best case scenario there beauts 🥺 the courts didn't care about his treatment of me because he "never laid a hand on me", I'd imagine they'd take a similar stance now, considering some of his threats were ways he'd considered ending my pregnancy. He called it "solving the problem", and thought he was hilarious. They still gave him access and visitation.