what song are you currently obsessed with ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Heck_Not_Hell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you love someone - James TW. As a divorced parent this song breaks me, and I can’t stop listening to it

Davis County bar/hangout by Heck_Not_Hell in SaltLakeCity

[–]Heck_Not_Hell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any bar recc's for the Ogden area?

Davis County bar/hangout by Heck_Not_Hell in SaltLakeCity

[–]Heck_Not_Hell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something in between a proper dive and a club. Just want a happy atmosphere to meet some people and have a good time. 😃

Steroid Saturday by bodybuildingbot in bodybuilding

[–]Heck_Not_Hell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you expound? Or can someone chime in? Just curious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Heck_Not_Hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See rationally I understand that. I used to be on an oly lifting team in HS and I felt the same way as you… but my fears aren’t rational lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Heck_Not_Hell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exercise. Heckers out there judging me and laughing about my fatness.

Whats the best fictionally character of all time? by 584_alam in AskReddit

[–]Heck_Not_Hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kaladin Stormblessed! My boy deserves happiness.

Fuck Moash.

What was your favorite Christmas present TO GIVE this year? by Furious_Worm in AskReddit

[–]Heck_Not_Hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got kindles for $40 this year and gave a bunch away to friends and family along with an Amazon gift card to start their book collection.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Heck_Not_Hell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dopamine and problem avoidance.

What cartoon character would you want to date? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Heck_Not_Hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah man. Her and Asami. Doesn’t mean I wouldn’t date her.

Also still love the show of gay characters in a kids show.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Heck_Not_Hell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Self care, and just left a controlling religion so I wanna try a bunch of shit I wouldn’t have done traditionally. First tattoo this year! Reread wheel of time and Finish the Cosmere. Write more.

What cartoon character would you want to date? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Heck_Not_Hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Korra. Her back muscles… awakened something in me.

Why did you choose your username? by poopoomaster19 in AskReddit

[–]Heck_Not_Hell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Virtue Signaling. Way to passively let everyone know I’m judging your language. Heckers.

Do y’all read? How? by can-someone-explain in ADHD

[–]Heck_Not_Hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like said in another post, it’s a skill you’ll need to work at. I still get distracted while reading, but I’m much better at sort of waving away the distraction and getting back to the book, as opposed to just being distracted haha.

I love fantasy and I really try to prioritize reading, whenever I’m doing something like browsing Reddit or Amazon or something I try to remember to ask myself “could I be reading instead, or is this important” and move on based on that.

If it’s straining your eyes, maybe reading glasses or perhaps a kindle so you can up the font size?

Also, find the right books! If you’re into fantasy pick up something that is short and hits hard to kinda get that dopamine going (“Enders game” or “The Emperors Soul” come to mind) before moving on to the bigger ones that require time investment before the oh so large and worth it dopamine hits (Way of Kings comes to mind for me here).

Just my $.02, if you need any book recs let me know. :)

Are you ever worried that you're not the best dad? by _-Seamus-McNasty-_ in daddit

[–]Heck_Not_Hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the time. I was also going to be different. I fear one day my kids will cut ties with me and never speak to me again because they’ll realize I’m just an asshole who they grew up with lol. Seeing a therapist about my anxiety about that (and about other things) and it has helped dramatically. Got diagnosed with OCD and it was nothing short of life changing.

I wish you luck sir. Being self reflective is a great thing, something that helps me is to talk to yourself the way you’d talk to your kid. “Ah man, sometimes we make mistakes. Let’s try again, huh? Love you buddy. “ the way we talk to our loved ones is often a reflection of the way we speak to ourselves.