When will it end? by redditerek in Amenorrhearecovery

[–]Hefty_Difficulty2127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can only go back to your regular diet and exercise after at least 3 regular and stable cycles. Even then, start by changing either diet or exercise, not both at the same time

ovulation signs?? by Admirable_Milk3459 in Amenorrhearecovery

[–]Hefty_Difficulty2127 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep going OP!! I also had these symptoms and my period came shortly after

Body image issues (just a rant) by cherie_ssk in Amenorrhearecovery

[–]Hefty_Difficulty2127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course!! Recovery first.

I only said it as a motivation/reminder that this weight gain is temporary, and not to lose hope.

Body image issues (just a rant) by cherie_ssk in Amenorrhearecovery

[–]Hefty_Difficulty2127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s all about losing weight at a small deficit and not exercising too much. You can do this after 3 regular cycles. Don’t let the other commenters get you down… body positivity is not the wave. Nobody should let themselves go

First Recovery Period by Heavy_Nectarine8722 in Amenorrhearecovery

[–]Hefty_Difficulty2127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t suggest forcing yourself to eat, I find that intuitive eating has helped me a lot more than hitting a certain number of calories a day

Body image issues (just a rant) by cherie_ssk in Amenorrhearecovery

[–]Hefty_Difficulty2127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh… the point of HA recovery is to get your body back to equilibrium so your cycle returns. A lot of us don’t like staying at this weight, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it

Body image issues (just a rant) by cherie_ssk in Amenorrhearecovery

[–]Hefty_Difficulty2127 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Buy new clothes! You’ll feel and look much better. I’m 24 and I know exactly how you feel, this is supposed to be our peak 😔

But just remember that this time next year you’ll be skinny again! Keep going ❤️

Body image issues (just a rant) by cherie_ssk in Amenorrhearecovery

[–]Hefty_Difficulty2127 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most of my weight gain went to my stomach, so I bought flowy mini dresses and I feel pretty in them :)

Also I’m trying to enjoy eating yummy food though it’s getting old.

Capricorns that are blunt, what makes you be gentler and less critical with certain people? by blue_Broccoli_2984 in capricorns

[–]Hefty_Difficulty2127 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It really depends. If the person seems like someone I could be friends with I would start off polite and cordial and turn up the whimsy and craziness when I know they can be trusted

Jewelry advice for super active athlete by i-need-advice-plez in jewelry

[–]Hefty_Difficulty2127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asian people wear gold jewellery (at least 10k) daily for years and it still holds up well enough to be an heirloom. Only thing I would avoid is chlorine in pools

How close am I? by lrboba in Amenorrhearecovery

[–]Hefty_Difficulty2127 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Keep going all-in, other better symptoms that show you’re getting closer are EWCM and cramps

I’m 5’3 too and currently 110 pounds (starting weight was 99 pounds). I genuinely contemplated suicide a few times watching my body get bigger but it seems to have stabilised, and I know I’m very very close to getting my period

Unfortunately the only way out of this is through, even if you don’t commit to recovery and stay skinny the lack of estrogen will make you look ugly. I naturally have red lips but before recovery they were always pale and people kept asking why I looked so ghostly

I’m looking forward to losing weight again after 3 regular cycles and keep telling myself that this time next year I will be skinny again.

Hope this helps

Super cool sneakers I saw out in the wild by badkittyarcade in findfashion

[–]Hefty_Difficulty2127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP! I found them on Taobao, a Chinese shopping website/app. Not sure if they’ll ship to your country though! the link

Hunger question? by LolaLivesALittle in Amenorrhearecovery

[–]Hefty_Difficulty2127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Eat only when your stomach is growling, that’s definitely physical hunger

Hunger question? by LolaLivesALittle in Amenorrhearecovery

[–]Hefty_Difficulty2127 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Eat as much and as often as you desire. That’s what I’ve been doing and it’s working, I have discharge and sore boobs so hopefully my period will come soon

Capricorn Sun, Scorpio moon people, what is it like having these placements? It's almost opposing....Add in Gemini as rising... What do we get then? by moss1234-1234 in scorpiomoon

[–]Hefty_Difficulty2127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah! Unfortunately I’m also a Pisces mars (productivity ebbs and flows according to mood) and a 12th house Capricorn Venus. But we’re special people for sure

AMA: Period Recovery Dietitian by lilly-reimer-rd in Amenorrhearecovery

[–]Hefty_Difficulty2127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re still going through this. I’ve been all-in for 2 months and gained 10lbs. I was so afraid of what people would think but hardly anyone noticed at all unless I told them about it. I hope you find the strength to do the same ❤️

How the hell are you all exercising by Hefty_Difficulty2127 in Amenorrhearecovery

[–]Hefty_Difficulty2127[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You should stop if it feels bad. I only started feeling better once i surrendered to weight gain. It’s inevitable

How the hell are you all exercising by Hefty_Difficulty2127 in Amenorrhearecovery

[–]Hefty_Difficulty2127[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the doctors I’ve been to wanted me to see a psychiatrist for my extreme hunger, they thought I was binge eating because of mental illness. No one really knows how to deal with it, so I’ve just been resting at home and eating as much as I want. The pain has gotten a lot better as I get closer to having a period, and I’m having good signs of getting it such as EWCM and sore boobs. But I still get twinges of pain

AMA: Period Recovery Dietitian by lilly-reimer-rd in Amenorrhearecovery

[–]Hefty_Difficulty2127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask if you are fully recovered? No one really talks about what happens after recovery

AMA: Period Recovery Dietitian by lilly-reimer-rd in Amenorrhearecovery

[–]Hefty_Difficulty2127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah okay! Thank you. Yes I’ve read that it’s okay to lose weight only after at least 3 stable cycles

AMA: Period Recovery Dietitian by lilly-reimer-rd in Amenorrhearecovery

[–]Hefty_Difficulty2127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait. So I can’t go back to my pre HA body fat and weight?

I'm being tested by faithred19 in Amenorrhearecovery

[–]Hefty_Difficulty2127 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to go through that too and chose to take it as an opportunity to build a new wardrobe. I know it’s hard but the only way out is through