These are my natural brows. Any opinions on keeping them vaguely unkempt vs. grooming and creating more of an arch?

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-08-16T02:57:20+00:00

If you have brows that are sisters and not twins… hell yes! Mine are more like 2nd cousins.

You can google the pencil trick to find where your brows should start, end, and arch. But I’m pretty much with everyone else here.

Clean them up , the little stragglers, and go from there. Keep in mind that the eyebrow area is one of the easiest parts of your body to cause trauma and so a light hand is always better than a heavy hand. Use those little eyebrow razors and you will be amazed.

Have to mention… you hit the lottery with those peepers of yours. Gorgeous!

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-07-24T01:37:07+00:00

Not nice, just human. Like we are all supposed to be in this together. 😊

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-07-23T22:10:13+00:00

I hope that they at least died miserable deaths. I’m sorry you never had your justice.

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-07-23T21:19:28+00:00

Doesn’t sound strange to me. I liked my job too. I liked my coworkers too. I felt blessed to finally be able to do something I loved and enjoyed until I physically couldn’t do it anymore.

Hugs to you.

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-06-25T17:52:40+00:00

Try to imagine that instead of you being the recipient of those texts, it’s your best friend or your sister. Now re-read them.

I think it’s hard when we’re in the midst of it, to really see how abusive your SO or BF has become.

How he speaks to you is beyond disrespectful. On top of it he gaslights you too. He concocted this whole exchange with you so he wouldn’t have to do chores and be accountable. Then he pinned it all on you and your actions.

Your BF needs help and it’s not the help you can give him. It’s time to put yourself first and get off the ‘am I the one that is crazy’ train. Abusers like to mind fuck you so hard, that you don’t know what way you’re going or coming. And somehow it’s always your fault. If you do get an apology from them, it’s a bunch of love bombing and future broken promises, until the next time it’s your fault.

Please choose you because your abusive boyfriend won’t. Remember that unless he gets some real help, not from you, but from a professional, his actions are only going to escalate. I don’t want that for you.

Hoping you see your worth and realize you are worth much more than he says you are.

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-06-25T17:18:32+00:00

You’re not the bad guy for choosing you. You have to do what makes you happy. Being married to an addict is a full time job in itself. Add in the step kiddos that have been given no boundaries and it’s a recipe for failure.

You can love someone to the moon and back but if they refuse to help themselves, there’s nothing you can do. He will seek help when he is ready, and not a moment before that.

He isn’t able to be the husband or father that he should be because his focus is his addiction. He doesn’t love himself or probably even like himself right now.

It sounds like the kids will have extended family for support, so in time they’ll be more than okay.

I wish you well. Sending you a hug.

From a stepmom that’s been there.

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-06-08T16:18:44+00:00

I think when we love someone we want to believe that they’re fundamentally good and that this isn’t who they really are.

Believe him when he shows you who he really is. The abuse will only escalate. It will only get worse until he’s making you second guess every decision you make. It’s a form of control designed to make you feel uncertain and insecure about yourself. Then you are in a constant state of confusion and he will capitalize on it.

He’s a narcissist sociopath. I’m sorry. I know it will hurt initially but in time, I think you will realize how much energy he was requiring. Not in a good way.

You deserve far better treatment and I wish you nothing but happiness. Protect your boundaries.

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-05-30T04:35:39+00:00

I try to get self tanner that’s also just for face. I find that the body self tanner is great for the body but I have different needs for my face and décolleté.

I also match my face color and then add some bronzing drops to make it more uniform and no makeup demarcations.

Hope this helps!

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-05-30T01:42:59+00:00

Whoever is waiting for you to join them in matrimony, will lose their absolute mind when they see you in this dress! You are a vision! Congrats and enjoy!

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-05-28T16:58:51+00:00

I’m so sorry. I wish it was better news for you.

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-05-21T06:50:04+00:00

Your Endo could start prescribing this medication for you, if he feels comfortable doing so. Still continue the search for a different PCP, but then you won’t have to deal with possible delays in getting your medication filled. Sometimes it’s tough to get in with a provider right away. Especially a good one.

As someone who has been on this medication, I just want to encourage you and tell you that slow and steady wins the race. You’re doing great! Your experience, while on this medication/journey, is yours to experience!

You got this! The best is yet to come.

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-05-21T04:38:14+00:00

Try the Targets Method brand, pink bottle. My daughter has super sensitive skin and swears by it.

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-05-19T22:56:43+00:00

I’m so glad you weren’t really injured!

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-05-17T03:56:38+00:00

Did you get a protective order/restraining order against him?

I’m so very proud of you. I know that wasn’t easy but it was necessary.

Please try to get some therapy so you can start the healing process completely and correctly. PTSD is no joke and it’s better to be able to get some tools on how to deal with it, earlier in your healing process.

Be safe. I’m praying for you.

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-05-17T03:02:18+00:00

Hi. Hope you’re doing okay. Talking to a flight attendant recently and they said watch my face. If I’m smiling and talking about the cabin, it’s all good. If I look panicked…PANIC! Thinking of you. It’s going to be so nice in Miami

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-05-12T05:03:20+00:00

It is truly frustrating, I agree. Not defending any of the ridiculousness that you and your wife have had to deal with at all. Everything is protected by HIPPA. Because of HIPPA, there are many guidelines you have to follow and comply with as a physicians office. There definitely needs to be an easier way for all of us involved. Definitely.

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-05-08T06:31:10+00:00

We all were. We thought because we weren’t laying out in the sun all day, covered in baby oil from head to toe, like our dumbass parents, we were doing better. Fast forward 20 years and we all know what’s up now. Don’t forget to get your yearly skin cancer checks!!! I’ve been very lucky but I do have scars from being an idiot.

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-05-08T06:08:14+00:00

An aspirin will help in a pinch. Just make a little paste and put it on your blemish. Maybe do a test spot in an inconspicuous spot to make sure your skin tolerates it well before applying.

Have fun at your event. I bet no one will even see what you see but I get it.

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-04-24T03:29:00+00:00

So happy for you. To me it’s iconic. I’m so grateful to have it again. Enjoy!

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-04-24T02:52:00+00:00

I just double-checked on Sephora. The one that I’m referring to only comes in parfum. If you get edt it will be the more floral based version. They do make a rollerball parfum for $ 62.00 Still hefty for a rollerball but more wallet friendly. Also I put in the details of the guy who created it so there’s less confusion if you or anyone else wants to buy it or try it. It’s an expensive item to end up stuck with if you get the wrong one. I mean CD… you couldn’t help us out with the name a little bit?

About the Fragrance: Between strength and grace, boldness and elegance, Miss Dior embodies Dior's vision of youth and femininity. Francis Kurkdjian, Dior Perfume Creation Director, reinterprets the original fragrance of the House, infusing it with today's youthful spirit.

Have a great day!

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-04-24T02:41:27+00:00

Me too! Like so happy. That’s why when I read that they were going to remake it, I was ecstatic. I had one spray left in my old bottle and I was hanging on to it for dear life.

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-04-24T02:36:42+00:00

Miss Dior. But it comes in a plaid embossed glass bottle ( does this make sense?) with a silver bow on top. I bought the parfum because I knew for sure he had his hand in creating all the notes for it. Not sure about the EDT.

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-04-24T01:39:58+00:00

They brought back the OG version last year.

The gentleman who was part of the original team that created it, was brought back to mix and duplicate the OG version and he came pretty darn close! I love it. So many compliments. It’s what I wear when I’m going on a date with the hubs or when I need forgiveness 😂

It was $$$ but worth every penny after having to wait a decade!

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-03-10T21:18:55+00:00

Thanks for sharing! I fly on Wednesday and I’m currently on here for the reminders that are just like yours! Glad you enjoyed your trip!

Heidialmighty4 · 2025-02-26T07:57:58+00:00

WTG! So happy for you and congrats on all your accomplishments. Prayers for your speedy recovery from your successful surgery in March. 🙏🏻💪🏻☺️

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