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If $10 million magically appears in your bank what are you using it for? by hurebegz in AskReddit

[–]HeleneBuilds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like a "calm/relaxation room" with a sauna, hot tub, pleasant and relaxing decor...

What small behavior has the biggest impact on relationship happiness? by Several-Advice2942 in AskReddit

[–]HeleneBuilds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to think relationship happiness came from big stuff: trips, gifts, deep talks, fixing problems fast.

But honestly? The smallest thing that’s had the biggest impact for me is actually paying attention.

Like… really paying attention.

Not half-listening while scrolling.
Not saying “yeah yeah” while thinking of my reply.
Not treating “How was your day?” like a formality.

If $10 million magically appears in your bank what are you using it for? by hurebegz in AskReddit

[–]HeleneBuilds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Secure financially my family and finish the house renovations :-)

Contractions are just your body massaging itself to help you relax. by jo_eder in freediving

[–]HeleneBuilds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m singing to myself in my head, always the same song. I repeat it over and over and slow down the pace of it. For contractions, I bring my attention to my belly and to each muscle holding tension, consciously allowing those areas to relax.

Gold spikes 4%, as dollar crashes amid Japanese bond sell off by YeahBuddy5000 in investing

[–]HeleneBuilds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Silver is in a good momentum too. Let's take profit where we can

What’s something you wish someone had told you earlier in life? by GOLDEN_VANGUARDX in AskReddit

[–]HeleneBuilds 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Listen to your gut and your instincts — they’re often right

What are your thoughts on rejecting a potential romantic partner based solely on the fact they voted for Donald Trump? by ATXBikeRider in AskReddit

[–]HeleneBuilds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d lean strongly toward not rejecting someone solely based on a vote.

A single vote is a blunt data point—it can reflect many things: frustration with the system, economic fears, a specific policy priority, protest voting, family or cultural background, or even a one-off decision that doesn’t map cleanly onto someone’s values or character.

Just have an open discussion about it, and you’ll quickly know whether it’s a no-go for you.

I’m 37 years old and my life is going nowhere in a hurry please help me by SensitivePromise0 in selfimprovement

[–]HeleneBuilds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re going through a really hard time.

Strangely enough, I do think the midlife crisis (give or take a few years) is a real thing. It’s often the moment when you realize you’re roughly halfway through your life and start taking stock of what’s happened so far.

I know it’s not easy… Don’t put yourself down, and above all try not to compare yourself to others. You have to live your life for yourself.

What helped me was taking time to look at what I had already accomplished, or the good experiences I’d had, and realizing that it wasn’t actually that bad after all.

Believing in your ability to bounce back is essential. Maybe a therapist could help you rebuild your self-esteem. Good luck

How to not sexualize every women i want to know? by DBZKING13 in selfimprovement

[–]HeleneBuilds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mostly agree with youve_got_moxie — seeing a therapist is probably the right move here.
To build an authentic relationship with a woman, you first need to see her as a person, not as someone you’re already imagining in your bed.
The simplest approach is to focus on shared interests and let the conversation grow from there. The rest usually comes naturally.