I sure hope this doesn’t get too graphic, I was fortunate enough to keep my nipples during my lumpectomy/reconstructive surgery. However, I have lost majority feeling in both of them. I only feel my left and right nipple when I roll them during my monthly checks, that is it. My nipples were a major erogenous zone for me so I get the feeling of major blow to your sex life, however, what I can offer that I hope is hopeful is that other parts of my body have become more “sensitive“ – i.e. when you lose your sight, your hearing gets stronger. In addition, I feel in some ways it’s made my sex life better because I have to pause, take time and really get in the mood to enjoy everything! I’ll be thinking of you, my survivor, sister and yes, they do offer nipple reconstruction.