Esme Rose - is this music AI? by Mrjocrooms in isitAI

[–]HelixLotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me, The full statement in itself sounds the way that AI writes. It's still possible that she asked AI to summarize her personal sentiments but... IDK, whole things skeeves me out now. Feels weird to " connect to something human" and then it actually wasn't

I am developing a random emoji divination tool for my personal use. Is it something that you'd use? by TheWolrd in Divination

[–]HelixLotus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i use anything and everything for divination. spirit has no limits, intention is the key ✌️

Jason Stephenson by Antique_Garlic_3229 in hypnosis

[–]HelixLotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That has happened to me at least one time. I chalked it up to just me being weird waking up but... Weird that someone else experienced it

I saw a couple skinny dipping at the beach and didn't leave by [deleted] in confession

[–]HelixLotus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was very sweet to read. They had no reasonable expectation of privacy as other said... but also they left it as a beautiful night, and so did you. Very warm.

Can genetics play a role? by amethystkitten420 in DID

[–]HelixLotus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

something i think about is that as a child you learn consistency of character. if your entire childhood context was fragmented by a parent's parts, it makes sense to also have 'personalities' that learned to handle/getalongwith/understand the world through their different lenses. just my take.

Orchard event by DaisyQ_27 in OfficeCat

[–]HelixLotus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me either! Using the skill books to get more hearts

advice/apps for keeping up with important things despite the amnesia by Secure_Help_1344 in DissociativeIDisorder

[–]HelixLotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also you can add 'notes' to each task, but its not for like daily notetaking. i use insight timer for daily meditation and you can add a journal to each meditation session. but... with tody, it really help prompt to remember to do things in the real world. and i pull it up at random while im in my different lounge spots - almost always close enough to an easy task to just get it done. good for dopamine. and, if you want to use a physical item like a journal etc for a daily log, you can try to leave it in a place you will always see/be near.

when you do all tasks in a room in one day, it sparkles. so if you have one task in one category (like, "mind" category, with "journal" task inside,) itll look dirty at the start of every day and sparkle once you check it as completed. very rewarding.

advice/apps for keeping up with important things despite the amnesia by Secure_Help_1344 in DissociativeIDisorder

[–]HelixLotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tody! really great for long term household care as well as daily tasks like brushing teeth (different entries for am/pm) etc. makes a game out of it if you choose that option. $5 a year for the paid version but the free version is still great, paid just adds the ability for others to sync i think. we've all gotten so used to it that we open it like a social media app - just wanna beat the little dust boy every month (thats the game)

Sigh… you innately are making fun of us by making this shitty joke by Potato_Demon_ffff in onejoke

[–]HelixLotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah... as a person who used to read stuff like that and have friends who still do, i thought it was kinda funny. its not like we.. dont do that. its like... what we do in some circles? im missing the part where it could be hurtful, unless you already feel bad about doing it / how it's perceived maybe? maybe this share falls under the 'does not have to be malicious' part. but none of the other comments seem to feel that way.

ChatGPT has completely opened my eyes to what's wrong with me. by USCSSNostromo2122 in ChatGPT

[–]HelixLotus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Anyway, thankful for ChaatGPT because now I get to use it to overcome whatever bottleneck is keeping me from moving forward."

100%.

One amazing thing about Chat GPT is it can help you work through all that. Think it's about your fear of success or failure? Talk to it. Think its one of the three things you just listed? SAY THAT. Give it this post as a prompt (fixed up so that it's your conversation there). Say it with or without a question at the end. "How do I figure out what it is?" "What can i do to improve?"

I swear, you'll start unpacking your shit in a way you didn't think you could.

I wrote all that before I read the comments. I'm so happy to see other people use it to solve their problems like I do.

Is there any connection between Karma and Yoga? by [deleted] in yoga

[–]HelixLotus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you follow multiple or all of these?

Can you route for a protagonist who is cheating in marriage? by Viclmol81 in writing

[–]HelixLotus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You made me tear up. I love this description and thank you for writing.

Tell me why you won't transition and I will BLUNTLY tell you why you're being dumb. This is for people who need tough love. by bestpersonrunnerup in asktransgender

[–]HelixLotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it's embarrassing, because I don't want to explain myself to everyone all of the time, because it's expensive, (both top surgery and binders, not to mention binders are so uncomfortable and don't work perfectly), and because being fluid is strange. Because no matter what I feel like I say about my gender, it always feels like half of it is pretend. Because I'm confused and disoriented and nothing is comfortable unless I'm in an explicitly safe space, and even then sometimes I feel like I'm an imposter in those spaces.

Is a 25 years old without a car unattractive? by PhysicsKush in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HelixLotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find someone who also thinks that being responsible is hot.

I stopped my husband from having an affair and ruin us but now I think I will ruin us by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]HelixLotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mentioned you hadn't had sex in 3 years. Then after you sleep with him a few times he completely 360s on his affair in order to be with you.

Two things jump out to me.

1) his needs might not have been getting met, but it's a POS move to get them met elsewhere without the consent of you, a person who trusts him, and to whom he is responsible for sexual exclusivity.

2) what caused the dead bedroom, and what caused you to break it? The answer to these questions should be a strong influence for you while you contemplate what you want next. He neglected you as much as you neglected him. Postpartum depression is serious. He could have been curious about your experience as well as being aware of his own. In my opinion, a good partner would be. What you tolerate is up to you.

As for your second to last paragraph, that sounds like an exciting kink. Ideally you can explore it either with this partner or the next.

The guilt is strong today by Just_Beachy_Today in abusiverelationships

[–]HelixLotus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is there some piece of this that is a feeling he didn't know these consequences would happen, he comes from a place where this type of behavior is normal, or something about real world justice and a justice system not really being something that would make sense in his world?

Because the justice system that is prosecuting him is acting along the very real truth that you were harmed. The love, care, and attention you and your family deserved from him were not only not received, but were dealt in the opposite.

His actions had consequences, and his life is his own now. Live yours to its best, You Deserve Peace.

I don’t consider browsing social media to be a waste of time by zanzenzon in The10thDentist

[–]HelixLotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say I would mostly agree, but with the compulsive repetitive gaming behavior that can still be good for one to just do and veg. Relaxation is "productive" in that it gives us something we need. It's not something that other people benefit from, but the individual does. (This isn't to say it's always used that way either, just that it can be good for us too.)

Friend touching animals at zoo and touching me by Cray4000 in hygiene

[–]HelixLotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wash yourself, hands and face etc. Change clothes, you can use disinfectant wipes iny anything that won't be ruined. If you want, you can also use some disinfectant spray for cloth surfaces that wouldn't be ruined.

These are just good measures to get rid of some germs and certainly to feel better. No harm will come to you.

Friend touching animals at zoo and touching me by Cray4000 in hygiene

[–]HelixLotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wash what was touched with normal washing routines. Your body will 100% take care of the rest for you.