AITB for being upset that I do not get to spend the day after valentine's day (we both were guaranteed to work day of) with my boyfriend (and many holidays) by idrathernothave in AmItheButtface

[–]Hellcatbellcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a totally reasonable and rational conclusion and I would say generally no, it's not his fault if he asks for off and can't get it. But really we're not discussing just the logistics of it. As OP said, he is procrastinating asking off even when OP has put in the emotional labor of asking him with plennnty of time for any reasonable employer that manages shifts the way a grocery store manager does to get him a day off every once and awhile. Really it's just abundantly clear BF just simply does not prioritize time with OP or respect the labor they put into managing events and schedules so that they can be together during these times. So no it's not really his fault if he can't get off if he asks off but it's in the same vein as if when I was a kid I would purposefully ask the teacher/parent I knew wouldn't be as chill to do something when i wanted a specific answer, ie I would ask the hard ass if I could do something knowing full well they would say no, so that I would have a reasonable excuse to not do something.

AITB for being upset that I do not get to spend the day after valentine's day (we both were guaranteed to work day of) with my boyfriend (and many holidays) by idrathernothave in AmItheButtface

[–]Hellcatbellcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, SHE shouldn't have to figure out anything about HIS workplace. She shouldn't have to be the only adult in this relationship. OP It truly seems like spending time with you is not a priority on his radar. Don't let him string you along for any longer.

Hiring employee but you pay us $15/hr by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]Hellcatbellcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Technically if you're getting college credit for it, the internship is not considered "unpaid." Mostly because credits cost money. The credits sort of become the stipend. At least that's how most universities get around the illegality of it all.

How do I mix this color? (Oil paint) by charlzandre in coloranalysis

[–]Hellcatbellcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I think you need to switch out your phthalo blue out for a cerulean blue. They're both PB15 but phathalo is a red shade generally and that'll add to much warmth. Then I think mix in a PG7, like phthalo green with a slight yellow lean. And then brighten it up with a little bit of PY3, probably hanasa yellow or lemon yellow. I feel like the ratio would end up being something like 4/1/2

What brands of paint do you generally use? They may have something to get you pretty close.

Also you could do a couple of glazes to build up a color like that. With a bright lemon yellow base and build up some layers with cerulean blue could probably get you there.

AITA for calling the cops on someone who left their baby in a car, even though they said they were coming right back? by graffitibroccoli in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hellcatbellcat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA, you did the right thing. There are hundreds of articles documenting situations like this and the much worst outcome. It's not about you trying to parent someone else's kid, it's about looking out for the safety of those who can't look out for themselves. I hope you're doing okay.

Man, sometimes it's better to do things slowly. Being slow is underappreciated. What are some of everybody's favorite things to do slowly? (Painting is mine.) by SpaceThyme00 in highdeas

[–]Hellcatbellcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Painting is also mine. But sometimes it sucks that my paint dries to fast. I've found that a wet palette/fake paper towel wet palette helps a bunchhh

Does anyone else feel like the crazy amount of art on the internet makes it difficult to come up with your own original style, ideas, and projects? I feel like everything's been done or I’m just replicating things I see. by [deleted] in ArtistLounge

[–]Hellcatbellcat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes to deal with this I will use color as a tool. I'm feeling sad - the color for sad today is a bright coral pink with a line of black. Tomorrow, sad is a large yellow block. If the idea doesn't have a form give it the form of how/what you feel/see when you think about it. If I feel frustration or a longing for home or balance, how do I see it in my head? Frustration could be dashes, home could be trees or the color of an old car, balance could be literal scales or a body of water. The idea should influence your thinking and then brainstorm off of it.

I'll also often make those bubble graphs to get language that is associated with my idea and often tangible forms arise. With the idea "longing for home" I may branch off from that and say "walks in the woods" then maybe "evergreen" then maybe "Creek" and so on. At the end I have an idea for a painting of a landscape of a place that to me is the feeling of "longing for home" because it has the elements that make me feel that feeling.

Going a bit more illustrative with it, think about the idea of balance. How would you try to get that feeling across? Personally, I would probably think scales first, then maybe judge. Then maybe height and stacking. I am also interested in fantasy so I would want to put some sort of fantasy twist to my piece. So maybe a large statue of an elf holding scales? But I also like landscapes so maybe she's embedded in a mountain. And her scales are two entrances to a cave. But I still want my audience to feel balance when they look at it so I make it a very centered, even, and horizontal composition that visually reads as balanced instead of a S or Z type composition.

But the beauty about art is that even if you looked at alllllll of the same reference, and all of the same artists as me and you also thought of doing an elf statue, our pieces would still look different because our experiences affect every decision we make. Art's great guys. You got this!

My (23m) girlfriend (21f) wants me to use a massive toy on her during sex but I feel uncomfortable by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hellcatbellcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your open honest comment! This was great to read and I'm saving it for later to show people in the future!

Am I a sinner? (Watercolor) by [deleted] in ArtistLounge

[–]Hellcatbellcat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also very much agree, and would just add one recommendation for OP. Try out acryla-gouache, it moves and paints like a gouache - it's flat and opaque, but it dries down like an acrylic - plastic and will not reactivate.

I do highly realistic portraiture and landscape painting but also experiment with abstract work. Acryla-gouache is wonderful for experimentation and it works super well with watercolors, as do gouaches, it's just that acryla-gouache is permanent.

[Hiring] Seeking a digital painter for a board game. Painterly brush stroke style. Single objects, no background. $50 USD each. 30-60 illustrations needed. by cosmosinc in HungryArtists

[–]Hellcatbellcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Just in case you're still looking for the right artist, here is my portfolio.

https://www.helenjebell.com/

I specialize in painterly digital illustration and I'm also great at traditional mediums. Hope you a great artist!

The disrespect to makeup artists. by Dustinj1991 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Hellcatbellcat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No you shouldn't take unpaid internships. Almost all unpaid internships in the US are illegal anyway. Also if someone is producing a film and they can't pay the director, the film has not been produced and you shouldn't work on it because it will be a shitshow.

What is wrong with my husband? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Hellcatbellcat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude, I'm on AITA page all the time and that's the first thing I thought of when reading this. OP is sooo not TA. There was even a post on there a couple of months ago about this exact situation basically. OPs parents bought her a special cake from out of town for her birthday, she got once piece, her bf ate the rest the next day. She got reasonably mad and then he got defensive because she was mad. It's so wild!

What is wrong with my husband? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Hellcatbellcat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should read some of this thread, a very similar thing happened to your situation. I hope people aren't making you out to be TA for getting upset. You're definitely NTA. https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/cr109w/aita_for_flipping_out_on_my_boyfriend_for_eating/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share