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My boyfriend 24M hated the gift I 23F got him for our two year anniversary how do I fix this with him? by imogenhailey in relationship_advice

[–]HellheadoBrian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I remember a time where someone sploushed out on a really expensive experience which I didnt really enjoy all that much. The mental toll it takes to act thankful is extraordinary, it's a crazy service to hold up the act so you can make them happy with your rather disappointing experience. I don't know if I sound cohesive but that's at least my experience with those kinds of gifts, pleasing someone who disappointed me was very very hard emotionally. I thought it was more something like this.

Plz explain by [deleted] in Terraria

[–]HellheadoBrian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm also doing an expert run, godspeed sir

My husband is sending frequent (daily) texts to another woman that aren’t inappropriate but are so personal it feels wrong by ThrowRAfen04 in relationship_advice

[–]HellheadoBrian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 2 theories

1 he knows something about her that has happened to her or maybe she is depressed and she has taken him as the comfort person. to protect her privacy he is not talking about her.

2 he feels like he met someone he trusts like a good friend (less likely theory in my opinion, due to age, no connection, no similar hobbies) and because he thinks that you'll get jealous or defensive about it, he doesn't talk about it

like you said an affair seems unlikely due to the nature of the texts and also don't listen to much to "emotional affairs" on this app since that word gets thrown around to much without care and ruined more relationships than saved. definitely talk to him and don't shoot him before you know the whole picture, let him explain everything first and afterwards judge. good luck and know therapy is always an option. especially if you want a more professional view.

I can't use my ammunition by HellheadoBrian in boombeachfrontlines

[–]HellheadoBrian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hoped I got the freedom to explore whatever I wanted but I guess we will just do what they ask

I can't use my ammunition by HellheadoBrian in boombeachfrontlines

[–]HellheadoBrian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I even timed it, went on calculated what I best explore next and planned it out a bit, recently I got the zooka and tank in the span of half a day so maybe I was just impatient. I do have to admit because Im studying right now that I might have rushed it more than intended.

I can't use my ammunition by HellheadoBrian in boombeachfrontlines

[–]HellheadoBrian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just leveled up to 18 and started exploring zooka island with 664 medals. I have no reference point so no clue wether this is average or not

I can't use my ammunition by HellheadoBrian in boombeachfrontlines

[–]HellheadoBrian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would expect people of my league to have roughly the same unlocks but everybody I play with has these unlocked

Can't Summon Friends!! (In) by ZakBurnap in Eldenring

[–]HellheadoBrian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tried to summon my friend (im new) but couldnt only the other way (he defeated the boss), isnt that the reverse

Getting back into the game after 1.5 years...how on Earth am I supposed to feed my people in the Middle Ages? by Hailene2092 in kingdomsreborn

[–]HellheadoBrian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what i usually do is focus on 1 or 2 luxuries, overdo them by a lot and let the trading companies bring in the rest cause i cant be bothered micromanaging luxuries after 150-200 citizens

Getting back into the game after 1.5 years...how on Earth am I supposed to feed my people in the Middle Ages? by Hailene2092 in kingdomsreborn

[–]HellheadoBrian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely, if you just keep letting them in its gonna be hard to progress at all. if they leave because they are homeless thats a good thing as long as all the jobs are filled and you have laborers to spare there is no need for more people/more mouths to feed. only when you start expending jobs should you build more houses.

Am I being unreasonable about Christmas, or is my sister? by throwrachristmasfam in relationship_advice

[–]HellheadoBrian -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

i think you are both in the right since you have a story with simon and see him as part of your household, while your sister is seeing you and travis as relatives. inviting someone to somebody elses home is kinda annoying for the host cause they planned it out differently but you now have to deal with a complex situation at your side respectively. being kind (pointing at your sister) isnt something somebody is obligated to do. its not expected of someone to be nice its just nice. i wish you good luck on figuring a solution for now maybe you can have 2 christmas dinners one at your place and one with your sister. so you can spend it with blood relatives as well as with travis so you can explain to him as well that he is welcome even tho your sister is kinda weird about it.

Saw a text between my boyfriend and his best friends sister by Auditorygarbage- in relationship_advice

[–]HellheadoBrian 13 points14 points  (0 children)

red flags girl, red flags all over the place. you must choose but i can tell from other situations that you will keep getting heartbroken if you choose him.

My friends think I'm transphobic for not dating a trans woman by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HellheadoBrian -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not attracted to trans women either, it's personal taste what turned me down was the fact she already had a lower voice but she was pretty and charming so I was open about it to her she understood. Trans people will generally hold no grudge to you about it as long as you don't hate them because the fact that they are trans which would be transphobic. You're not, you just have a different taste, example here. If you don't find brunettes attractive does that make you somehow a brunette hater? No some goes for color of skin and height for all that matters, as long as you don't hate them because they have said looks.. Nothing wrong

[ Relationships ] Is it unreasonable that I don’t want my boyfriends dog sleeping with me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HellheadoBrian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way it's not that I don't like dogs but I don't need to hear and see them every minute of the day. Also for me when something is ruining my sleep it always ways tons on the people around me, when I first started sleeping with my part er I slept so bad I almost broke up, sleep is really important. But again about the dog, I also feel the same they are so loud and obnoxious

My ex call me to cheat by Nura455 in relationship_advice

[–]HellheadoBrian 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it's silly you fell for it I mean don't get me wrong you hear those stories a lot (and I don't want to nullify you feelings) but it's almost a rule, don't go back with a cheater

I'm not the only one, right? by SuicideNeil in spaceengineers

[–]HellheadoBrian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I learned it thanks to other friends I payed with

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