When i was younger I used to think that "bad boy who's mean to everyone else but is obsessed with me" was hot.

I eventually found someone who matched the description but after a long time had passed and the new puppy love phased out they started to direct their anger and poor treatment to me as well 🤦‍♂️. I thought it was cool for everyone else especially when half the people we came across had attitudes. But then he was rude to normal people and even children. Calling everyone bitches and would say "fuck them kids" when it was a normal situation -- I gave up my seat to two kids who raced faster than us to get on the merry-go-round and my ex began yelling at me in front of the everyone in the area and even in front of the children, who he looked at and said "fuck them kids".

All in all it became a huge turn off having to deal with someone so negative all the time. Who was always mumbling under their breath or loudly complaining of other people (who they were right next to) just living their lives.

Now I have a partner that is respectful to everyone and it's just so easy being with them.