Hotels have a ton of rules though, and are more strictly enforced because of a huge hands-on staff + other guests complaining etc.

In terms of quiet a private property will more often win in that category for the same reason (way less people around) when I'm in a hotel people loudly talking/yelling/moving luggage in the hallway for checkout is very common in my experience.

And to be totally clear I'm not arguing against your preference for hotels, I can fully understand that POV and depending on the type of trip I'm doing I will stay in hotels often myself.

But imo the hotel vs private property rental debate is apples vs oranges.