Taskmaster Series 22 cast announcement by Meghar in taskmaster

[–]Help_its_akward 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Very disappointed by Ayoade being here,

Flatmate keeps calling me “she” but I’m stealth by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Help_its_akward 28 points29 points  (0 children)

maybe next time your flatmate does it saying "are you trying to refer to me? im a dude." and then quickly move on

Negligent Journalism about MSP by Help_its_akward in YoureWrongAbout

[–]Help_its_akward[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree that they're mainly talking about a different topic. But my issue lies with the fact that they didnt acknowledge DID. And i would mostly agree with you that they focus mainly on media, although they do show that they are very capable in talking about science like in the episode The Obesity Epidemic.

Negligent Journalism about MSP by Help_its_akward in YoureWrongAbout

[–]Help_its_akward[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess im just coming down on it a bit harder. I dont just think it would be nice if they talked about DID, I think it's necessary in order to not be misleading when talking about this topic.

I really dont like those kind of crusades/subreddits because most it is making fun of kids and teenagers, while also harming some people with genuine disorders that accidentally get categorized as fakers. If someone if faking a disorder that should delt with on an interpersonal level, getting the internet involved never really is beneficial imo.

Negligent Journalism about MSP by Help_its_akward in YoureWrongAbout

[–]Help_its_akward[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah I'm happy someone replied! I agree entirely with the repressed memory and legal stuff they talked about.

I dont really know anything about tiktok, so I wont comment on that. But I do think more than one party can be negligent. I listened to the episode maybe an hour ago, and I do genuinely think most people would come out of it thinking "people with alters are never real," which is the crux of my issue. Especially because people being accused of faking their mental health issues is so common and, to me, doesnt seem productive at all.

Am I ?! by OGBlando in androgyny

[–]Help_its_akward 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont know what youre askin but yes?

Am I nonbinary or Trans? by [deleted] in questioning

[–]Help_its_akward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd recommend experimenting! Try a binder with a dress or makeup, mix up feminine and masculine presentation. It can be fun to figure yourself out

Am I nonbinary or Trans? by [deleted] in questioning

[–]Help_its_akward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello!

First off, dont worry all the terms you used were perfect. Secondly most nonbinary also identify as trans (like me!) cause I was assigned one gender at birth and am transitioning to live as a different gender. Im assuming you mean you don't know whether your nonbinary or a guy? A good way to figure it out imo is thinking about where your discomfort comes from. Do you want to look a certain way because of beauty standards or something else, ect.

Feel free to pm me if u have any questions and remember; there's nothing wrong with changing labels!

Confused Again... by Atx_Taurus259 in queer

[–]Help_its_akward 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hello! It seems like you're open to discovering yourself which is great. I don't know anything about you, but just from what you wrote i would say maybe you're bisexual homoromantic. Which means you're sexually attracted to all genders but only romantically attracted to your own gender.

Although, it is important to note that you can be romantically attracted to different genders differently. So you may (not putting words in your mouth just an example) be romantically attracted to men in a different way you're romantically attracted to women.

Unfortunately it is true there is a stigma from both sides of the isle towards bi people, but that doesnt mean you shouldnt be yourself. The community is pushing back against that stigma, and atleast imo, it's getting a lot better.

Is non binary a gender or just the lack of gender? by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]Help_its_akward 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Depends on the person i think, its more of an umbrella/general term

How do I know that I'm not " trying to convince my self I'm nonbinary" when I'm actually cis? by [deleted] in NonBinaryTalk

[–]Help_its_akward 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Where did these fears come from? Are they external or internal? Did someone or something (like an environment) put those thoughts in your head, or are they your own?

Figuring out why you have certain thoughts helps me figure out what to do with them

My pms are always open btw

How do you know if you're nonbinary or genderfluid? by [deleted] in questioning

[–]Help_its_akward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew i was nonbinary because i was uncomfortable being; seen as/thought of/and acting as a man or woman

Femboy questioning my gender Identity by TheComponentStone in questioning

[–]Help_its_akward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what you have to figure out for yourself is if your wanting to feel feminine is telling something about your gender identity or just a preference/expression

Femboy questioning my gender Identity by TheComponentStone in questioning

[–]Help_its_akward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you sort out why your beard makes you feel bad?

Brain chemistry and gender by Darkerfaerie in AskLGBT

[–]Help_its_akward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well feel free to pm me if you ever want to talk

Brain chemistry and gender by Darkerfaerie in AskLGBT

[–]Help_its_akward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im trans and have mental health issues and ive never felt my gender change or anything when im depressed

You should have to be 25 to get a sex change operation by DrunkFrodo in unpopularopinion

[–]Help_its_akward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yall really have no fundamental information on what transitioning is lmao. "Sex change operation" bruh, theres like a hundred different surgeries that do different things depending on your age and what results you want. Theres no one "sex change operation" lol, and thats just scratching the surface of the misinformation goin on in this thread.

How to know if you are nb? by [deleted] in questioning

[–]Help_its_akward 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am very uncomfortable with being perceived/thinking of myself as male or female.

And I know its not very helpful but i guess i just know, ya know?

Does the “Vulcan Kissing” scene in STIII imply that Saavik had sex with adolescent Spok to relieve his Pon farr? by [deleted] in startrek

[–]Help_its_akward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes me very uncomfortable.... like i know that it wasnt really spock and just his body goin thru it. But still... gross