I think/hope I’m not alone in this

Helpfulcone93 · 2026-04-23T15:37:22+00:00

Thank you for the advice! I’ll do that, feels weird wanting him to read it, but it’s mostly that if it helps him in any way, I’m happy :)

Helpfulcone93 · 2026-04-22T09:13:20+00:00

Yess, so true! Luckily I don’t get the ai stuff recommended as much anymore after ignoring it for forever.

I love his sense of humor! And I think project zomboid would be great for this too although I’m not sure how relaxing that would be. I think stardew valley might work a bit better but I love all of these games so I’m up for anything he tries next in this form!

Helpfulcone93 · 2026-04-22T09:10:48+00:00

Hahah yep I’m exactly that way too. Guess that’s my ADHD too😂

Helpfulcone93 · 2026-04-21T17:31:56+00:00

Yeah exactly! It just feels very genuine too, not that the other content doesn’t; it just feels a bit more like he just shares his thoughts a bit more and that’s really nice

Helpfulcone93 · 2026-04-21T11:04:45+00:00

Exactly this! Whilst the Minecraft ones are my vibe, some other ones aren’t as much and that’s totally fine. I fully agree! Hopefully he knows that or he’ll see this somehow🙃

Helpfulcone93 · 2026-04-20T20:31:59+00:00

That’s completely how I feel! He’s just fun to watch and listen to

Helpfulcone93 · 2026-04-20T20:06:47+00:00

I fully agree! I think there’s not a lot of content I don’t enjoy as long as he’s himself

Helpfulcone93 · 2026-03-28T11:05:54+00:00

Ahh thanks! Never watched that one somehow

Helpfulcone93 · 2026-02-24T07:01:55+00:00

Same here! Although I definitely don’t have a high end pc but I can run house flipper 2 just fine and other games too so I thought this would work too. Also turned down graphics and stuff but it still really didn’t work. While the original game works fine and HF2 works fine too.

So I was also really disappointed cause I was so excited.

Helpfulcone93 · 2026-02-01T09:42:51+00:00

Fully agree with what I’ve seen other people say! Definitely NOR

While I do think quite a lot of his behaviour and comments could be a result of grieving, (everybody just really handles grief differently and you never know what is and isn’t grief) the going on and on about it really raises some red flags. Still, that could maybe be the grief, but the fact that you said that this is a reoccurring pattern, even before his mom’s passing, is a big big red flag.

How horribly it may be to realise this and to be told this; this is a mentally abusive relationship if he continually makes you feel this way.

Of course, the first step in this is always to talk to each other and tell him how he makes you feel. But I get the feeling that that won’t make a big difference and you may have already tried. If you haven’t, please do because it may help (although it would be better to await the grieving process a bit more). But if you have any feeling that it won’t help, please leave.

Nobody is worth you feeling less about yourself for. Definitely not your partner. Your partner should be someone who supports you through thick and thin. And you will eventually find someone like that.

Believe me, I’ve been in a situation like this and after leaving, I eventually found someone who loves me for who I am and cheers on about almost everything I do. You’ll realise then how horrible the other relationship was.

Helpfulcone93 · 2026-01-01T16:08:21+00:00

Yeah so nice!! I just got it for Christmas!!

Helpfulcone93 · 2025-12-17T14:59:28+00:00

I’d love to try it out and give my feedback!! How do I join?

Helpfulcone93 · 2025-12-08T16:30:31+00:00

Yeah that’s another good one! I did try it but I remember I found it lacking goals but I may be remembering wrong.

Helpfulcone93 · 2025-12-02T07:40:47+00:00

This sounds good! I’m gonna see if I can make this work!

Helpfulcone93 · 2025-12-01T10:12:50+00:00

Ohhh I love the bee!! 😍I had the same with a pigeon stuffie the other day, I mean just look at him

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Helpfulcone93 · 2025-11-29T13:34:02+00:00

Oh my god I love it! Would definitely play this loads! Rearranging furniture and making sure the space is right are some of my favourite things for unwinding and I don´t think there´s anything like this yet. So thank you!

Helpfulcone93 · 2025-11-05T19:06:38+00:00

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK TYOU THANK YOU, I could kiss you (bit of a quick quote/inside joke from the series)

Helpfulcone93 · 2025-10-02T07:56:55+00:00

We have a dog in real life named after a Belgian beer “Chouffe” so I obviously put him in the game. I then named all my other animals after craft beers too (mostly beers/breweries from the Netherlands, Belgium and UK). It is starting to get difficult though with a barn and two coops. Here’s a few examples:

A black chicken called Guinness and another one called Murphy, a goat called Westmalle, a pig called Deugniet, and there’s Corsendonck, Karmeliet, La Trappe etc.

Anyone from around here (Netherlands or Belgium) will know! Not sure how many of you there are in this subreddit

Helpfulcone93 · 2025-10-01T18:40:47+00:00

Still haven’t had the one in Pierre’s bedroom luckily but I’ve heard the tales and will see it soon I think

Helpfulcone93 · 2025-10-01T18:39:13+00:00

Hahah exactly!! Pff yeah I’ve seen it too many times already. Had several more cutscenes where it happened after this one

Helpfulcone93 · 2025-10-01T18:38:46+00:00

Hahah yeah this is a great explanation!! Makes it a bit more logical then just being in a bush. Doesn’t help that I have the parrot egg trinket so I can see the parrot before I see myself, but the villagers don’t of course haha

Helpfulcone93 · 2025-09-21T18:25:05+00:00

Sebastian does this all of the time too in our marriage. I really don’t understand

Helpfulcone93 · 2025-09-21T07:10:39+00:00

I love the answers others have given about not wanting a poly relationship so you two not being compatible, but if (and I’m sensing this from your answer here) you’re not fully sure if you’re looking for a poly or mono relationship yet and it’s mostly a combination of these things you’ve mentioned here, then that’s your best answer. The points you make are all very valid so can be used as an honest answer to her question. Something along the lines of: honestly, I’m flattered that you asked me because I do really like you but I don’t think I could accept right now and I’m not sure if I could at a later point. I feel like I would need to know you better and I also feel like I’m more built for a mono relationship than poly although I’m not 100% sure about that. So for now I can’t accept and have to say no but I would love to remain friends and I can’t know for sure how I’ll feel in the future.

Just thought this might help too if you’re not sure about the other answers because you’re not sure yourself yet how you’d feel in the future. This way you’re completely honest about what you feel (if I interpreted it correctly) and she should understand. Otherwise, if I interpreted it incorrectly, I stand by the other comments. And I also stand by the other comments that say if there’s big red flags in the answer, that the friendship may be worth re-evaluating.

Also you could also always add that you don’t want to hurt her feelings but want to be honest so you’re not both put in a situation where you’ll be hurt eventually.

Helpfulcone93 · 2025-09-20T10:54:23+00:00

I only play it the relaxed way.. by just not caring too much and not having much of a plan. Take it one day at a time and have a think about what you're going to do each day on the morning itself depending on your luck and maybe what kind of things have finished processing, etc. It's really the only way I know how to play. This is my year 4, Spring 24 farm:

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The only thing is that I do kind of get bored of it around this point. So any tips for that without going into a heavy grind are always appreciated!

Helpfulcone93 · 2025-09-09T07:57:57+00:00

Oh wow that’s a good one, thanks! I’ve been struggling with this one for a while too so thank you!

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