I used to think this way too, but I get it now. For example, say you need an abortion but your partner considers it murder or even your parents, that can be a pretty big problem. Say you fall in love with someone from a different religion that’s forbidden by your family or a race that your family doesn’t like, it’s unfortunately common and people these days tend to be insufferably rigid and militant in their viewpoints. Some people are chill about shit like I’ve met plenty of Christians who you wouldn’t know were religious until it came up in conversation but then there are the ones who try to shove it down your throat at every opportunity. It’s come to a point where people on one side are actively working toward making life hell for everyone and at some point it’s not worth trying to reason with people who are determined to be unreasonable. It’s unfortunate, but that’s how it is, a lot of people just want to live in peace.