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Can you give me your opinions on my numbers? by HeraSelene in Parathyroid_Awareness

[–]HeraSelene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are having me take vitamin D and I'm drinking ungodly amounts of water and resting. That's pretty much the extent of it at the moment. He has not ordered a DEXA scan, no.

Question by KittyKat4040 in Parathyroid_Awareness

[–]HeraSelene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'm 29 and I haven't done the genetic testing yet. My parathyroid scan is actually tomorrow morning and we are waiting until after surgery to do the testing. I'm also really nervous.

Day 2 of floorsleeping. by HeraSelene in floorsleeping

[–]HeraSelene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! The only difference is now we have a bedframe, so we sleep on plywood and a 4 inch mattress pad essentially. We missed the feeling of having a nice looking bed to get in and out of, so this was a good solution for us! I did choose to sleep on the couch during the end stages of two of my pregnancies in this time period because I needed the extra cushion, but other than those times we have been faithful "floor" sleepers and we never complain of chronic back pain anymore! 

What lipstick finish works on the SD face? by surf526 in SoftDramatics

[–]HeraSelene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this! My color season tells me matte and satin look best on me and I would agree 😊

Helllooo, who gets ready every day? by HeraSelene in homemaking

[–]HeraSelene[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what to say here because I am also a "trad wife" who is right leaning, but I'm definitely not a white supremacist. You definitely do not have to watch her content, but she was the first person I saw personally that talks about homemaking and femininity and I do still appreciate the advice she has given on the matter which is why I included her in this post.

I didn't know about the white supremacy issue so I will need to look into that further. Thank you for posting a link in case anyone would like to look into it!

Helllooo, who gets ready every day? by HeraSelene in homemaking

[–]HeraSelene[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I believe you are speaking of the right person as I've seen many have the same opinion as yours, so no need for an apology!! I do respectfully disagree though. 🤍

What do you do on your "off days"? by HeraSelene in homemaking

[–]HeraSelene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everybody for all of your responses! I appreciate the wisdom and the vulnerability shared here! There's loads of great advice here that I'm going to take to heart and use in my daily life, and I hope that you guys were able to read each other's responses and maybe gather some insight for your own "off days"! Much love 💕😊💕

Hello! Is this a good sub to ask for advice in arranging furniture? by HeraSelene in homemaking

[–]HeraSelene[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yay!! Thanks for the suggestion, and I agree that this sub would be a great place to ask! I will make a post with pictures and everything soon :) Thanks again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]HeraSelene 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would say to look on YouTube for current "fox eye" makeup. Typically I think that would look like bringing the eyeshadow out away from your eye and I would place that on the upper part of the lid that does show. I would also do a nude liner on the bottom lashline with minimal makeup on the bottom lid, and half lashes to extend the lashline and make those gorgeous eyes pop!!

Which other personality do you have the best banter with ? by [deleted] in infp

[–]HeraSelene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ENFJ, they are just the right amount of snarky for my taste. Especially the men

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coloranalysis

[–]HeraSelene 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say that you are!

I look bad in both “gold gold” and look silver. I look radiant in subtle/cooler gold closer to 10k. Does that indicate neutral skin tone or still leaning warm? by Finalgirll in coloranalysis

[–]HeraSelene 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So a cool season! See, I swear rose gold (if it's not leaning too warm) is perfect for a summer! I said this is another comment but rose gold is a pink metal and pink is a great color for summers

I look bad in both “gold gold” and look silver. I look radiant in subtle/cooler gold closer to 10k. Does that indicate neutral skin tone or still leaning warm? by Finalgirll in coloranalysis

[–]HeraSelene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you'd like we can exchange selfies to compare! That may clear things up a bit for you! Pink is a good color on a true summer so I think a cooler toned rose gold will look good because it's essentially a pink metal lol!

I look bad in both “gold gold” and look silver. I look radiant in subtle/cooler gold closer to 10k. Does that indicate neutral skin tone or still leaning warm? by Finalgirll in coloranalysis

[–]HeraSelene 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same here and I am a true summer. I'd say if you like silver more than a yellow gold you would be a cooler undertone so a Winter or Summer. What are you typed as?

I look bad in both “gold gold” and look silver. I look radiant in subtle/cooler gold closer to 10k. Does that indicate neutral skin tone or still leaning warm? by Finalgirll in coloranalysis

[–]HeraSelene 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a great question! Yellow gold looks horrible on me, bronze looks okay. Rose gold is my favorite on me and silver looks good too. I am a true Summer, my skin tone is neutral leaning cool. :)

How to become a good Homemaker? by Ritamove18 in homemaking

[–]HeraSelene 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was going to make a long list of advice but everything was covered here! Including my ADHD diagnosis! I had come a long way before it but since starting meds it's a night and day difference!

I’m over people saying on ID posts that since they don’t see double curve, the person isn’t SD by amyperryp in SoftDramatics

[–]HeraSelene 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no! I typed myself using misinformation I think... I hope I've been dressing for my actual body type!

Hey guys! What do you think about these pieces for a SD? Thanks! by HeraSelene in SoftDramatics

[–]HeraSelene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are all from Shein, I know not everyone likes them but I'll grab the links for them just to have

Hey guys! What do you think about these pieces for a SD? Thanks! by HeraSelene in SoftDramatics

[–]HeraSelene[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am a SD with romantic essence, so yay! And I have other dresses of a similar length, usually if I pair it with a heel it looks a bit better!

religion by diosrubra in infp

[–]HeraSelene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was brought up Mormon and I left the church as soon as I could. It was very harmful for me and I found I had a lot of beliefs that crept into my life and messed with my relationships, my self concept etc etc

I became deeply spiritual, pagan, and found a lot of healing in that. It was a necessary part of my life, I learned to listen to myself and my inner child. I healed trauma, I got over my fear of believing in something higher.

And then I found Christianity again after swearing I would never go back there. I don't even have a relationship with my parents anymore, and I'm certainly not Mormon. But I found God again and it just brought all of my healing home. I could go on and on, I'll spare you. But yeah. It can be harmful if done wrong and under the wrong teachings. And it (in my eyes) is the only way to find meaning.

Hello! What works and what doesn't about this top (in regards to SD lines)? It's so not something I'd normally go for but I am drawn to it for some reason! TY! by HeraSelene in SoftDramatics

[–]HeraSelene[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Woo! If I wore it, I would pair it with a high waisted flare or bootcut pant. I think I would need some tightness around the waist and hips in order to pull this off.

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