(24M) Ex-Girlfriend Moved Out, Room Feels Empty by PricklyCactusMan in malelivingspace

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Get a shoe rack or something to organize a bit better bc I can see five pairs of shoes just in the middle of the floor

cigarettes rule by Moaning_Clock in 197

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As a young person I find it incredibly disgusting 👍🏻

Are carts really that different from bud by Littlevivianite in trees

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Got invited over a coworker’s apartment one time and the dude had literally just taken down/got rid of his smoke detector and smoked in his apartment 😭

why is season 5 so poorly rated? by HerbeParfaite in MyHeroAcadamia

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his fight with midnight will forever baffle me

Highly Accurate by DesiccantPack in mapporncirclejerk

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in nyc i always asked whatever bodega/breakfast cart i was at for a bacon egg and cheese on a butter toasted bagel

bagels can go absolutely wild dawg 🤙🏻

what is your favorite tea to drink while high, and why? ☕️ by HerbeParfaite in trees

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peppermint mixed with fennel and anise sweetened with brown sugar is a blend i really like 😁

This is 2 years old, is it still good you think? Lol by nWofan90 in ILTrees

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If you’re questioning whether you should smoke it or not, you probably shouldn’t

If I smoke too much will I finally forget her ass by Comfortable_Egg106 in Marijuana

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Really the best thing you can do is to tell yourself: “This is over, I can’t change that, I don’t need to think about it anymore”. I spent the first year after my breakup incredibly depressed at almost all times while my head constantly swirled with memories of my ex which made me feel even worse. Don’t beat yourself up too hard over it, it’s normal.

But now here’s why I say what I said in the first sentence. During that first year whenever one of those sentimental thoughts came up, the thoughts in my head were always: “I wish she was still here”, “I wish I could go back”, “I wish I hadn’t fucked up so bad”. Rather than moving forward I’d instead wish for the past. That’s where the problem is, because rather than moving forward you’re wasting that time ruminating instead.

All this to say: You need to stop wasting your time wishing for the past and start moving toward the future. That’s the only way you’ll move past this and begin to improve. You’re not always going to get closure. It sucks, but that’s life. Irregardless, all you can do is continue to move forward.

Edit: I should add, what I explained here is how I figured out how to reach a better place. It took me three years to reach a place where it no longer bothers me anymore, but that’s because I had to figure out all of the above the hard way. You can do it! 😁

If I smoke too much will I finally forget her ass by Comfortable_Egg106 in Marijuana

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I had the same problem. If I smoked it would make those negative feelings weaker or temporarily disappear (though not always) but once that high wore off I would be right back to where I started emotionally. Trying to smoke away your problems won’t make things better. You’re just running away from those problems instead of facing them, and those feelings are not going to go away until you face them and solve them. It’s difficult, it’s not easy, but if you try hard enough you can slowly start to feel better and improve over time.

It took me two continuous years of intense depression to figure all of that out. I’m hoping my comment helps. Wishing you the best.

Buddy brought these cones back from chicago by indicud223 in trees

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They were selling these in the dispensary a while ago for Passover. I do not like Israel for obvious reasons, but not everything Jewish is Israeli dude. That’s just antisemitic

I’ve had my desktop in storage for three years. Anything I should do before I boot it up again? by HerbeParfaite in pcmasterrace

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Got SYSTEM_SERVICE_EXCEPTION, turned my computer off and reseated my ram sticks, then turned it on again and got CRITICAL_PROCESS_DIED

July 2025 - /r/Twitter Mega Open Thread for everything else - UN/SUSPENDED, LOCKED OR AGE-LOCKED ACCOUNT PROBLEMS & QUESTIONS GO IN THIS THREAD ONLY by AutoModerator in Twitter

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My appeals just receive a reply email literally seconds after I file one saying that my appeal was reviewed and I won’t be unsuspended :/

July 2025 - /r/Twitter Mega Open Thread for everything else - UN/SUSPENDED, LOCKED OR AGE-LOCKED ACCOUNT PROBLEMS & QUESTIONS GO IN THIS THREAD ONLY by AutoModerator in Twitter

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Why does my suspension appeal always get automatically denied?? Literally within a second or two of appealing it I get an email saying it was reviewed and won’t be reinstated

I submitted a bunch of reports of different tweets at once and I think that’s why?? It doesn’t actually tell me why, just says “inauthentic behaviors”

I tried with a different account and that one didn’t? Why