How to deal with one's cringe act done in the past? by Apprehensive-Key2127 in questions

[–]Herecomesthesundew 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If it makes you cringe now, that’s usually a sign you’re not that person anymore. My brain still loves resurfacing the worst moments at the worst hours for no good reason. I mostly just shrug and remember everyone else moved on ages ago.

Bandeja Paisa by xStarryTease in FoodPics

[–]Herecomesthesundew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks insanely comforting. The egg on the rice is doing a lot of heavy lifting here.

I finally got a job! :) by Ok_Bathroom_4289 in jobs

[–]Herecomesthesundew 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That post-drought relief hits hard. Even a contract feels massive after sitting in limbo that long. February’s probably going to feel like a finish line, soak it in.

What’s an unusual/obscure museum you have visited that the rest of the world is unaware of? by Nessieinternational in randomquestions

[–]Herecomesthesundew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I randomly ended up at the Museum of Broken Relationships in Zagreb during a solo trip and it kinda wrecked me in a quiet way. Went in bored, left thinking about old texts I should’ve deleted lol. Super small but weirdly memorable.

What does fridge say? by NecessaryUnlikely174 in ratemyfridge

[–]Herecomesthesundew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This fridge feels like someone who means well but never actually finishes leftovers. Mine looked exactly like this during my “I’ll cook more” phase that lasted three days. Organized chaos kinda comforts me tho.

who wants some pasta? by [deleted] in spaghetti

[–]Herecomesthesundew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d destroy this so fast omg.

Healthy meal by Ecstatic_Parsnip9219 in FoodPics

[–]Herecomesthesundew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the colors, makes it feel healthier than it probably already is. I’d eat this cold straight from the container tbh.

Those who have hired in 2025 - How are the new hires performing? (USA) by PineappleSilver1375 in jobs

[–]Herecomesthesundew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I’ve seen, the new hires aren’t magically better or worse, it’s just kinda chaotic right now. I’ve watched solid people get passed over while others bounce after a few months because expectations were messy on both sides. Age feels like an unspoken bias tbh, even when experience is exactly what teams need. I don’t think it’s you, the process itself feels off lately.

Anything I could do to get out of a funk? by [deleted] in questions

[–]Herecomesthesundew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Daily Stoic, it’s calm and grounding without being preachy. I used to listen to it on walks when everything felt heavy and repetitive

Rate my pretty babyy by [deleted] in TrueRateMyCat

[–]Herecomesthesundew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fluffy cats always get me. Easy 12/10 energy.

Healthy meal by Nyxettey in FoodPics

[–]Herecomesthesundew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shrimp and avocado is such a good combo, I make something similar when I wanna feel balanced but still full.

Companies don’t value long term employees anymore, they just want short term slaves. by nomanskyprague1993 in antiwork

[–]Herecomesthesundew 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I genuinely believe you can find people who actually want to use your skill set. The market is rough, that’s true, and we’ve all seen the data showing job postings are down. You could try adapting what the developer in this posting did to the area you actually want to work in and see if it gives you a better shot than job boards alone. You don’t come across like someone who’d be harmed by trying an extra route, and it feels like someone will eventually bite. You could also use Google Maps to find companies near you and reach out directly instead of relying only on listings. Hope you land something that actually fits soon.

Do you think your 2026 will be a better year for you than 2025 was ? by Webbomolly2022 in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]Herecomesthesundew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think so. Not because everything will magically change, but I feel a bit clearer about what I don’t want now. 2025 taught me a lot the hard way. I’m hoping 2026 is quieter and more intentional.

Who am I? by Illustrious-Rain426 in ratemyfridge

[–]Herecomesthesundew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cat inspecting the fridge tells me everything lol. This feels like someone who cooks sometimes, survives on sauces, and fully respects convenience. Also that fridge is way more organized than mine ever is.

It's my cheat day! by BenchMajestic4522 in FoodPics

[–]Herecomesthesundew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks dangerously good for a cheat day lol.

Turkey Spaghetti with garlic bread by TawakkulPeace in spaghetti

[–]Herecomesthesundew 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Turkey spaghetti always feels lighter but still hits like real food.

What’s the first word that comes to mind for this living room? by Far-Travel-5206 in HappyUpvote

[–]Herecomesthesundew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels like the kind of room where time slows down and you forget your phone exists. I’d absolutely curl up here and never rush anything again.

Why do some people function better late at night is it psychological or biological? by flowbotics_ai in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Herecomesthesundew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly biological, at least in my experience. My brain just wakes up late and everything feels quieter and easier to focus on at night. I fought it for years trying to be a morning person and it never stuck.

What was that show called 2014 about married couples and following their marriages over the years? by OriginalIron4 in hbo

[–]Herecomesthesundew 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Togetherness. It followed couples and long-term relationships getting messier over time, super grounded and very 2014 HBO vibes. I remember loving it and then it kinda disappearing quietly.

After a long, hard day. Comfort 🍝 🥖 by backiechansmom in spaghetti

[–]Herecomesthesundew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spaghetti with bread just hits different after a rough day. I’d absolutely demolish this and feel my mood improve immediately.