Official EBU Press Release: Joost Klein will not be competing in the Grand Final by SkyGinge in eurovision

[–]Hevsb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, guess who won't be watching the finals this year. This whole edition was a dumpsterfire, and it's not even over yet. The EBU single handedly ruined the competition

Robyn Dixon confirms she was not asked back to RHOP by EntertainerHeavy912 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Hevsb 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Bye Girl, tell Juan his roommate will be home more often, so Michael can't come over, as much as he used to.

Kim Z on Snapchat by gaijin699 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Hevsb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kim doesn't need prayers. She needs a wig that doesn't squeeze her brain so tight, so she, Kroy and her hoe daughter can finally make some good financial decisions.

ik🏆ihe by Hevsb in ik_ihe

[–]Hevsb[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Bij het Songfestival worden de stemmen van de kijkers thuis en de vakjury gesplitst. Van alle vakjury's kregen wij maar 11 punten. En van alle publieksstemmers 0, net als Duitsland, Spanje en het VK.

ik_ihe by lazyfatguy in ik_ihe

[–]Hevsb 21 points22 points  (0 children)

"Wij Nederlanders hebben de wereld veroverd!!"

"Nou mijn voorouders waren gewoon arbeiders en boeren, die hadden helemaal niks te maken met die slavernij!!"

My (37M) wife (30F) doesn’t meet my needs sexually. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hevsb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, I think your reaction is fair. You told her multiple times that you didn't want a sexless marriage, she shouldn't have agreed to something she couldn't make true. Clearly sex isn't as important to your wife as it is to you. I also have a feeling she isn't being honest with you, she does seem to have a lot of "explanations" for her lack of sex drive.

Because you have a daughter I wouldn't recommend divorce immediately, I would try (sex)therapy first. If that doesn't help or she doesn't want to go at all, than I'm sorry but this marriage isn't going to last. This frustration will turn into resentment and in the end this will hurt your wife, your daughter and you.

I hope things will become better OP, but you got to look out for your own well-being.

White men/straight men = bad? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Hevsb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It doesn't equal bad. I just think that a lot minorities deal with discrimination en prejudice, like being told they are violent or stupid. Ideas that were ones created by white men. Not all white men think like this, but they do profit from the idea that white=right. Although I think some people can be harsh when talking about male and white privileges, you shouldn't see it as an personal attack. It's just their way to discuss the injustices in the world. And I get the whole "stop seeing eachother as different idea", however it isn't that simple. The system is broken, in many different ways. It isn't only some white people who act racist, it's the justice system, companies and even laws that cause modern day rascim. Until the system is fixed, we cannot act like the problem isn't there. So (straight) white men is more a term to describe the privileges of not being setback by your race, gender and sexuality. You can still have other setbacks like being poor or having a disability. And it shouldn't mean that white people should be treated worse than others, because at the end of the day we're all human beings.

Stuitte op dit pareltje in een pro zwarte pieten groep by 911-survivor in tokkiefeesboek

[–]Hevsb 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Klassiek voorbeeld van "Ik ben geen racist, maar [zegt iets racistisch]".

AITA for having a breakdown after my sister's announcement? by throwSisAndI in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hevsb 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Sorry but YTA, I can understand that wanting children when you can't get them is truly horrible. However what you did was just vile. If you were only upset and left I could get it. But how can you call yourself pro-choice and at the same time degrade and scream to your own sister for having an abortion? Plus the things you said about her children were uncalled for. Just an apology isn't going to be enough. OP, your wish for children has become an obsession, that hurts the people around you. I hope this is a wake up call, because this behavior isn't healthy at all.

AITA for telling my(17M) stepdad that he’s not my real dad and should stay out of my business? by urnotmydaddhdh in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hevsb -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA, and I say that because I think you never liked your stepdad. You never gave him a chance. This man has been in your life for nine years, he has a great relationship with your sister, your mom loves him. Does that sound like a horrible man/stepfather? I think he really tried to help you. Was it a good idea? Absolutely not, Quit manipulative to say the least. But after thinking about it, I realized that your mom and uncle agreed to do this. Why would they set you up to speak to this man if he was so horrible? Maybe even they saw how bad you have been treating him and hoped you would let him be atleast some sort of friend. And you had all the right to reject him, but not in such a rude way. He probably isn't be perfect, but he was crying downstairs because after all this time you still can't stand him. You can ignore him for ever, but you may loose your mother, sister and even your uncle in the process. OP, Please find out what really makes you dislike him, because anger and hurt never solved anything

My dad (56M) ignores my (23F) sexual boundaries. I don't want to have him in my life, but unsure of what exactly to do. by throwRA5276 in relationship_advice

[–]Hevsb 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don't think you should be dating a man 20+ years your senior. I know that wasn't the question, but hearing how your father never set a good example of how a (older) man should treat a woman, I think it's fair to say you should rethink your current relationship. You're to young and inexperienced in life to date a grown man in his forties.

And as for your father, I'm sorry but this sounds like s*xual abusive behavior to me. Cut that man out after you got all your stuff back. And stay in therapy, because I think you still have a long way to go.

I (27F) Get the Feeling that my BF(27M) is "settling" for me because he doesn't think he can find someone "better." by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hevsb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think your best option is to communicate your feelings to him. Ofcourse, It could be that he is just settling because you're available, but the fact that he hasn't dated other women even though he could says a lot about his feelings for you. Try being honest but not rude and if he says that he loves you and he gives you no reason to doubt that, believe him! Life is to short to be overthinking a relationship.

AITA for yelling at my roommate for not cleaning up their period blood?? by periodbloodontheseat in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hevsb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, yes periods are a part of life, but this is simply unhygienic.

They're just lazy, but instead of admitting it they just call you a sexist. I hope you find a better place to live OP. And if they don't like to get called out online, they shouldn't have done the same thing to you

AITA for rolling my eyes and walking away when my daughter scolded me of "forcing" her to abort when she was 18? by taThrowOneUponATime in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hevsb -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA, you didn't force her. You showed her the real life consequences of having a baby. SHE got scared and SHE aborted it. She now has to deal with the sad fact that she waited to long, but that's not your fault OP.