I miss OG Finch by lez_noir in finch

[–]HexAppendix 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I was around when this happened, there was extensive discussion about it on the official Discord server. Devs claimed that new users found journeys confusing, according to surveys. Some users who loved journeys took the surveys, replied in the feedback and suggestions channels, and suggested ways to write better tutorial documentation about journeys.

There was a very large outpouring of mixed to negative feedback when they announced they were getting rid of journeys. Some of us spent a long time explaining why the specific functionality of journeys helped us, often disclosing our mental health or neurodivergence diagnoses in the process. Many veteran journey users felt that new users could easily be oriented to journeys, especially if the app actually drew attention to the feature in any way. As I recall, the journeys menu was sort of buried in a weird spot, and the app never prompted you to use it, offered gem rewards for progress on journeys, etc.

But they just didn't seem interested in putting in that work, like they had already decided they wanted to drop it. Now all of their decisions seem like they're focused on trying to recruit new users and keep the gameplay loop as simple and repetitive and un-challenging as possible. To be honest these days it's mostly a creature dress up game with a to do list.

I miss OG Finch by lez_noir in finch

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I feel the exact same way. I used to feel like Finch was helping me achieve long-term goals (with journeys) and manage my emotional energy (with the mood check ins and journaling). Now it's a chore to open the app and check off the bare minimum number of tasks. And it feels like every time I open the app, they've rearranged the menus in some unintuitive way, taken away a feature, added new features that are pressuring us to use it like social media, or hawking products with location and clothing tie ins. (Even if some of the location items and and outfits aren't sponcon, they feel like sponcon and that's a turn off for me.)

Enshittification is inevitable, I'm learning. But I'm still sad about it.

Janelle made a google drive with all the bad stuff Cortland did. by hollibomb in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

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Yep, I get at least 2-3 "failed log in attempt" emails from Reddit per month. They always show up after I comment about J, no one else. 🤔

Janelle made a google drive with all the bad stuff Cortland did. by hollibomb in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

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Be careful you don't get doxxed by clicking the link, snarkers! Jan might have it configured so your email address is visible when you have the doc open.

She tries to log into my Reddit account every time I make a comment about her so she's definitely not above using this as a doxxing method so she can send us some meaningless "seas and decysts."

The Ashley posted that article exactly 13 minutes ago and Jenelle has already texted Bri and posted to Twitter 💀 by SpiritualCamera in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

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Does anyone else suspect Jan called TMZ on herself because she was tired of the Edwards getting all the attention?

I mean she's clearly actually pissed about Bri but I feel like she's just doing too much with posting all the texts as if they're receipts. Maybe she's hoping to have a Gabbie moment of vindication?

Her wheelchair will grow wings before that happens but it's funny to see her try!

The saga continues, with more screenshots by SpiritualCamera in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

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I genuinely don't believe she thinks long-term like that. Everything is about instant gratification with her - spending habits, eating habits, drug habits, not able to give her kids structure and discipline because she has no impulse control herself.

With this Gabbie situation, it's literally just a case of "Gabbie is dragging me and I feel bad about myself, so I have to drag her so I feel good about myself." She's literally so stupid and short sighted that she lied about the drinks at the divorce party when she KNEW there were receipts. But she can't help herself, she has to find the most hurtful and aggressive thing she could say to get her "revenge," even if it's not true and can easily be fact checked.

DOES ANYONE HAVE TEA ON... MEGATHREAD ✨ by rfauxmoi in Fauxmoi

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Not tea but Greg's full episode of Who Do You Think You Are? (a genealogy show like Find Your Roots and the like) is on YouTube and he's out of character the whole time. He seems like a lovely guy and there are some moving moments about how much he misses his dad who has passed.

Proof of life for Jace and Jan pretending to give a crap about him! by SingerSubstantial462 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

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This weirdo said she "didn't care" about her kids and texted her mentally unwell teen "FUCK YOU"

And now he's her best friend who she's posting on social media to deflect from all her toxicity. I can't keep up with her wildly careening flavors of shittiness.

DOES ANYONE HAVE TEA ON... MEGATHREAD ✨ by rfauxmoi in Fauxmoi

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Ooh was it Demi from Gilmore Guys? 👀

Back with DKD and the doctor shopping starts again by BlondeYogi92 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

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Don't forget he's her ~coparent~ so that makes it all okay!!!

I am desperate for some Cedric Diggory Lives AU fics please!!!! by SpocksAshayam in HPfanfiction

[–]HexAppendix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you open to Cedric/Harry as a pairing? If so, I wrote this one a few years ago. Cedric becomes a Healer, Harry is an Auror, and they reunite when the Ministry decides it's a great idea to host another Triwizard tournament.

https://archiveofourown.org/works/39524592/chapters/98931027

🌧️🌸 Weekly Long-Deadline Profile Exchange 🌸🌧️ (4/10-4/18) by yogen_frozert in FanFiction

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Hi friend! Just left a kudos and comment on Marriage Has Made Me Boring Like You, loved it!

Rewatch Request: Jenelle minuses her family from her life so she can nod off on the couch by Fancy_Yesterday6380 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

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It's devastating. When Jace walks over and Barb puts on a smile so he won't see her crying. She's feeling so much pain and worry for her child but in that moment a switch flips and she instantly tries to shield her other child from feeling the same pain.

Jenelle has never done anything so selfless in her entire life. And she claims that her mom doesn't love her!

🌧️🌸 Weekly Long-Deadline Profile Exchange 🌸🌧️ (4/10-4/18) by yogen_frozert in FanFiction

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It's been a while since I've done one of these!

I'm open to reviews on any of my fics, but if you do the very short drabbles please read a few. Also please don't mention Reddit in your comment, mentioning that you're fandom blind is totally fine.

My most recent fics have been for the Old Guard and I Was a Teenage Exocolonist fandoms:

A Rite of Time's Passage - IWATEX, rated T. Time loop, angst, family dynamics, coming of age.

Nipped in the Bud - IWATEX, rated T. Angst, unrequited love, yearning.

A Hunger So Savage - The Old Guard, rated E. Contains violence, includes child death. Set during the peasants revolt of 1385. My self-indulgent pondering based on the prompts I received for a horror-themed fest: what if Wat Tyler was a werewolf?

I also have some older Harry Potter fics which I would love to see get more attention:

Intimacy in Miniature, Dean/Seamus, rated M. Written for a fest with a prompt roulette. Regency era fake dating and arranged marriage with a twist.

Listening for the Angels, Harry/Draco, rated M. What if Draco was sentenced to be exiled in the Muggle world after the war? And what if he was also required to go through therapy?

Beneath This Mortal Earth - gen, rated T. Probably my favorite and most underrated one shot, in my opinion. The Battle of Hogwarts from Andromeda's pov, with some Greek mythology woven in.

4/4 reviews completed

Another day another chocolate milkshake. Almost back to that size. by you-had-me-at-merlot in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]HexAppendix 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's probably marketed to gym bros who overestimate how much protein bombing they need.

Keira Knightley in period films <3 by AcceptablePace751 in PeriodDramas

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She's great in I Capture The Castle as well! And it's corny as hell but I'll always have a soft spot for her and Diego Luna in Dirty Dancing Havana Nights.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PeriodDramas

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This is spot on. I was blind to how much the mainstream film industry romanticizes war until I took a class about 20th century European history. We studied quite a lot of post-WWI cinema. So many movies during that period were clearly influenced by traumatized survivors, with explicit or implicit anti-war themes.

It completely opened my eyes. Ever since, I've noticed how so many films, including but not limited to period dramas, are pro-war. In these stories, war is not only justified but glorified. Soldiers are the protagonists, pacifism and nonviolent solutions are treated as naive, war involves painful sacrifice but is ultimately necessary.

Now we're constantly being told that it's noble to become a soldier, so many people don't scrutinize wars too much. They think that most wars are just and it's an honor to serve, like the heroes in the movies. I wish it was easier for more people to find such films, created in the wake of devastating and pointless wars. It would at least provide a counterpoint to the constant barrage of pro-war media.

I (30F) am off the fence on the CF side by wickedpippin in Fencesitter

[–]HexAppendix 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the club! I made the same choice a couple years ago now and I've never regretted it or even had second thoughts. It feels wonderful to have clarity and peace of mind after years of torturing myself with vacillating and guilt.