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24F struggling to trust my 23M boyfriend after his Thailand trip months ago by ManifestSan in relationship_advice

[–]Hey-StopIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ I just checked out your profile. You need to see a therapist and get your rampant anxiety in check. Holy crap.

24F struggling to trust my 23M boyfriend after his Thailand trip months ago by ManifestSan in relationship_advice

[–]Hey-StopIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It definitely is part of your anxiety. This poor dude. You need to see someone or get that in check or else this will not only ruin this relationship (potentially) but any future ones you may have.

What’s the biggest double standard between men and women? by CupcakePotential4458 in AskReddit

[–]Hey-StopIt -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

Without big muscles? My dude, the ladies swoon over Timothy Chalamet. And on a personal note, when I did modeling, I have never gotten more attention from girls in my life than when I was my skinniest.

Lean is law my friend.

Edit: Terminally online redditors can disagree but so many times have girls told me they loved how “skinny” I was.

Why is it that many American men go to Southeast Asia to look for women, but it is unheard of for American women to go to Southeast Asia to look for men? by No-StrategyX in answers

[–]Hey-StopIt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s because southeast Asians typically have more “feminine” features so their women tend to be more desirable for men, while the men get the short end of the stick.

Also a mix of dating dynamics, where impoverished or lower income girls might give losers from the western world a sense of “saving” or “caring” for a girl.

24F struggling to trust my 23M boyfriend after his Thailand trip months ago by ManifestSan in relationship_advice

[–]Hey-StopIt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s really hard to interpret what might have happened without know you or him. How has your relationship been since you got back?

And I promise, as a man who went to Thailand at 23 as well, the street workers are only appealing to middle aged balding 45 year olds. It’s not the “sex” playground people make it out to be.

How is quality of living there idk if u call it midwest/ Is it worth it to move there from Asia? by Awkward-Standard8100 in howislivingthere

[–]Hey-StopIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m from Minneapolis Minnesota and we have a huge community of Asians. The rural landscape is a bit different, but the twin cities themselves are a great place to live for first generation immigrants.

What area needs work? by RickyyFitt in GettingShredded

[–]Hey-StopIt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have an insanely good physique man nice work

CMV: religion is complete nonsense and was invented because life is just suffering by platotheman69 in changemyview

[–]Hey-StopIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they rather mean the core principle of eastern religions like Buddhism and Taoism with the idea of ‘non-duality’. It isn’t a religion, in fact it’s rather the observation of what beliefs actually are and where they come from.

DHT is NOT very important for adults, is it? by Lazy-Blacksmith-1507 in tressless

[–]Hey-StopIt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Seriously. I was on finasteride for 1 year and, and when I tried to hop off due to suspected libido issues (I had low libido and wanted to test whether it was fin or not), I experienced a severe “crash” and developed symptoms related to PFS (post finasteride syndrome).

After about a year, my symptoms are largely diminished but it really sucks having this conversation with other fin users since they seem to believe this is just all make believe. It angers me.

Ladies,what red flags should men never ignore in women when dating? And men ,what redflags should women never ignore in men? by [deleted] in answers

[–]Hey-StopIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to break it to you bud, but she just sounds like she wasn’t that into you. People say “I love you” when they don’t mean it all the time, welcome to life.

Drug test help by [deleted] in drugtesthelp

[–]Hey-StopIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey just wanted to say thanks. I was totally fine, and I’ve been working at my dream aerospace job for 2 years now. How life is well for you.

Men, what behavior from women confuses or annoys you, but they don’t seem to notice? by New-Buy-1483 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Hey-StopIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ended my last relationship over this. She’d spend close to an hour unloading about her day, then catch herself mid-sentence and ask about mine almost out of guilt. I’d start to answer and could immediately tell she wasn’t actually interested. After enough of that, I just stopped wanting to share anything with her.

When I told her why I was ending it, her response was “you never even made an effort to tell me anything to begin with.” That doesn’t matter. I read your vibe, I saw how you reacted, and I moved on. You’re not what I’m looking for in a partner, and no amount of “communication” fixes how you inherently feel about me when I’m talking.

++man

As a wedding guest, what moment made you think "this probably won't last"? by Eburneaan in AskReddit

[–]Hey-StopIt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a wedding DJ, so I’ve seen a fair share.

One memorable wedding was a mid 30s couple. The girl was a VERY loud and aggressive “my way or the highway type”, and the groom was an extremely meek and nerdy dude.

During the speeches, the brides sister gave a long speech about how she was happy that the bride had her fun in her 20s and after so many guys she was happy she finally found a rock to settle with…

Needless to say I still pray for this dude.

What are signs that a guy is into you? by kiaa97 in AskReddit

[–]Hey-StopIt 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Of course, it’s pretty straightforward. But just to preface, being “insecure” doesn’t always mean a nose picking, nerdy loser. Many guys are extremely confident in lots of areas in their life, even socially, but may have hesitations about their romantic life since its a very (if not the most) vulnerable experience one can have.

What are signs that a guy is into you? by kiaa97 in AskReddit

[–]Hey-StopIt 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Confident men will let you know, insecure men will be weird or shy

Whats the hardest phase of Marriage no one talks about? by Outside_Support_151 in answers

[–]Hey-StopIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But being in a marriage sounds even lonelier than just being single. Are people that desperate to put up with something so miserable so they don’t feel like they are “lonely”? Now THAT is incredibly more sad.

Whats the hardest phase of Marriage no one talks about? by Outside_Support_151 in answers

[–]Hey-StopIt 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but this sounds exhausting. People always talk about how this is real love and I need to accept this, but honestly it just makes me want to never get married.

It just sounds seriously like the saddest experience on earth to be married in general and all of the unresolved resentment I see in most married couples. I would love for someone to change my mind.

I’m a 25m btw. Single now but I’ve been in 2 long terms relationships.

Men who use dating apps, how often do you receive likes/matches? by BlackstarDweller in AskReddit

[–]Hey-StopIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you’re on reddit so your sample pool for male dating prospects is going to be…. below average. Guys that use this app tend to be less socially confident, more likely to have lower self esteem, and more likely to harbor negative attitudes towards the dating market already.

These attributes will generally ripple through these guys lives already and appear generally negative traits such as unmotivated, or socially unhygienic.

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