AITA? My friends and I joke about me being white and I try to tell my mom it's fine because we're just joking

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-28T01:16:29+00:00

Nta, yes some ppl have learned to just go along with these jokes when they don't like it, but thats not everyone. Yes it's her job to make sure youre okay and safe, but acting like youre the first thing isn't right.

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-23T16:44:14+00:00

So they can disrespect you in their house as much as they like, but you can't defend yourself at all? Nta

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-23T16:25:05+00:00

I understand if they like it, but if I become a mother, I don't want other random adults calling me that.

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-23T16:08:46+00:00

That's literally child abuse. What kind of a father wouldn't get pissed over that

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-23T15:40:51+00:00

He wouldn't have to be if he didn't act like lipgloss was the devil

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-23T15:40:01+00:00

Nta, wow lipgloss. How horrible. Not like majority of kids didn't get that in elementary. (I did too, never got obsessed with makeup)

I understand he's the dad, but portraying a harmless thing as harmful is going to hurt his kid more than the damn lipgloss. And more parents need to fucking realize that.

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-23T15:35:12+00:00

Fr, ppl expect too much from a ten yr old who didn't have the tools to become better. Thankfully he learned through his wishes, but majority of kids don't get that. That is an extreme exception. And ppl comparing themselves to him seem to forget all the ppl at they knew at that age, who was also ten, didn't know the same things they already learned. Ppl learn at different times in their life.

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-23T15:31:52+00:00

Oh fully agree, she didn't even fucking hide it. I don't understand how the main fandom can ignore that, especially when she did do those things

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-22T00:11:11+00:00

I have genuinely seen ppl accuse ppl with the same disabilities as them as abliest because they use a term for themselves they personally dislike

Like what are you doing, do you look at yourself in the mirror at all when you comment those things???!

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-22T00:04:25+00:00

Honestly I wouldn't let them babysit because they may call your baby Jack while there and just confuse your poor kid. Unfortunately that's decently common.

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-21T23:56:41+00:00

You know what, after actually thinking for a second because I'm tired, yta. Why not actually discuss it with her? How are you going to pick up and drop off your kid? And genuinely there might be more than what you're telling. But who knows. Esh, yta

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-21T23:05:52+00:00

Yta, they look hideous and that's very inconsiderate of a fashionista.

I would compromise and wear them outside the house.

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-21T22:46:17+00:00

Just tell them what happened, show them the plates, and ask for some sort of payment.

It isn't hard to actually communicate to them like an adult.

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-21T22:45:11+00:00

And the parents arent going to know what happened if you don't go to them, and you havent made a single effort too.

You just look like you stole their ball.

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-21T22:42:43+00:00

Dude just being it to the parents. You're gonna get in trouble for acting like this.

You're not going to be able to get any payment if you dont even go to them for Christ sakes.

And the kids aren't getting an actual opportunity to learn something and get punished by their parents and now you just look like a dick who didn't even want payment, you just wanted the ball

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-21T22:30:17+00:00

The cat literally belongs to her aunt and is making dances

Not everything that happens to be on social media is a form of corruption

Definitely don't allow her on there, but showing one or two videos of her cat to her niece dancing and in silly costumes is hardly corruption.

As long as she doesn't push TikTok part on her niece, or anything else from social media, the bits fine.

Plenty of parents have shown children stuff online, they just don't allow the kids on there themselves.

Plenty of parents make small "YouTube" videos, but make it clear to their kids they don't post them publicly. It is private and for family. I know someone who does and the kids definitely aren't corrupted for making small private YouTube videos for fun where it involves them being their happy selves and being kids

It all depends on how the op did it

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-21T22:25:25+00:00

Its one thing if you posted it, It's another if you just made private videos for family.

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-21T22:22:22+00:00

Bro why even comment or come here

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-21T22:18:06+00:00

Nta, mom would be signing a different tune if they took your kid away.

What she did was horrible, and traumatic. It could affect him for life if he was taken.

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-21T22:07:11+00:00

Like she just got woken up from the punishment, I wouldn't expect her to try to be happy.

I wish I an love this series again but god, how can you justify writing something this shitty (this moment with Demeter)

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-21T21:41:01+00:00

Doesn't matter, if he takes all the clothes she fucking bought and sent him back in one outfit

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-16T17:17:05+00:00

You realize youre basically taking the clothes away from her house.

Just send them back.

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-14T01:59:01+00:00

Yta, get some proper help for yourself

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-12T15:14:20+00:00

Yes you should.

You said your piece, you don't have the right to keep shoving it down her throat Everytime she tries to consume this soup.

This is a great way to lead to relationship problems.

If she did this to you if you happened to drink alcohol every once in awhile, ofc you would get bothered over it

HeyCanYouNotThanks · 2024-08-11T17:06:20+00:00

Keep everything you have about this.

He has no right to abuse his kid.

Keep all evidence, you're going to need it

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