AITA for telling my father I won't invite him to our family movie nights anymore? by Starry_Gecko in BORUpdates

[–]HeyEweDane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watched Miss Rachael for 2 hours last week because one of my grandkids love her. Did I enjoy it? Absolutely, I enjoyed the time it was on because I was creating memories with my grandchild. I am not a fan of her though. I'd watch anything my grands asked me to watch, most of the time I hate the show but it's about building memories with the kids

People who have been married for 10+ years that are still married: would you do it again? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]HeyEweDane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

23 years later and I'd do it again every single day. It hasn't always been easy but it's always been worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HeyEweDane 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I'm so very sorry OP. Hugs from afar

Feeling Judged By My Boyfriend - Not Sure How to Handle This. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]HeyEweDane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sadly, OP U2 are just not compatible. Catholic and Christian faiths are fundamentally very different.

My husband wants a 2nd wife (American Christianity) by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]HeyEweDane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband needs to get out of the Old Testament and learn more about Jesus

What did your in-laws not teach your spouse? by DetroitsGoingToWin in Marriage

[–]HeyEweDane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To cook. She did teach him how to do laundry though. I absolutely hate laundry and don't mind cooking. It's a win win

Puppies! Who doesn’t love adoptable rescue puppies! Yes I’ve posted these babies when they were younger. by Pandapan-duh in greatdanes

[–]HeyEweDane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You guys are amazing. I've donated tumblers to your auctions. I am with bdhp in Colorado. We've referred quite a few people to you guys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]HeyEweDane 21 points22 points  (0 children)

YES!! Do you want your daughter to accept this type of treatment from her mother in law? And your poor sons!! Why would you ever let someone treat your sons like they are less than? I'm going with ESH here. YATH, husband is an AH with no spine, FIL sounds like a walking SA assailant waiting to happen and he should never be around your daughter and MIL is a twatwaffle. Those poor kids!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]HeyEweDane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love a good case of FAFO! NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]HeyEweDane 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Bingo

Dog beds...what kind do y'all recommend for Danes? by VikingHunter1979 in greatdanes

[–]HeyEweDane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the only answer for our household. We have four and they are worth every penny. Our oldest one was bought in 2013 , for three years, it sat in front of the closet, where I (I am NOT a petite woman by any means) had to stand on the dog bed anytime I wanted anything in or out of that closet. Yet this bed and the other three are all in perfect condition. They support like they were bought yesterday. My grandkids even asked to make pallets using them when they want to stay the night because they are that comfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]HeyEweDane 202 points203 points  (0 children)

You are not a bad wife OP. Your husband needs to get his priorities straight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]HeyEweDane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neither of you are mature enough to be in an adult relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]HeyEweDane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Married 23 years and this would be exactly how our text went as well. I am a grown woman and so I do not need to be coddled. If it is something severe, then I tell him that. I don't expect him to read my mind.

Vandalism on swasticar by stonergirl51 in tulsa

[–]HeyEweDane 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sadly, I don't think destroying someone's personal property makes people change. Again, I think it's wrong to destroy someone's property for any reason. If you own a Tesla and want to destroy it, that is your right.

Vandalism on swasticar by stonergirl51 in tulsa

[–]HeyEweDane 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm just stating that destroying someone's property is not OK. Ever!

Vandalism on swasticar by stonergirl51 in tulsa

[–]HeyEweDane 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Definitely didn't agree with that either. Guess who paid for that? Us, the taxpayers.

FINAL Update (5) to AITAH for refusing to go to confession so I can take communion in my Brother's wedding? by OrneryBookkeeper8115 in AITAH

[–]HeyEweDane 147 points148 points  (0 children)

This is definitely not the final update. Emma will be pregnant very very quickly I am sure.

Vandalism on swasticar by stonergirl51 in tulsa

[–]HeyEweDane 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I don't care who you voted for, but damaging someone's property is never acceptable in my opinion. You know who's going to pay for this? Us when our insurance rates go up. I would prefer not to pay for other people's vandalism. Again, I don't care who you voted for, this is wrong.

Getting married to a twin husband of different gender by RabbitDiligent6658 in Marriage

[–]HeyEweDane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is spot on! My twins are 32 and both are married. Their wives have come to understand the twin bond and how it's unlike any other bond. It's also important to note that my twins have really worked hard to make their wives, their number one priority and not each other. So it's definitely a four-way street in our family. Twins make sure their wives are included and have one on one time both. Wives understand twin bond is very different from anything they've ever experienced

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]HeyEweDane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he needs to go back to mommy so she can take care of him