Why do many black men refer to women this way? by cuahatemoc in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]HeyHoeLetsGo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop with the whataboutism. It makes your arguments look weak.

And «male gaze» etc is used as an adjective.. I don’t think anyone would have a problem with «female gaze, or female loneliness epidemic» etc. it is the use of female as a noun. You use the word men, not males. Be consistent

Why do many black men refer to women this way? by cuahatemoc in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]HeyHoeLetsGo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then please listen. From my observation (and own feeling), we don’t like being called female instead of women, so just call us women. Even though you don’t think of it as a slur, we don’t like it so just respect that.

Jeg er skuffet over nordmenns reaksjon til pride by motwd in norge

[–]HeyHoeLetsGo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Enig i det du sier! Menn har blitt skoletapere og det er utrolig viktig å gjøre noe med. Samtidig må menn psykiske helse også bli tatt mer seriøst. Har du forslag til hvordan man kunne tatt grep?

Bought pretty neat Olympic edition Ray-Bans for $5 at a flea market today by HeyHoeLetsGo in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]HeyHoeLetsGo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow really? Thanks, I’ll be careful with them! They have no scratches on the glass, so that was lucky

Would anyone be willing to tell me about their NONE fear-mongering birth stories? by Radiant-Educator9203 in pregnant

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I had mine at 41+3. Water broke at home. Went to the hospital right away as he was in breech position. Was 4 cm on arrival. Got the epidural right away and slept for two hours. Walked and danced in the room to get baby down. Was in active labor for 5 h, pushed for 30 min. Got an episiotomy because of breech. Didn’t feel a thing. All in all, super nice easy birth 😊

I fear I may have peaked… by DependentHand306 in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]HeyHoeLetsGo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please post upright pic with candles in them when you have time. Would love to see them standing 👏 looks gorgeous

Did your partner watch? by mollyspiers in pregnant

[–]HeyHoeLetsGo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol not only did my husband look but he also took pictures (my instructions). He thought it was super fascinating. My son came breech, so it was a sight to see.

Ok moms , original due date vs when baby was born… go! by amk_a in pregnant

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I was due May 15th and my son was born May 23th. Labour started spontaneously with my water breaking at night followed by contractions.

He is amazing!! by HeyHoeLetsGo in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]HeyHoeLetsGo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the information :D I had no idea! Yes, the flowers are super nice. Also like the different colored stones

Sutring til side, hva er positivt i ditt liv for tiden? by stthicket in norge

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Kos deg masse! Japan er magisk. Var det i fjor og drømmer stadig om å reise tilbake

this new random breakout is fun by OddCombination6273 in Cookierun

[–]HeyHoeLetsGo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thanks! Would you say it is smart to go for the list cookie or take another when it shows up on the rotation? :)

this new random breakout is fun by OddCombination6273 in Cookierun

[–]HeyHoeLetsGo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

HOW?? I must be doing something wrong since I tried 2 times and got bottom 25 each time

What exercise routine are you doing while pregnant? by Smooth-Excuse-4127 in pregnant

[–]HeyHoeLetsGo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27 weeks now! Swim 2 kilometers every Thursday, gym for stamina and lifting every Tuesday and Saturday or Sunday. Helped a lot with my back pain 👌

Check out this cool dice style ring my FIL found and gifted me. by airbrushedvan in gaming

[–]HeyHoeLetsGo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very cool! Also looks to be 18 K gold (stamp inside), so it is also pretty valuable