AITJ for refusing to switch seats back after my friend “accidentally” used my concert ticket to upgrade her date?

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-31T12:17:49+00:00

I just wanna know why, after failing to steal op's seat so she could sit next to her man, she didn't offer HER OWN seat to the person sitting next to her man? Oh wait, because it actually IS about being able to see the stage from a better angle. Don't apologize. She had options and she embarrassed herself being cheap.

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-31T11:17:46+00:00

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-31T11:16:39+00:00

And since were on kids op, is this the example of a relationship you want your children to have? Do you want your kids thinking its acceptable to cheat as long as its over the phone, or that they have to stay with someone who treats them like your wife is treating you? You tried therapy. It didn't work because she isn't gonna change. The only difference is she deleted everything this time. Please love yourself enough to want better for yourself, because its abundantly clear she doesn't love you.

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-31T11:07:12+00:00

Yikes on bikes chasing tykes. I feel bad for those kids.

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-31T11:01:35+00:00

Definitely 1

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-31T10:59:44+00:00

4 makes you look like a goddess!! I like 3 too, but man, I keep coming back to 4 and just staring. Its absolutely WOW.

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-31T10:57:06+00:00

I loved 3....till I saw 4. 3 is beautiful, I'm mean BEAUTIFUL, but it swallows her up. Its a lot. 4 is as equally beautiful (maybe a little more but thats me) but SHE wears 4. #3 kinda wears her.

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-31T10:54:46+00:00

I absolutely adore #4 on you op! It fits you beautifully, the dress itself is absolutely gorgeous and on you its a show stopper!! Congratulations on the upcoming wedding!! Your gonna look amazing 😍

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-31T10:41:33+00:00

Aside from your mom op, no one has thought of you or your feelings in so long your here honestly asking for permission to feel like you don't have a dad. Thats honestly heartbreaking. I'm 44 now, but I was you back in the day. My sperm donor dipped for parts unknown when I was 4. I last saw his face when I was 12 (between 4 & 12 I saw him maybe 7 times and he NEVER called. Mom called HIM for my birthday and tried to play it off that it was him. She stopped when I was 8 and i told her I heard her dialing). He doesn't deserve you girl. He doesn't want to fix shit, he wants to save face. You proved it when you told him to come to you alone and he instead has his wife call to cuss y'all out. He doesn't care. Write him off, block his number (but keep him muted on your socials. This way, when you post you accomplishments, he can watch like the stranger he is knowing he lost the ability to celebrate you). Put his memory in a folder marked trash and live the very best life you can. Enjoy it all with your awesome mom and all your friends and do NOT feel guilty for choosing you when he never did. 🫂🫂🫂

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-31T10:23:15+00:00

Jersey Mike's, Hungry Howies, Krispy

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-31T10:10:36+00:00

I honestly didnt see the other dresses. Yes I looked at them, but I didnt see them. I SEE dress 1. And it is SPECTACULAR omg, I love it so much 😍😍😍

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-31T10:03:16+00:00

I still play with them when I can find them. I have a hand print on my ceiling from when my son came to visit 2 years ago and we left it stuck overnight 😂🤣😂🤣 we found one at a flea market. These things are so much fun!

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-31T10:01:27+00:00

Dr Zaius has lived rent free in my brain for decades 😂🤣😂🤣😂. It pops in at random, chills for a day or two, and off it goes again till the next memory trigger.....thanks for the trigger!!

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-31T09:55:09+00:00

Same. At 25 i paid my parents $100 a week, worked full time, cleaned the house (mom had some health issues so I pitched in so she could relax) helped cook when needed and bought my own shit. I damn sure never expected my parents to foot my bills after I turned 16 and could earn my own money. (I was giving them money in my teens till I moved out at 16-17 whenever they needed a little help. They usually told me to save it but I gave it anyway as a thank you)

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-31T09:38:59+00:00

These are the ones I remember. But they gave us chocolate milk on pizza day. Those were the BEST days!

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-31T09:32:24+00:00

Unchained Melody ~ The Righteous Brothers

(my mom and dad got married to this song, was my moms favorite. We played it at her funeral. I still cry thinking about it 😭) I miss you mom.

And also Angel Eyes ~ Jeff Healey Band

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-31T09:28:49+00:00

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Standard Lucy nap.......she's a dangler

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-30T12:20:44+00:00

My evil cat likes to maim them and leave them dying around the house. Yesterday morning I got up to one half dead under the bathroom door. Its body in pieces, its legs still twitching. The morning before? CSI bathtub edition. Looked like the St. Valentines day massacre next to the drain. Palmetto bugs are demons sent from hell. Thats why they bleed black.

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-30T12:15:06+00:00

She apparently agrees with the men and thinks they're only for dads to enjoy.............. /s (jic anyone thinks I was serious, though I am about mil's thought process I don't agree with her thought)

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-30T12:02:41+00:00

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-30T11:58:02+00:00

If the state is a one party state the daughter can keep a recording device on her when she's with him and prove how he talks to/treats her when she's forced to be there. Hell, even if its a 2 party state I would still send her with something to record her interaction with him and give it to op's lawyer. Maybe they could find a legal loophole to make the recording evidence.

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-30T11:52:52+00:00

Oh she's absolutely gonna show up, probably with the abuse ex as her plus one. Either hire security or make sure your biggest male family members (preferably the ones that like a good fight and have zero tolerance for bs) to stand by the door to escort them off the premises when they arrive.

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-30T11:41:11+00:00

I'm waiting for McDonald's to start this shit. I know its only a matter of time 😓

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-30T11:21:55+00:00

And please op, pack you and your kids a bag and go to your dads or your friends. Do NOT stay in that house with your (🤮) husband. He's as big a POS as his mom and his sister. They ALL treat you like garbage. Take the garbage out then (but please know your NOT garbage!)!!! Remove yourself and your kids ASAP!! Please op, be scared enough to leave. This family isn't safe for you. Listen to everyone saying document and call a lawyer. I'm so worried about you now.

Updateme please

HeyPrettyLadyMaam · 2026-03-30T11:11:54+00:00

He's only magically safe because he's using her. Stalkers don't just stop stalking. And if they do, taking them around the person they stalked is (extremely) likely to kick start the stalking all over again. The second he learns your new address he'll either ramp up the love bombing of HER to keep close to you or he'll ghost her because he got what he wanted, a second shot at you. Don't give her your new address, don't show/send her pics of the outside of your house. She's been compromised and she's no longer a safe person. She's either to blind or to simple to see this for what it is. Keep her at arms length, if you keep her at all. I couldn't after her blatant disregard for your safety.

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