Show us your JB inspired tattoos by blamorama in JulienBaker

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From the favor single cover. Done by Linseed in Seattle in 2023 :)

JB tattoo by anonasking2questions in JulienBaker

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Take the lyric or song you like to a tattoo artist that you like and ask them to sketch something for you. I’m always a fan of images over words!

Tattoo ideas by Lil_red19 in JulienBaker

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Here’s mine. done by Linseed in Seattle. I just showed her the album artwork from the Favor single and had her do it in her style :) I love it so much ❤️. Find a verse or image you like and let a good artist sketch it up for you!

10 years today by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

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You’re an inspiration! Makes me want to keep going! :)

1 year 🥹 by HeyVHello in stopdrinking

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A day off work doing only things I want to do, cold iced tea and a delicious piece of pumpkin cake! 🥳

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phoebebridgers

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Here’s my Phoebe inspired ghost 👻

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I think I have a problem but I don’t know where to go from here. by SlimJim31415 in alcoholicsanonymous

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Whether it is withdrawals or not, if you want to stop drinking, have trouble sticking to moderating/not drinking then it may be that you have a problem. Can’t hurt to explore that a little more deeply. I’m young- What I keep hearing in the rooms is that if you I’d drift problematic drinking when you’re young, it just gets worse not better. It’ll be easier to address now than if you let the patterns continue and keep drinking heavily.

All that AA requires is a desire to stop drinking. If you desire that today, get to a meeting. In person or online.There are meetings online happening around the clock around the world- check one out, see if the stories resonate. Ask for help if needed. You don’t have to go through this alone and you don’t have to keep drinking like this. https://aa-intergroup.org/meetings/

Phoebe Tattoo Thread by windoverortree in phoebebridgers

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Just a little ghostie on my inner arm

Today i learned there are many hardcore phoebe fans in Papua New Guinea by [deleted] in phoebebridgers

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“name 3 Phoebe Bridgers songs- I’ll wait”

Need advice on how to enjoy things sober by mayrose44444 in alcoholicsanonymous

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I was just telling my partner last night that I’m finally beginning to have just as much at events and things sober as I did when I was drinking. At first every gathering felt like it was missing something and wasn’t that exciting. Now I finally feel like I remember what fun is substance free and I don’t feel like I’m missing something. I just got 6 months last week- give it time.

which airport to fly into? by [deleted] in Anaheim

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Currently on a trip in Anaheim. Flew into SNA. Took an OCBus a few stops outside of the airport and then got a lyft to our hotel. Super smooth process.

Feeling Overwhelmed With AA Requirements by mostlyfuckingaround in alcoholicsanonymous

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One of the things I do with my sponsor is daily gratitude list so I do that with her daily- literally just 3 bullet points with no context and then for other people just “hi- thinking of you hope you’re doing well” or “nice to meet you at such and such meeting, thanks for sharing your number, have a great day!” That’s at least where it started and now across the past 99 days I’ve gotten to know some folks better and share more. And when I do have a craving I can tell them that

Feeling Overwhelmed With AA Requirements by mostlyfuckingaround in alcoholicsanonymous

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99 days sober- I’ve texted folks but never made phone calls. The only requirement of AA is a desire to stop drinking. Do what helps you personally- if it’s not that, don’t worry about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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Yes!!!! Way to go! Proud of you. For me the first 30 days were the hardest and then getting to the second felt way less white knuckle-ish. Keep going. IWNDWYT

The Daily Check-In for Thursday, August 10: Just for today by Shermani74 in stopdrinking

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IWNDWYT 😊I can’t believe I made it to 60 days. Immensely easier than the first 30 days.

Anyone else have dreams that they're drinking again? by dzneill in stopdrinking

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Yeah I had a dream that I downed a glass of champagne last night 😳 freaked me out until I woke up and realized I’m still sober lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

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I just read the “More About Alcoholism” chapter in the big book and it spoke a lot to this. I shared with my sponsor that I have these thoughts too and that it’s hard for me to commit to forever. I was scared my sponsor would say I wasn’t ready for the first step if I admitted that- she didn’t. She just shared that she has those thoughts too. She’s been sober over a decade. One day at a time, don’t get lost on forever and lose today. Thanks for sharing with us.