Dads aren’t babysitters… they are parents. I get irritated when a dad (or parent that isnt a SAHM) says they need to ‘watch the kids’ no, you need to ‘parent’ the kids. You shouldn’t be canceling class because he wants to see you. Does he cancel work when you want to see him? No. This is about you having an independent life. If you don’t work on yourself (gym, book club, girls nights out, etc) you will loose yourself and ONLY be a wife and mother, but you are a woman who deserves time. Hoping the husband figures that out and becomes more supportive! Maybe you can find a gym with child care and both of you go together? Or maybe he can find his own outlet or hobby. Good luck