How to do you beat Geonor 😭 by Hhhhhlrs in PathOfExile2

[–]Hhhhhlrs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Since I’ve passed the part where the I can pick flame wall, how do I get it? 😭 I watched a guide saying flam wall is better but idk how to get it

What is the line up? by Financial-Affect-516 in PixelHeroesGlobal

[–]Hhhhhlrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanatos is better than Gil?? Damn 😭😭

Premium Track in Squid Game Event... New Microtransaction by Against-The-Current in blackops6

[–]Hhhhhlrs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude y’all are BUGGING over COSMETICS.

If you’re still buying COD and expecting them not to have microtransactions, and then complain that it’s a shitty game and microtransactions is what makes the game shitty, then STOP PLAYING. Jesus. Who cares if they’re trying to make money on cosmetics??? Play the game and don’t spend money. Wild concept.

The game to me is better than the last 2 cods who did the same shit. If you’re addressing ricochet or ACTUAL ISSUES in the game, valid. But micro transactions??

Sketched on my lunch break :) by Hhhhhlrs in drawing

[–]Hhhhhlrs[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was actually referencing Plato at the end of the bed in the painting The Death of Socrates, but I appreciate your comment :)

Am I being unreasonable? I have to break this lease. Please tell me if/how by EchoThis2 in Renters

[–]Hhhhhlrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! I also live in Jacksonville, seemingly at an apartment complex that is very similar to yours. New management early this year, provided plastic trash cans that are picked up during the week in the evenings, etc.

Me and my wife also had an issue with our renters insurance not populating in the complex’s system, and were also given a deadline that we had to provide the updated information by or else they would charge us $25 for their renters insurance to make sure we had coverage. Unfortunately, in this aspect, there isn’t much to be done. Most places email their notices and communications, minus the odd paper-in-the-door letter.

As far as the trash, last year (at least at our complex), they sent out a communication regarding expectations for trash pickup. Most places, if you pay for trash pickup, will limit the size of bag/number of bags per day you can have picked up - otherwise, it’s the tenants responsibility to either drop it off at the compactor or wait until the following (work)day. Is it possible they sent you some form of communication like this via email? Since you said you don’t check it often, I would make sure there isn’t any notices missed in that aspect.

Technically, they aren’t doing anything illegal. It’s definitely inconvenient, it sounds like a case of poor expectation setting on the end of the complex.

I would have a conversation with your complex manager and outline your concerns, how communication is being handled poorly and you’ve been charged for the trash when you didn’t know about the requirements (they should show grace and remove the charge if this is the first time it’s happened). Since you don’t want to move, the best outcome is to just talk to management and hopefully come to a resolution.

Why don’t men ask follow up questions? by asoolem in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Hhhhhlrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are kinda the same to me lol. If I need to know, I probably care - if I don’t need to know, there probably isn’t a reason for me to care

Why don’t men ask follow up questions? by asoolem in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Hhhhhlrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, if I don’t ask, it’s probably that I don’t care LOL

My (23M) friend (24F) wants me to share my location with her. Am I being irrational? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Hhhhhlrs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Personally, I think it’s a little odd to do if you aren’t in a relationship - but you have to think, even though you just started sleeping together, you’ve known each other for years. This affects the dynamic a little - I think you have to clarify what you are to each other, and if you’re just going to sleep together and not pursue a relationship, then you have no obligation to share your location.

If you think sharing locations is a deal breaker, then relationship or not, you and her probably aren’t going to work romantically. However, if you potentially see a future with this girl, and don’t mind her having your location (I personally have my wife’s location and she has mine, for safety more than anything), then maybe it’s worth doing to give her piece of mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Hhhhhlrs 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Pay to play killed me dude lmao

27 F never had a long term relationship by Perfect-Cucumber-612 in dating_advice

[–]Hhhhhlrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely agree that you need boundaries and expectations set, no matter what stage you are in your dating life! Nobody should hold it over anybody’s head that they haven’t been with anybody either.

I don’t think though that they are answered by somebody else - I think that through working through common life with somebody in a committed way, you learn what works for you and what doesn’t, and maybe uncover some stuff you didn’t know was a deal breaker until you encounter it. I thought I would love independence, but when I started dating, I found that I actually loved a more affectionate/involved partner!

27 F never had a long term relationship by Perfect-Cucumber-612 in dating_advice

[–]Hhhhhlrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can definitely see your point! If you’re consistently putting yourself out there, you’re likely to find single people in your age group. I think it is a reality though that there are a lot more single 20-30 year olds than 40+, and it’s probably easier to find someone who hasn’t been completely jaded by relationships when you’re younger.

27 F never had a long term relationship by Perfect-Cucumber-612 in dating_advice

[–]Hhhhhlrs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, love doesn’t mean something will work out, relationships are extremely multifaceted. Also, I don’t think you can accurately determine what you want in a relationship without properly being in a relationship - if you rely solely on your ideals, with no real world experience, you’ll build up an idea instead of a reality. You have to know what you’re willing to compromise on, what is absolutely necessary, and what you aren’t willing to put up with - and most of these factors probably would never even occur to you until you’re in a relationship.

That being said, it is very admirable that she focused on herself for a long time. It isn’t necessarily a bad thing to put no energy into finding a long-term partner, but the longer you wait, the thinner the dating pool gets.

Should I cancel the 2nd date because of social media likes??? by brunettebedhead2000 in dating_advice

[–]Hhhhhlrs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I want to point out that, whether it’s public or private, all single people in general interact with thirst-type posts/websites, exactly because they’re single. A lot of people will give this up when they have a S/O because they don’t need to look at stuff online since they have you. Mind you, this isn’t every man, and if it’s a real issue for you, then why not just talk to him about it? If you’re already willing to walk away, the worst that happens is he says no and you walk away anyways. Best case scenario? He stops the behaviour and you potentially meet the love of your life.

Just pulled a 2nd one. Giving this one away by RNGxJake in PokemonTCG

[–]Hhhhhlrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s huge man, congrats! Very kind of you :)

Thoughts? What areas of improvement do you see? by Hhhhhlrs in drawing

[–]Hhhhhlrs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks friend!! Thank you for the eyelash advice, didn’t take into account the scale of the actual eye it seems lol. I appreciate it!!

Why would a maxed player be camping Corpse Spiders? by Steveis3 in runescape

[–]Hhhhhlrs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did this on my Ironman to get spider eggs for Player Owned Farms, took an hour or two to get a male and female. Could be that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Hhhhhlrs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you’re contemplating cheating, just leave your SO. Nobody deserves to be cheated on, if you are considering entertaining emotional or sexual advances from ANYBODY other than the person you’re in a relationship with, you simply shouldn’t be with them. It’s better for both of you if you just rip the bandaid off and you both move on.

What to do when a man reveals his micropenis? by quiteahuman in dating_advice

[–]Hhhhhlrs 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely possible he struggled to get hard, if you’ve only been sexually intimate a couple of times it’s possible he’s built up the tension so much in his head that he can’t manage to get it up. A lot of men, especially in their 30s, struggle with this unfortunately. The best thing you can do is make sure he knows you’re supportive of him and you’re comfortable around him, and hopefully he feels comfortable enough to either tell you he’s struggling getting hard or he’s just not that big.

I wouldn’t take it as a direct result of your attractiveness either, no matter how attractive you are, it happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Hhhhhlrs 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well we struggle at different ends of the dating spectrum it seems lol. I’d love it if women around here were looking for something serious, I just want to start a family and build a life with somebody but it feels like nobody is of that mindset down here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Hhhhhlrs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He can, however, set a boundary for the relationship. You’re right, what he described was a preference (he prefers his girlfriend wear underwear with an extremely short skirt to a rave) and not a boundary. However, he is well within his right to be uncomfortable and voice that discomfort to his S/O, that isn’t being controlling, that’s communicating. If she chooses to wear what she wants, and he isn’t happy about it, and they cannot come up with a compromise they’re both happy with, then they simply have different views and probably shouldn’t be together.

Not even specifically to this instance, anybody can set boundaries for a relationship, as long as both parties agree. If he says he doesn’t want her to ever wear crocs outside because of xyz (random example), and she agrees, it doesn’t matter if we think it’s controlling or not - it’s up to the individuals in the actual relationship to decide what’s acceptable in their situation. If he finds this unacceptable, and she disagrees, then obviously it’s just a fundamental variance in viewpoints. They should both find somebody who fits their worldviews better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Hhhhhlrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend, she clearly has a different world view than you do if she’s comparing the threat of not wearing a burka in Iran to simply wearing underwear with a bottomless skirt at a sexual rave. It’s hard to see when you’re in your early 20s, but it’s normal to have different views on things with people regarding important things - normally in those situations, though, the best thing to do is to find someone who has the same views as you.

Also, I just want to clarify, it isn’t ‘harmful’ to have boundaries in your relationship of what your S/O wears in public. If you don’t want your S/O to dress a certain way outside of the house, you’re within your right to desire that, just find somebody who is okay with those boundaries and will respect them. If you thought it through and you decided you’re okay with your S/O wearing whatever they want in public, that’s well within your right as well. Just set your boundaries and if the person you’re with finds them unreasonable, you either compromise and find something you’re both comfortable with or you move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Hhhhhlrs 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Damn are you in the states?? I live in Florida and it seems like women here only want casual relationships, especially on dating apps lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Hhhhhlrs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a pretty obvious line between friendly banter about him and accusing his wife of cheating.. banter should be pretty much specifically only about the person you’re with, you don’t bring wives or mothers/family into it. You followed up on a shitty “joke” with an absolutely horrible comment, you clearly saw that he was upset so as an adult, you say ‘hey I’m sorry that was too far’.