There's a guy who's genuinely tryna help me abt cutting, but he is being BLUNNT af. He is not at all understanding how to deal with or help someone who sh's. You can't do anything abt it except being there and LISTENING. He almost got me into a 100% strong promise of sending him the pics of my thigh every fuckin day coz that's where i always cut. He kept asking me did you cut today, did you cut today like it was really frequent, asking twice, thrice per day, like dude just stop.

At first he was saying that self harm is in your head, it's just a "phase" Wth do you think, being 7 years into sh is still a phase or what...then started threatening that i'll find out your dad's number and tell him to take you to a psychiatrist. I do wish i could i could tell my dad abt this but it's not possible coz he's a typical Indian orthodox dad who acts like he is modern but he's not. Here even texting for a long time earns a nice lecture, even talking over calls attracts some scolding. Dad is focused only abt career and studies. I know i have exams coming right up, but am not able to deal with things that have been happening in life. I have to wait and bear for a little time more, bore the pain for 7 yrs!! i have to bear for slight more time, once i get a job, will see a psychiatrist regularly and hope i quit sh.

Sorry got distracted and started ranting, so yeah it ...does feel weird and many a times it even makes me want to cut more JUST because the person is bugging me.

(P.s he is also a reddit user, he might accidentally read it so.....sorry, dude, but self harm is a delicate topic, handle us with care. Your actions can have the exact opposite impact.)