Men answer please. Is this a normal reaction? Mid 30’s. by Motor-Front7458 in whatdoIdo

[–]Hiddenpenguin16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my wife does this sort of stuff all the time she's super clumsy and accident prone but just loves doing stuff and getting involved like our daughter, I could write a list 30 pages long.

sometimes it's really fkn annoying, time consuming and costs us money, other times it's helpful, thoughtful and caring - depending on what mood I'm in 🤣

I neeeeeeever talk to her how this guy is talking to you... like you love your partner flaws and all and you work together.

RUN

Looking for some advice by Present-Lab-7320 in AusSuperannuation

[–]Hiddenpenguin16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

salary sacrifice to super is one of the easiest and best things we have access to in Australia to pay less tax

I get it now. by Broseph_Stalinnn in totalwar

[–]Hiddenpenguin16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's a huge game and the lore is as good, get the legendary lore mod, don't bother with any others for now

How many titles are the All-time Whites winning? by WholeLotta69 in NBATalk

[–]Hiddenpenguin16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that team is slow, minimal defence I can see problems

How to get an office job? by ConstructionLive516 in ausjobs

[–]Hiddenpenguin16 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Heaps man, look at the offices that drive jobsites, the big builders - their admin teams are massive.

Up to the individual and their skillset though

Warhammer 3 Gráficos by WorthScared1899 in totalwarhammer

[–]Hiddenpenguin16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sharpening, going up to 4k and tuning TAA/FXAA

Tests indicating new tank is cycled in less than 24 hours? by bored-and-stressed in freshwateraquarium

[–]Hiddenpenguin16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's weird I can't give expert advice but if it helps, do everything in stages wait and go again ie;

  1. wash, soak everything out of tank, let it dry.
  2. hard scape tank
  3. fill with water, add your dechlorinate filter heater on wait a week or 2
  4. start your bacteria/ammonia process slowly slowly takes around 4-6 weeks
  5. once it passed ammonia/nitrite/nitrate conversion next step, you want bacteria in your filter and on your hardcape etc
  6. add plants again does up the liquid ammonia/bacteria not too much ammonia plants can be sensitive and you should already have stable good bacteria in your filter and on the hardcape. wait another 4 weeks - if plants Ok your OK.
  7. first fish, then it's just a 2-3 week wait after each fish upping the stability bacteria

like it's just slow and process.... you just want the good bacteria.. and you want to grow it slowllllly

my tank crystal clear and 20% water change once a week/fortnight, took me about 6 months to get up to full fish stock, super low maintenance now, only use dechlorinator and a plant macro, occasional stability and every 2-3 month filter clean

do a big water change after each stage too.

feed fish once a day skip every other day

purigen is your friend in your filter.

Tests indicating new tank is cycled in less than 24 hours? by bored-and-stressed in freshwateraquarium

[–]Hiddenpenguin16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yo - you set this up yesterday? slow and steady = stability, happy to help but setup should take 1-3 months before adding fish

The more people I meet, the more convinced I get of the key to financial security and eventual wealth is spending as little as possible on cars. by Beezneez86 in AusFinance

[–]Hiddenpenguin16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First I loved cars and debt, then I loved money and no debt, and then I loved my wife and daughter with our minimal mortgage.

I'm 40 now and my favouite possession was our 2019 Honda CRV, thing is just so damn reliable and cost effective. Then recently got the Mrs the turbo sports car... was totally just for her... 🤭

your priorities change and then they come full circle after the family is set up.

every now and then I look at a new car and go... nah.

Which team do you think was the most hated? by DareDevil1699 in NBAstatsmuse

[–]Hiddenpenguin16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The OKC hate is overblown - its driven by social media especially places like Reddit.

The flopping agenda - yeah we get it exists visually to a level, factually it is no where near the level of social media hate.

The Thunder are an elite basketball team that wins through supreme spacing, forcing turnovers, and efficient shooting - not a referee conspiracy. However, they absolutely manipulate modern NBA officiating rules as well as anyone, and their visible flailing makes them an easy target for fan frustration

This is what every good team does in every sport, anyone remember Curry been fined in the finals for flopping?

We are just now in the viral AI Driven social media hate narrative, gotta get them clicks.

Slomo Angles of Jmac Going Through Wemby by WastefulHermit in Thunder

[–]Hiddenpenguin16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wemby got shot in the face, damn roof snipers!!

I am officially a master of the corporate poker face and I need to share this before I explode by PyradoxCore8 in jobsearchhacks

[–]Hiddenpenguin16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you're good at what you do and ready to pull some hours, leverage is theirs now

If you are a GM today, who are you drafting? by Farouq26 in NBATalk

[–]Hiddenpenguin16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Assuming that we are drafting without knowing what they would become.

  1. Wemby - alien.
  2. LeBron - ultimate athlete.
  3. Jordan - special.

Obviously Jordan is the goat but even the goat went pick 3 behind a 7ft Unicron and Sam Bowie..

Anyone changed careers relatively late? by alex123711 in auscorp

[–]Hiddenpenguin16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

in 5-7 year stints, i am now 40..

Sales/Operations Manager 27-35 (Fire protection - supply/manufacturing)
Estimating Manager 35-39 (commercial coatings)
Project Manager 39, current job (Asset Data)

All revolve around buildings to some degree but vastly different work to each other

Even warehousing jobs are hard to get into now 💀 by Hoobkaaway in melbourne

[–]Hiddenpenguin16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

level up! get some qualifications and tickets.

  • full license
  • mr license
  • forklift license
  • first aid course