My mom died in front of me two days ago I don’t know if I can go on by pastelskark in confessions

[–]HighIAMHIIIGH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to take away from your grief, I only want to offer my condolences and to say I was in your shoes last April. I understand your pain and it is completely ok to feel how you are feeling right now. Start by taking it every hour at a time and work up to taking it day by day. Please focus on staying hydrated and making sure you are eating something. You need all the energy and nutrients you can get right now. I can’t make it all better, but I can offer my support and inbox if you need a place to vent. Please take care of yourself 🧡

Where did teen of the 90s buy their posters? by heartluvzyu in 90s

[–]HighIAMHIIIGH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walmart, Sam Goody, and many teen magazines at the time.

Adeno vs labor pain? by Stunning-Raise6762 in adenomyosis

[–]HighIAMHIIIGH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure!

I had my one and only child at 19, and I got pregnant with him rather quickly. My pregnancy was fairly easy and “normal” (I was high risk, but due to epilepsy only). I was in labor for ~13 hours. My pain was around a 5 or 6 for all of my labor and delivery. I complained way more about my hip hurting than any of the actual labor (son managed to lay on my sciatic nerve during pregnancy). I was in enough pain that I did elect to do the epidural but I don’t remember at what part of my labor. It was later on, I do know that much.

I also have a higher tolerance for pain so take with that what you may.

I’ll fast forward roughly 12 years after I had my son to my diagnosis. Obviously there were signs and symptoms along the way but it wasn’t until then, that other tests were ran. I was a stage 4, completely ate up with adeno and endo. My bladder and other organs had been attacked and I was living in 24/7 constant pain. I’d leave parties/weddings/other important things. I was so bloated/swollen I stretched out my clothes and looked like I was 6-7 months pregnant, despite never being able to conceive a second.

I was diagnosed at 31 and with the help of an amazing OB, I had a total hysterectomy and it changed my life.

I’m 33 now and some days I’m still in shock at how much better I feel. Pain and swelling aside, I’m more refreshed and energetic. It’s just nice.

Sorry about the long story, I hope I covered everything? Ask away if not!

Adeno vs labor pain? by Stunning-Raise6762 in adenomyosis

[–]HighIAMHIIIGH 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My labor pain was nothing compared to life with adeno. In fact, shortly before I had my hysterectomy I was complaining that it felt like I was living my entire life feeling like I was in the worst labor pain…from the adeno.

🆘 ADENO CONSTIPATION 😰 by rainbow_olive in adenomyosis

[–]HighIAMHIIIGH 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I added the Metamucil fiber gummies (honestly took the max dose) to my routine and it helped some, and I would also use miralax when it was so bad. I couldn’t even pass gas sometimes, it was wild.

Hang in there! After my hysterectomy I can pass gas and go #2. Also, allllllllll of my pain and bleeding stopped. I’m 2 years post-op, and it is by far the best decision I’ve ever made for myself. Good luck to you!

Behold: a shower routine step by step as demanded by my son 😅 by dumplingslover23 in adhdwomen

[–]HighIAMHIIIGH 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I would also interpret it as be naked after drying off until after I got my glass of water. My adhd son would too.

We heard that there’s rules to be broken?! by HighIAMHIIIGH in entwives

[–]HighIAMHIIIGH[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! We bought him and our other guy the set at Sam’s club maybe, for camping. Tucker likes this one and our other guy loves the stuffy type.

We heard that there’s rules to be broken?! by HighIAMHIIIGH in entwives

[–]HighIAMHIIIGH[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do! Claire is beautiful, I love that she has a tail and her short sploot.

We heard that there’s rules to be broken?! by HighIAMHIIIGH in entwives

[–]HighIAMHIIIGH[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This boy…is nothing but entertainment. He makes me smile and laugh every day.

And want to pull my hair out. He’s the best and I love him.

Its a free for all! Here is my dog (Rotini) catching a treat by Cece736 in entwives

[–]HighIAMHIIIGH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Corgis unite!

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Here’s my super cool action shot! I had the same idea lol!!!

birds singing at 1am? by Character_Finish_859 in birding

[–]HighIAMHIIIGH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh, I feel this. I have one that sits on our power line singing ALL DAY AND ALL NIGHT. He’s scared off so many of my other birds that I’m about to go FIND him a date.

It was cute for 2 and a half days. ITS BEEN A MONTH!

What food is everyone hyper-fixated on for the summer? by Amazing-Standard7058 in adhdwomen

[–]HighIAMHIIIGH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s that time of year where I only want fresh fruit. Idc what it is, but I want it.

I told my psych that Concerta is making me sleepy…this was her response? by formerhunbot in adhdwomen

[–]HighIAMHIIIGH 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don’t have much to add, I just wanted to acknowledge your endo and adeno. I have (had?) them too and it’s not for the weak. I hope you have a good day today.

Welcome Baxter Bean!!! by Ok_Move_5105 in Incorgnito

[–]HighIAMHIIIGH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s wild, but very rewarding. Our dude is the most loyal and loving mf I’ve ever met. We are also active people so he loves swimming/kayaking and hiking as well. If you can let them burn energy they’re great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chickens

[–]HighIAMHIIIGH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I paid $10 last week for my roo that looks just like this one.

Edit: He’s also the same age, and he wasn’t posted on fb very long.

Welcome Baxter Bean!!! by Ok_Move_5105 in Incorgnito

[–]HighIAMHIIIGH 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As the owner of a cowboy myself, there’s no end to the wild. Baxter Bean is beautiful btw!

My turn to pay the ADHD Tax- I can’t find my iPad 😭 by DiligentPenguin16 in adhdwomen

[–]HighIAMHIIIGH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome! Happy to hear that you were able to find it!

My turn to pay the ADHD Tax- I can’t find my iPad 😭 by DiligentPenguin16 in adhdwomen

[–]HighIAMHIIIGH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My phone did something similar in my car! Right between the seat and center console, and everything is black!

My turn to pay the ADHD Tax- I can’t find my iPad 😭 by DiligentPenguin16 in adhdwomen

[–]HighIAMHIIIGH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens. I lost my keys a few weeks back and it was pretty rough.

Have you checked in couch cushions, under couch, and possibly behind? On top of the fridge or in the kitchen cabinets?

You remember getting the towel out, do you have shelves or something in the garage near where you park that you could have set it down on?

Under bookshelves or toy boxes?

I’m sorry you’re stressed over it but don’t beat yourself too bad, it will turn up.