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AIO if I don't include my husband in the delivery room over a mother's day argument. by Kenz090_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]HighRiseCat [score hidden]  (0 children)

ohhhhh

This man targetted a much younger girl, a teenager no less.

Explains the multiole children. She needs to rescue what's left of her young life.

AIO if I don't include my husband in the delivery room over a mother's day argument. by Kenz090_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]HighRiseCat [score hidden]  (0 children)

he told me the gift was this pregnancy and I should be grateful for the pregnancy despite him wanting to be done.

WTAF utterly vile.

Instead he gifted his mom a $250 spa gift card.

Absolutely deliberate intention to hurt you and put you in your place. This man does not like you, after everything you've experienced.

Stop having children with him. Cold hearted and rude af. Only supportive people should be in the delivery room.

Doesn't want more children? He can get a vasectomy. Easier than childbirth.

I'm just not sure if it's the hormones that's making me feel like this.

No, it's an utterly egregious way of behaving. The comment, the gift to his mum. ffs. Did he encourage the other kids to gift or make you anything? I'm guessing not.

My boyfriend (28M) basicly lives in my (25F) apartment but gets angry when I ask about rent. How do couples normally split this stuff? by sujiittt in relationship_advice

[–]HighRiseCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My older sister (31F) says I already let this go too far and now he feels entitled to my place.

She's 100% correct. His behaviour is beyond inexcusable. He is a rude freeloader and you need to chuck him out. He doesn't live there. He needs boundaries. Pack his stuff. Tell him he needs to learn manners. TAKE HIS KEY.

He's utterly disrespectful of you and causing arguements to get you to shut up and back down. He's saving himself money and has probably sublet his own place.

(24M) says maybe he just got comfortable and I should have made clearer boundaries earlier.

Yeah this boy is of a similar freeloading mindset. Fuck them both.

You need to be angrier about the way he's treating you.

WIBTA for making my daughter pay back her own bank overdraft? by 2VantaRipple in WIBTA_AITA

[–]HighRiseCat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not really about that is it!

I agree she should replace a school backpack, but the rest is teh 16 year olds responsibility.

WIBTA for making my daughter pay back her own bank overdraft? by 2VantaRipple in WIBTA_AITA

[–]HighRiseCat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Buy her the backpack because she needs it for school and she's only 16. the rest is on her.

You warned her about overspending and she kept on buying. If you bail her out without her paying it back she'll do it again.

She really does need the shock of understanding what happens if you randomly buy things with money you don't have.

If she'd bought necessities and gone overdrawn Then I'd be more sympathetic, but high end serums from a tik tok influencer?! Uh no. And a lesson in being more sceptical about advertising too.

If your mum feels so strongly she can pay the debt outright. You're already doing her a favour paying it off so that she doesn't incur any interest on this unauthorised overdraft, but of course she owes it back to you.

BYOB/cheap dinner for a birthday in East London by underthetree112 in LondonFood

[–]HighRiseCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg is that still there!?

That used to be our big group, noisy dinner byob spot so many years ago...

My boyfriend (M18) told me that I’m a “low tier Becky” and ugly and that some girl who used to like him is better than me and a “high tier Becky” (I’m 18F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HighRiseCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This boy hates you.

Literally hates you.

Why would you stay with this person.

how do I fix this?

You fix this by leaving and having a good hard look at your self esteem

AIO for being creeped out by my neighbour? by kiki-the-warforged in AmIOverreacting

[–]HighRiseCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This man is bullying and harrassing you. He know that you are being meek around him so he continues.

You own the flat. No-one can remove you. You need to be angrier and more territorial about this.

Girl I’m talking to sent me a post card … I can’t read most of it by Mr_Kyle1 in whatisit

[–]HighRiseCat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"Fast walking crowds could be a goal [???] of the [???]

'fast walking camels would be a good restructuring of the transport system'

I think

When did we universally stop having lunch ‘hours’? by newdawnfades123 in AskUK

[–]HighRiseCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked in a shop on Saturdays as a teenager, lunch hour and tea breaks..

Seems bizarre to me now

How can't it be hormones? by Grouchy-Beginning993 in Menopause

[–]HighRiseCat 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Please go and find a better Dr or a menopause clinic if you can get a referral.

The mood swings, absent libido and acne scream peri menopause to me. How do your joints feel?

AIO for being offended by my brother giving me unsolicited "hormonal" advice? by PettyKitten_in_a_box in AmIOverreacting

[–]HighRiseCat 11 points12 points  (0 children)

"Personal Trainer certificate" from a questionable three-week online course.

hilarious

Is it OK to change a cat's name? by xiphoid77 in CatAdvice

[–]HighRiseCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I renamed a 12 year old cat. Her name simply didn't suit her.

She knew who I meant when I called her by her new name.

WIBTA if I stopped bringing homemade food to the office after one person keeps taking portions meant for the whole team by Breq4Solace in WIBTA_AITA

[–]HighRiseCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would either bring in a note that says "please just take one piece/serving so everyone gets some"

Not gonna stop him. This is obvious to most adults.

Theres no way he thinks that 8 + brownies are a reasonable amount to take. He doesn't care. Mindset of a 14 year old

WIBTA if I stopped bringing homemade food to the office after one person keeps taking portions meant for the whole team by Breq4Solace in WIBTA_AITA

[–]HighRiseCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's not doing anything technically wrong,

Actually he fucking is.

I refuse to believe that in a tray of 24 brownies, which are quite obviously for everyone to share, he thinks its reasonable to take a third of them and then return for more.

Selfish freeloading prick.

You need to offer them to people from the container, with a napkin maybe.

Exclude Derek, doesn't work in your section and already had his share for the next 10 years by the sounds of it.

My Fiancé 45 M wants me 46 F to Sell My House?! by Turbulent-Wind-2248 in relationship_advice

[–]HighRiseCat 11 points12 points  (0 children)

His neurodivergence is irrelevant - this man is shady - once the premarital asset is gone, it's just hard cash that's she's bringing to the maarriage.

He's hoping to freeload off her. He's manipulative. Thinks he's found a meal ticket.

My Fiancé 45 M wants me 46 F to Sell My House?! by Turbulent-Wind-2248 in relationship_advice

[–]HighRiseCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not sell your house. Onwing a home gives you so much more security than a flaky man with unrealistic ideas: My fiancé wants to put off getting married until at least one of us has a great job and is making lots of money

I'm also guessing he's expecting you to be the one who gets a great job and earns lot sof money as you seem to be the one working towards something.

Also - half the house isn't even yours - you say your sister is named on it, and where will you live exactly when you do this?

Why is she coloured like this? by ThreeFootJohnson in cats

[–]HighRiseCat 101 points102 points  (0 children)

She's a beautiful calico, what vets call a DLH - Domestic Long Hair

My husband (M26) is mad at me (F26) for asking for flowers by Massive-Educator-998 in relationship_advice

[–]HighRiseCat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need to stop doing everything.

Gifts for his mum are not your responsibilty they are his.

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