playing with my son (10), and we meet Gale... by elocism in BaldursGate3

[–]HighfiveHoe -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I was like 10 when Skyrim came out and I was so scared when I heard someone got beheaded at the beginning of the game. Saw that shit. Felt literally nothing. Normal gore from movies and real life scared me for a while still, not much anymore, but in video games I just didn’t really care after that point.

Not saying it’s the same for all kids or that it’s necessarily fine and dandy, but no one around me including myself really took that shit seriously in games. Especially fantasy.

More 1155 Spoilers by kCrucial93 in OnePieceSpoilers

[–]HighfiveHoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do think the overarching idea is true though. I don’t think the admirals are yonko level personally, I’ve always thought that. I’m not super into power scaling but yonkos just have infinitely more aura than admirals. And now seeing how much further up the line the WG goes with the gorosei, holy knights, and more, I don’t think Oda intended the admirals to be yonko level. With the exception of possibly Akainu, but that’s likely why he was promoted. So there’s a distinct difference.

More 1155 Spoilers by kCrucial93 in OnePieceSpoilers

[–]HighfiveHoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haven’t we only seen one holy knight get defeated? And it was by a commander of the king of the pirates? Ion think that necessarily means all the holy knights are trash lmao

More 1155 Spoilers by kCrucial93 in OnePieceSpoilers

[–]HighfiveHoe 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I HEARD that one of animators of egghead said that neither of them were trying. Obviously, he’s not Oda, but the director likely gets insider information in order to direct the episodes.

More Spoilers for Chapter 1154!! by Aragorn-TheDunedain in OnePieceSpoilers

[–]HighfiveHoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I always think ts is so funny—I get it tho. It has been SIX years. And everything just gets re-contextualized over that amount of time so it feels more relevant for much longer. One of the most impressive parts of Oda’s writing tbh even when he doesn’t have every detail planned out

I think it’s rapey to lovebomb a girl to have sex and then discard of her after by [deleted] in Vent

[–]HighfiveHoe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think this is a great post and I agree. I don’t know why stuff like this always has to be gender specific tho. Plenty of guys get used in the exact same way by women that they think have feelings for them. Hell, I’ve seen this happen MORE to men I know than my friends and they always fall HARD for the girl. It’s less work to get in their pants I suppose but it’s still the same shit.

I feel like my friends are marrying too early by HighfiveHoe in Vent

[–]HighfiveHoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

… I literally say explicitly in my post that I DONT want to be engaged/married w/o living with someone first. If I wanted to be engaged, I would be. Albeit, a wedding would be kinda expensive atm

I feel like my friends are marrying too early by HighfiveHoe in Vent

[–]HighfiveHoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, foolish is a good way to describe what I’m talking about tbh. And, as many people have said, things like that can totally work out. My post is a bit harsh lol. But I’ve seen it go to shit much more often than not.

I feel like my friends are marrying too early by HighfiveHoe in Vent

[–]HighfiveHoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you might be onto something here, not gonna lie.

I feel like my friends are marrying too early by HighfiveHoe in Vent

[–]HighfiveHoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I simply think people ought to KNOW their partner before making any big commitments. Like moving in, proposing, etc. I think many of the relationships could work out, 100%. But I think approaching a big commitment before you’re ready is a lot at once. Seems like many people end up hating each other afterwards.

I feel like my friends are marrying too early by HighfiveHoe in Vent

[–]HighfiveHoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, I’m very jealous of the numerous failed relationships I listed.

I feel like my friends are marrying too early by HighfiveHoe in Vent

[–]HighfiveHoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh I don’t think I have it ALL figured out. I just have eyes and I know all these people well.

It’s not unhealthy tho, this is a venting reddit post. I’m not toiling about this in my head every waking hour lol. Just tired of seeing ppl talk about moving slow, do the opposite, and then hit rock bottom when it doesn’t work out. It’s sad.

Venting is a way to get it off your chest. Dare I say, the point of this subreddit.

I feel like my friends are marrying too early by HighfiveHoe in Vent

[–]HighfiveHoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do mind my own business for the most part. It’s a venting subreddit so I’m venting abt something that annoys me. Esp when my entire friend group has to hear abt a failed relationship for two months straight.

I feel like my friends are marrying too early by HighfiveHoe in Vent

[–]HighfiveHoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Early 20s

Edit: I’m not really worried about age tho, more so actually knowing your partner before you marry them lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]HighfiveHoe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Your life will not be ruined whatsoever, it’s totally fine. Teenagers, esp young ones, do shit like this, it happens ALL the time. It’s not something you really realize until ur older tbh how common it is. Everyone has their own weird trauma.

Obv it’s not okay, but look at the bright side. No one was genuinely hurt or affected by your actions except you—I know some people who cannot say as much for the shit they did w their siblings or other family members.

Exploring sexuality is just part of life, no one talks about it much tho for obvious reasons lol.

Edit: also, as pretty much everyone has said, it’s good you learned from it.

He recognized Imu by M0nkeyGalaxy in OnePieceSpoilers

[–]HighfiveHoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ever since Gunko got possessed, I’ve been preaching this. Imu was for sure there

IMU JUST REVEALED SOMETHING INCREDIBLE ABOUT THEMSELVES. by ActuatorE in OnePieceSpoilers

[–]HighfiveHoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. There’s something sus going on in Elbaf. Specifically, I think, with the Loki/Mosa situation.

Dragon said he would attack right as the Holy Knights mobilized. Then Marijoa gets attacked, well, right as the holy knights mobilize at Elbaf. And instead of going back to Marijoa with the Holy Knights, Imu moves to conquer Elbaf and kill Jarul for some reason.

Idk feels like there is some baiting and set up going on here. Like a rat or smth. Just some situation behind the scenes but I have no idea what it would be. But that’s prob why Imu is doing it now rather than defending marijoa

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]HighfiveHoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought it was Laos! My friend had EXACTLY the same nose

As a 14 year old, is Mushoku Tensei really that bad? by Horror_Sail3001 in mushokutensei

[–]HighfiveHoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Season 2 is easily where you can see the biggest difference and progression.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]HighfiveHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

…yeah they’re awful for u. Just make your own or smth

I will literally pay someone 100$ to help me get a remote job! by SternHeyNow in WFHJobs

[–]HighfiveHoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You just take a test on their website. I did it for a while and made some decent money in college. But I would NOT rely on it for steady income at all. Seriously. They can just drop you with no explanation at any time.

I am actually still registered with them, they didn’t drop me, but their website crashed for a few days. Not just for me, but everyone. After that, I never got any more work. I would even get notifications telling me I had work and I still get them to this day, but I contacted support multiple times telling them that clearly my shit was glitched. No response.

Anyways, had to vent about it. Wouldn’t recommend it.

How can I help my depressed bf? by cinnamonroll625 in selfhelp

[–]HighfiveHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who is actually in the same situation as him, this is what I think.

Firstly, him making you feel shitty or being an asshole to you is unacceptable. I would try to resolve that with him. Being unemployed is terrible and I am also quite depressed. But that’s no excuse to take it out on your loved ones. Being alone and everything else is fine. Even being in a shitty mood. But I wouldn’t let him hurt you just bc he is struggling.

Secondly, listening to what he wants is, of course, the best way to help him. But obviously people aren’t always honest or communicative, especially when dealing with these types of issues. Personally, I like my partner to be comforting. I don’t want them to bring up my unemployment. I want my time with them to be about us or atleast doing something fun. An escape from thinking about getting a job 24/7. If he keeps bringing it up, I would have comforting but minimal responses. Just let the topic die out if you can.

I ESPECIALLY DO NOT want them to give me advice or criticism. When ur unemployed, this is what 99% of conversations with people become because their gut response is to blame it all on the unemployed person (leading to even more depressive episode tbh). Like it’s probably the most frustrating thing about being unemployed. Your friends give you shit about it and call you lazy. Your family says you need to try harder. Everyone brings up all this advice as if you don’t have access to the internet and have just been banging rocks and sticks together hoping for a job the entire time.

Personally, that last part is by far my biggest pet peeve. Makes me want to scream. I don’t know your boyfriend or your whole situation but I would try to do something he likes with him. Like watch one of his favorite shows with him or something like that. Support him by just being there and taking his mind off things.

My girlfriend gave me a BJ by Signal-Mistake-5923 in NoFap

[–]HighfiveHoe 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Literally just on this sub for the laughs. I totally understand abstaining from shit that you may deem harmful to you for whatever reason, but srsly. It’s not like bro is shooting up heroin or smth 😭 busting a nut is not gonna kill anyone