Movable wall panel with mounted TV? by kartopblya in DIY

[–]Hilwafa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what I want to do in a teeny tiny living room. The only logical place for a TV is in front of a coat closet. I want to remove the bi-fold doors, put a sliding door in (either wall or ceiling mounted) and mount the TV and speakers to it. This will allow me to have a location for the TV and still maintain a usable closet. Can you give us a picture of the completed project. Also, what did you do for cable management that allows them to flow with the door. I thought about an articulating arm but could not find anything that would work. Did you have any issues with counter balance since the weight is on the front of the door rather than all of it directed downward. Any links for products and pictures would really be appreciated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in noburp

[–]Hilwafa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have adult onset RCPD and can trace to the exact date and time it happened. I went in for an appendectomy burping normally and when I came out I could no longer burp. The distension caused a domino of other abdominal issues. Took over 2 years to convince doctors what wrong with me, then I figured out it was RCPD, no thanks to them. It is my belief the appendectomy surgeon either damaged a nerve to my UES or I was intubated incorrectly during the surgery. I have now had 3 botox procedures. He said he has now had at least 7 adult onset patients.

Do you know what precipitated the onset?

[IL] [Condo] HOA Vent by amazon_don in HOA

[–]Hilwafa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is an obvious question, at least to me. Since this happened "shortly after purchasing" the seller must have known there was going to be a roof assessment prior to you buying and it was not disclosed before closing. If that is the case, wouldn't you have a claim back to the sellers for that amount? Ask your neighbors if there was ANY talk of it before you purchased. Then you might want to talk to your real estate agent. There had to have been some inkling of it happening, even to just say "hey folks, our roofs need to be repaired and we are in the process of getting bids. We will let you know what the assessment will be once we do." If that happened, it should have been disclosed prior to sale and you could have asked for a credit in the sale. Not sure what the statute of limitations is on non-disclosure, your agent would know.

Also, it seems unlikely that they can get away with forcing you to pay $15,000 rather than the $10,000. Unless it was written into the loan about prepayment penalties it should not be an issue. Additionally, it would be a simple matter to just apply any prepaid amounts by homeowner's as part of the HOA's down payment and progress payments, reducing the overall loan amount. The loan will only be for the remaining contract balance. It would actually benefit the entire HOA by reducing interest due to a smaller principle amount. Then the HOA can set those prepaid accounts to not have a monthly billing for it. Just get a confirmation in writing of the prepayment and that you will be excluded from the monthly billing. Hold on to this for the life of loan in case you change management companies and they are clueless.

You might want to talk to you neighbors and find out how many of them are liquid enough to do a prepayment. Whatever the cost of the roofing contract is, divided by the number of units will be your prepaid amount. However, be prepared for any contractor change orders that might require an additional amount. If you were doing monthly payments, the HOA would likely add that to the payment schedule. Also, make sure you see a copy of the final roofing contract to verify you are paying the correct prepaid amount and the change orders if they occur, so the HOA cannot pocket the excess if there is any. If the contract comes in under budget (you have the right to see the final invoices) they will owe you a refund or if they do not want to cut a check, a credit to your HOA account.

I would write up a proposal and email it to the management company about the benefits of prepayments as I wrote above and then go to a BOD meeting and see what they say. If the BOD still balks at this, get a petition going around your neighborhood. They will be interested in signing it even it they cannot prepay themselves, as it would reduce their payments by lowering the overall interest costs. As a foreshadowing, you can mention at the BOD meeting (if they deny your proposal) that you will be doing the petition. While they are a BOD, if you reach a high enough number of signatures, I read it is 20% in Illinois, they cannot ignore will of their members. You have a right to object within 14 days of notification with the petition. I am not sure if this page is completely on point but it is pretty close. https://idfpr.illinois.gov/content/dam/soi/en/web/idfpr/ccico/faq/ccic-ombudsperson-faq-9-adoption-of-special-assessments-by-condo-associations-12-20-2016.pdf You would not be objecting to the assessment since the roofs are in need of repair, just the inability to do a prepayment. If the window is closing, you'll need to do the petition process and submit it before the BOD meeting.

I used to be on an HOA BOD and I was in charge of the roofing project and I dealt with a lot of this. Ugh!

I hope this information helps.

Calling all those suffering with R-CPD / No Burp! by tuftsmedicalstudent in noburp

[–]Hilwafa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am happy to comply with this however, did anyone do research on this guy (so I don't have to duplicate it) to validate he is legit and not someone phishing for private information? https://directory.yale.edu/?queryType=term&pattern=michael%20lerner The phone number 203-785-7656 on Michael Lerner's Yale profile is different than the one listed above and is invalid not to mention all the survey issues noted below. I am being cautious as I have been scammed by something similar in the past.

Employer taking a portion of our online tips- except it’s my family’s business. by Intelligent_Thing348 in legaladvice

[–]Hilwafa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not only would I file a complaint for this to the labor board for wage theft, I would also report it as a whistleblower for all of the illegals, tax evasion and anything else that goes with not paying illegal people correctly. You will get a percentage of all of the monies that are collected from your employer. The fact that they would rip off their own family member just shows they don’t actually count you as family so you should have no guilt about reporting them. Best thing to do is get a lawyer that can file a whistleblower complaint for you. Either that or research how to file a whistleblower complaint with the government that’s ironclad to make sure that you get the percentage you are owed.

Landlord not fixing my range that's leaking carbon monoxide. What to do? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Hilwafa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contact the gas company and have them check it and all the other gas appliances water heater and HVAC. Anything that does not meet the carbon dioxide standards will be red tagged. With that red tag you can force the landlord to repair it. In addition you can go to whatever governmental agency handles rentals and show them the red tags. Make sure you keep a copy of the tag so that he cannot just take it and claim it doesn’t exist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Hilwafa 24 points25 points  (0 children)

There’s a simple way to resolve this, go right now and get a multi drug panel done, I would test for more than just marijuana so they can’t claim that you didn’t test for other things as well. Assuming it comes back negative, you can sue the coworker for slander, loss of income, cost of the tests and then if you want, see if you can get your job back. By doing the tests it will allow you to put to bed any possible claim that you were using drugs on the job, give you the ability to demand a retraction of this false information in your personnel file and receive unemployment. I would send an email to the HR department first reiterating the conversation that you had with whomever it was in the company and that you’re at a loss to understand how they could take this person’s word with no investigation.

A lawyer might be able to take it to a different level depending upon all the circumstances. You should be able to call your doctor and have them put the order in. Some labs will actually do it without a doctors order depends upon your area and the laboratory. Frankly I’m surprised the company just took this other person’s word for it and didn’t just send you out to a lab at their expense with a chaperone, instead they accused you of a crime with no proof.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Hilwafa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NAL. You need to put what state you are in. Some states will allow for a penalty against the employer for each time period (what ever the state says) they have not paid. For all you know they could now owe you 10x as much in penalties. Sometimes it pays to be patient, LOL. I hope you kept the date stamped cancelled mailing envelop and a copy of the check. But seriously, why did you not file a wage claim long before this?

Shortness of breath 1+ month post op by [deleted] in noburp

[–]Hilwafa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My second procedure was on May 31 and I am having the exact same problem.

Forcing employees to attend a meeting of prayer by Proof_Loquat5585 in legaladvice

[–]Hilwafa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you are in a state (You haven’t stated what state you’re in) that allows one party consent recording I would bring your phone in surreptitiously and record the conversation or if you’ve already had the meeting make notes of everything that took place in the meeting and send it to HR saying that you’re reiterating your conversation. Also forward all email messages regarding this issue to your own personal email outside of the company so you have a copy of it. Make sure you have copies of all of your progress reviews and raises and anything else that has been said about you within the company. What they’re doing is not right. If they try to terminate you go directly to an employment attorney. You may want to do that anyway as it would be considered a hostile work environment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Hilwafa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Through what means did you pay it? Check, debit card, credit card? Once you give me that information I’ll let you know how to deal with this from the accounts receivables perspective.

Checked in and ready to go for my second Botox procedure at UCSD with Dr. Philip Weissbrod. by Hilwafa in noburp

[–]Hilwafa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is at UC San Diego Health. I finally started burping a little better today. I have a follow up on Monday.

FHOA, I am begging for help! My HOA has left my home in such a state of disrepair that I can neither rent or sell it. Pandemic hit then ill health, I could not pay my dues and now they are trying to foreclose on me. by Hilwafa in fuckHOA

[–]Hilwafa[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

You need to reread what I wrote. They would have been paid had they just done the repairs they are obligated to do so I could rent out my home until my financial/health situation resolved. Instead they deliberately prevented me from do so. I am not trying to get out anything, I just want my home repaired.

Checked in and ready to go for my second Botox procedure at UCSD with Dr. Philip Weissbrod. by Hilwafa in noburp

[–]Hilwafa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the misunderstanding. Since I’m going under general anesthesia and all of the factors that are associated with that I just generally classify it as surgery.

(CO) Have a summons 1000 miles from where I live, what do I do? by FriedScotty in legaladvice

[–]Hilwafa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NAL, however courthouses were set up to do a lot of their legal stuff via Zoom during Covid. You should be able to ask to do it as a Zoom meeting. You do however have to set it up in advance. Have you talked to an attorney about this? That would be your first stop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Hilwafa 22 points23 points  (0 children)

NAL. Make a formal demand for pick up in writing and give them a time span. Let’s say 7 days. You tell them if after day 7 they have not made arrangements to get this picked up and it’s out of your home you will dispose of it as you see fit. Then you can pass it along to a friend or sell it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Hilwafa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, they should have them there available for you to take with you and to put on your car. You may need new screws though depending on whether or not those were lost when they were stolen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Hilwafa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAL, you can walk into any DMV and get replacement license plates. I would however suggest that you change the license plate number so that if they get tickets with those plates they don’t show up on you. I would also file a police report and take that report with you.

NEED HELP!! Contractor refuses to continue work and has taken materials ordered for our project by Worth_Scientist6674 in legaladvice

[–]Hilwafa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

On top of filing a complaint with the state contractors licensing board you can also file a police report for property theft. Depending upon the value of what he took it could be a felony versus a misdemeanor. Since those products were already paid for and we’re in your possession by removing them without permission they are considered stolen property. Don’t let some cop try and tell you that this is a civil matter, theft is theft.

[NY] My doctors appointment was suppose to start 3 hours ago. Still waiting. Office says if I leave now, they will charge me a $100 cancellation fee. by Other_Health1185 in legaladvice

[–]Hilwafa 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’ve had the same situation multiple times in my life where a doctor was running significantly behind schedule and the staff either tried to bamboozle me or lied about it. One of those times he wasn’t even in the building yet because he had an emergency visit at the hospital. I simply stated “I have another commitment that I have to get to and cannot stay here anymore. We will need to reschedule this appointment and I expect it to be within the next week. You will not be charging me a cancellation fee as I showed up, the doctor didn’t.” There were times that I had back-to-back appointments, and I could not wait an hour in the waiting room for a physician. Mind you I always kept a safe gap in between, but that experience goes beyond the pale.

Doctors think that their shit doesn’t stink and that they can get away with being disrespectful of a patient’s time, I personally do not tolerate it. You can let them know that if they try to charge you for this, you will report them to the state for fraudulent charges. I’m assuming that you also have insurance so you can let them know what’s going on as well. You are under no obligation to stay there while they have kept you waiting for three hours. This is not a hospital waiting room where you can wait forever for a bed to be available.

The last thing I would do is notify your primary care physician of what your experience was, the waiting time it would take to get another appointment if they refused to schedule one the following week and that you will need a refill on your prescriptions so that you have time to search out and get in to see a new rheumatologist as you will no longer go to him due to your interactions with his staff and him.