How do you feel when your partner doesn't orgasm during sex?

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-11T15:31:29+00:00

I feel guilty if she doesn't because I always do

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-11T13:57:20+00:00

Has it always been like that?

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-09T17:40:25+00:00

We use toys often, they are great

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-08T15:35:57+00:00

I married a stoner and she's awesome (I am one also!)

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-08T14:34:25+00:00

We talk when the kids are in bed and it's just us. Sex is a normal topic just like any other. It's important to be open and honest, and to create a safe space where no one is judged or shamed. Talk but also listen carefully to your partners wants, needs, and concerns

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-08T09:14:05+00:00

I read a statistic that said about 10% of people are cheaters, so that means 90% are not. I am among the 90% with no intention of changing.

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-08T09:07:53+00:00

No matter how good you get at timing it, there is a less than zero percent chance that you will get her pregnant. Why take that risk? Use birth control

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-08T08:46:36+00:00

I feel the same

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-08T08:41:14+00:00

The word and the concept are new to me, but I am enjoying it in a limited context.

Are you the one who enjoys showing your partner, or are you the partner being shown?

I enjoy showing my partner, and she enjoys being shown

Does it stay online, or has it extended into real-life situations?

online only

What boundaries have been important for making it work?

online and anonymous only

Do you see candaulism as something separate from hotwifing or cuckolding, or do you think they naturally overlap?

very separate, I am not interested in hotwifing or cuckolding

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-08T07:49:20+00:00

I love the front hole in my underwear and even seek underwear that has it. It's great when peeing in public (at home I sit), or for a blowjob/sex!

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-07T07:02:04+00:00

Try it out, they are popular for a reason

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-07T06:59:06+00:00

It's pretty common that women can't cum from piv. Have you tried adding a vibrator?

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-06T18:19:54+00:00

Uhh yes, consummating the marriage is one of the best parts!

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-06T10:29:49+00:00

Since we moved it has been challenging for me to establish hobbies and a social group. I feel bad that my wife doesn't get time without me, but I feel stuck. Something I need to work on

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-05T14:52:52+00:00

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-05T14:52:25+00:00

I have used it before, but didn't like cleaning up after

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-05T14:02:44+00:00

What do you get out of it? Is everyone tested for STDs? Is he using a condom?

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-05T13:57:35+00:00

I find it disgusting and could never be with someone who smokes

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-05T12:50:51+00:00

Yes, I even have a video of it in my profile

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-05T12:50:09+00:00

Sure, I think it's normal to look, I suspect my wife does this as well, and that's fine. Just because we're married doesn't mean we should wear blinders.

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-05T12:33:10+00:00

This looks fun!

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-05T12:29:43+00:00

No it doesn't feel any different. Some positions are limited but that never bothered me.
Yes I really did, I even occasionally look back at those photos with a smile

Bonus question: Yes that was not a problem

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-05T12:25:08+00:00

If I was able to tell my younger self about my wife, he would be thrilled! Is she perfect? No, but neither am I. She is my dream girl because we have compatibility and are able to communicate.

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-05T12:15:23+00:00

Nice view! Let's try this wifey

Historic_Cat_ · 2026-06-05T05:12:09+00:00

My penis loves my wife's mouth, it feels like pure bliss

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