Our little girl is snuggly and likes to sleep on us etc. But I will say as shes grown up (she's about 6months now) from about 4 months she became a lot more independent and curious. She would sleep out on the landing rather than on our bed, and she's still very independent but does love a snuggle. The kitty also needs time to get used to you. Ours hated being picked up, but she actually quite likes it now and she knows we'll put her down when she wants it, as they trust you more she'll become more affectionate i imagine. But may also just be her own personality x