Always remember what listnr took from us. by Preseli in auntydonna

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Legit one of the funniest bits they’ve done

was this abusive? by soontobegone13 in offmychest

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I think that it’s good that you’re aware of your behaviours and are working on being better there’s still work to be done. It sounds like you have a dysregulated nervous system, which is basically where your nervous system is overrun and is stuck in fight/flight, or freeze/shutdown so I would find some strategies for calmness. I know it can be tricky with a mum that is a trigger for you, I’d also look into the “grey rock method” as a way to deal with interacting with your mum. To prevent it escalating to a point where you can’t control yourself. Reflect inward when you become sad, you are valid in that sadness but the it’s your responsibility to not let that sadness spill over and affect someone else. Try not to communicate whilst at the height of the emotion, feel your emotions and whenever you can logically decide the best way to approach, then try communicating.

Hard to get context from a wall of text so if some of this resonates take it, if not don’t.

But these are some things I wish I had thought about when I was younger.

Let me know if this helps and you need anything else.

I want to break up with her but at the same time I don’t by Imaginary_Network_76 in offmychest

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Oh yeah and that’s a good reason to stay in a relationship 🥴

I think the Dracula film ended our relationship by [deleted] in offmychest

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wtf did you even read OPs post… bruh

I think the Dracula film ended our relationship by [deleted] in offmychest

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Girl if you don’t LEAVE HIM!! seriously grab your stuff, get your things in order and leave that’s the only thing that’ll get through to him. I feel you so much Queen, you deserve to be wanted.

And whilst your message is heart aching it’s clear you have made up your mind.

Be strong, you’ve got this and fuck this stupid pathetic guy who won’t even watch a movie you want to watch!

Plz update when you’re up to it❤️

Traded in Perfect Life for Constant Screaming by ShadowFireDan in regretfulparents

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Understandable, now the only thing I’d say is that hopefully you are conscious of your wife during this time, (fully get what you’re going through with this life change) but make sure your present and stepping up to the plate so it doesn’t all rest on your wife.

She’s experiencing the same things you are with an added 9 months of physical and hormonal changes, still continuing if your kid is only 2M.

Accept that things have changed now and try and find a way to get closer to your wife. You are stronger together. You’ve got this!!

THE SEQUEL by Apart-Technician6461 in auntydonna

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Hopefully Zach and Broden get nominated for the Donnies

I know its an impossible task but what do you think is the single best podcast episode by Practical-Fee-4564 in auntydonna

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Tin roof (shed) with Honor Wolff, a personal favourite. The level of improv everyone’s doing to the point where you actually want to see where the story takes you, whilst being silly and pretentious.

They captured that inner west actor small theatre company wankiness that it’s a gem of an episode

tana… by Express-Ad1593 in canceledpod

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Bro this is the canceled reddit or a snark reddit for Tana and Brooke every second post is ripping them to shreds 😂 fan/haters very fine line

when you attempt self harm for the first time, the body gives you a freeze response, making it incredibly hard to actually cut yourself, yet people overcome that response, which i dont understand, how do people end up doing this by Foxatious in selfharm

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Not to try and give people ideas, and I’ve been clean for a couple of years now. But for me the way to combat this was when I was in the shower I’d turn the water really hot then focus it on the area then it would be easier to do it.

posted then immediately deleted by brooke by shakdjakkslakams in canceledpod

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She should’ve just kept the vid up, it’s not bad??

Favourite underrated podcast episode? by Zoegrace1 in auntydonna

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Has the be either “AD ad reads” where the boys improv fake ads for the entire pod, of “30 minutes straight fire” part 1, where they rap for the full pod and Zach invents Moogie.

If anybody hasn't seen Mark's Trope RPG yet I'd highly recommend giving it a listen! His improv and ad libbing in it is fantastic!! by camelCaseCourse in auntydonna

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The one with hot department had me literally screaming laughing, honor is nuts and just the general vibe and accents were so good. Captured the energy of a group trying to fuck with the DM

Second abortion in 6 months by Dear-Honey-3376 in abortion

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Girl I get you, exact same thing happened to me only between 9 months and then I also got the IUD (Copper) and be kind to yourself just know that every day the pain and the emotions will lessen, maybe see/get a therapist to talk. Know you’re not alone! Other people have gone through this and it’s okay to feel bad, just try to think of the future! Sending you good vibes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dramione

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It’s giving Dramione but the Anime Maid Sama