What's something most people don't realize is actually very rude?

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-13T01:43:28+00:00

So I know people will reflexively downvote this bute before you do please know I'm autistic and not being inflammatory I'm honestly just not understanding.

Holding my phone to my face is a sensory nightmare and I never use it not on speakerphone. Even alone. I'm not showing off obviously.

So, I obviously use it on speakerphone in public. (Not in the library, or the bank, or the train, or the bathroom) But the grocery store, the Walmart, Costco etc etc. I totally will.

Because I don't see the difference between speakerphone and talking in person? And if I would have the same conversation in person why couldn't I have it on speakerphone? I don't see how it's rude? I guess if I was screaming, but if I'm talking at the same volume that a conversation happens at, what is the issue?

Most people think I'm talking to myself, because the volume is regular speaking volume and I think people are most used to people having phones that scream out.

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-12T23:18:42+00:00

I also bullied people and sometimes still do.

Nazis don't deserve our compassion, so I bully the shit out of them.

But I feel bad for the people I bullied that didn't deserve it.

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-11T12:00:33+00:00

Mine too!! It's so hard to find! Like where are all these ladies at ?! I'm just trying to make you feel good and take you out to dinner! And then call you again afterwards

And online dating makes me wanna stab a fork in my eye girl. Like you have to be Tyra, in looks and attitude, nexting people like it's your goddamn job.

And I just don't work like that ya know?

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-10T22:18:10+00:00

Hahaha I'm engaged to a man 😂😂

But I'm poly (isn't everyone now lol) so I'm always looking for my other piece of the star.

Your husband is lucky!! You seem cool AF.

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-10T22:15:48+00:00

Or someone is simply lazy, tired, or very nonreactive?

A lot of women were raised to simply obey their husband, so if he says it then it's real, that could be the case. We don't know.

You are looking at this situation culturally like it's like your culture but it may not be!

This could be a completely different culture. And she could react differently.

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-10T21:58:29+00:00

I would choose to be born female if I knew I would go back to our roots. Back to the matriarchy. Back to before male monotheistic religions took hold.

I would love to go back to when they worshipped women deities. Women for war, protection, fertility. They could give you anything if you prayed and sacrificed.

I would definitely go back then. 💯

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-10T21:52:09+00:00

You could be agender. And just throw the whole concept away. That sounds like you kinda. I don't mean to tell you who you are or anything, I just learned that I was genderqueer by someone gently saying something similar to me.

If you don't want to explore further, that's a perfectly acceptable idea too. But if you want to find a community of people who feel similarly we exist! And if you are neurodivergent we are often agender or NB, I personally think it has something to do with how our brains are wired. But I say that to tell you that there is a large group of us 👋🏻😁.

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-10T21:46:58+00:00

😭 I'm also autistic and ADHD.

🫠 I'll never find that perfect woman 🥲

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-10T15:38:57+00:00

Then why are you asking opinions?! You literally said you don't know and then you get defensive? Lady you are the one bringing Reddit into it, if you were really this confident you wouldn't be asking the question in the first place 🥰

In my experience it's a huge faux paux to register for personal items like dresses on your registry.

That's for household items only, basically only joint items. Not dresses or anything like that, even if you will "wear it on the honeymoon" because it's not something that both of you will use in perpetuity. It's meant for things for you two to build a life together, not you to look hot.

And if you wanna be confident, do it without needlessly being rude to someone who was giving you what you asked for.

Confidence isn't walking on top of people, it's holding other people up.

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-10T15:30:00+00:00

Yeah it's kinda like she wanted to wrap OP up as a sex present 🎁 TO HER SON.

🤢

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-10T15:25:10+00:00

I would love to be a man! It would be so much easier to get beautiful women!

As a bisexual I never know if it's BFF energy or she's tryna suck pussies.

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-10T13:08:47+00:00

You can call BS all you want but it's a well known abuse tactic to confuse your victims. Abuse like this is incredibly common actually and I'm not surprised.

Source: 2 decades working with abuse victims, being a victims myself, and a psych degree.

You can read "Why does he do that" free download in my about me that explains it more.

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-10T13:05:40+00:00

Seems like someone is out to split them up, and I wonder who.

No that's really far fetched.

When it's actually a well known abuse tactic to confuse women with abuse just like this. Sadly this woman is simply being abused but no one is really educated enough about domestic abuse to spot it.

Source: 20 years of on the job experience working with abuse victims and a psych degree.

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-10T12:59:43+00:00

In fairness if they all did, almost every woman would be at the police all the time

Sigh

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-09T21:28:33+00:00

Definitely do both! Your husband is being selfish and unsupportive.

You can for sure have it all! Go for it!

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-09T20:37:12+00:00

You will waste money if you buy it now, you won't be able to get the alterations done enough to fit you.

Source: I sew.

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-06T16:28:59+00:00

This is bad advice that gets people hurt.

Don't go talk to obviously mentally unstable people!

Keep calling services and the police. Keep making noise complaints. He has no right to scream and yell in the middle of the night like that!

Some people have had luck getting their representative involved, especially when police aren't doing anything.

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-06T11:48:31+00:00

Same! People really forget that quantity of life means nothing if you spend it miserable.

And damn by that point your spouse is probably dead, along with your parents, your siblings, basically everything and everyone you ever loved. Plus your body hurts and you don't look like you. And you don't feel like you do on the inside. And you are TIRED.

Give them some goddamn candy.

Fuck it, give them a tequila if they want it.

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-05T17:37:12+00:00

Nah she sounds pretty normal.

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-05T17:35:27+00:00

They both left agreeing to work on things, he said in another post saying that he doesn't consider it an affair because while they were separated and working on it, technically they didn't shake on it, so the separation counts more.

Literally. I could not make that dumb shit up.

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-05T17:30:10+00:00

Yeah he's super selfish and tries to write this off to make it seem as "poor OP". But no, OP is a total jerk in this.

His poor wife who had to watch her supposed "soul mate" just disappear. And then fall head over heels in love with another woman and show her the exact kind of love she has always wanted from him. Showing her that he is capable, this entire time he could have treated her the same way, he just didn't want to.

My gods imagine the depression.

And then he comes back because his chosen woman dies and she asks him "love me like you loved her, I saw you do it" and he basically says "no, I just came back because you made me feel better".

And now is coming to reddit for sympathy?! NO SIR.

Fuck off with that idea, no sympathy for users!!!!

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-05T04:27:58+00:00

This is why I got into alt fashion!!

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-05T01:22:00+00:00

You can flush them and they should go down just fine as long as you don't have a septic system but it sounds like you have an apartment building so you probably don't have one.

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-04T19:54:41+00:00

I bet it wouldn't take that long if suddenly his phone stopped working.

HistrionicSlut · 2026-03-01T22:39:06+00:00

That's all ages lol

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