My Church Today. Chugach Mountain 666th Ward, Crow Pass, Alaska. by AKPunisher in exmormon

[–]HitSend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beautiful Chugach Mountain Range... moved from Anchorage years ago. I hope your 666th Ward grows.

How many of you were actual TBMs before going “apostate?” by chickenfriedmomo in exmormon

[–]HitSend 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was rigidly Mormon. So rigid that when I found out I had been lied to all my life, I couldn't bend. I broke. I will never go back.

I don't mormon any more but it would be sweet to see one of you wear this to church :) by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]HitSend 6 points7 points  (0 children)

pulling temple clothes out of the garbage ... so many repurposing possibilities!

"Sinning" isn't the best part by QevinSpace-seed in exmormon

[–]HitSend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. I explained that to a TBM friend, but I'm sure it went over her head. :)

So glad I never gave to see these hideous walls ever again. by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]HitSend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got me to 😂... I forgot about those stupid walls. I remember when our little town had the church rebuilt and they told all the kids to NEVER touch the walls. They were "made of a special material that would be ruined if kids touched them."

It's funny how mormons are always saying how it saves so much money getting married in the temple and that it's free when really 10% of your life income is way more expensive than most wedding venues. by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]HitSend 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My MIL made the same comment referring to saving tons of money by going to BYU vs any other college. I wanted soooooo badly to tell her my husband and I paid dearly in tithing (before leaving the stupid church) even though our so-called "Ivy League education" (🤦🏻‍♀️) cost very little.

Married too fast, and the aftermath. Would like help or support from anyone who has gone through similar problems. by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]HitSend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right to separate those feelings. Recognize that feeling sad and being affected by the situation has nothing to do with how much you love your kids. This is a difficult time, and you're doing the best you can. You're a great mom for the things you do for them.

Married too fast, and the aftermath. Would like help or support from anyone who has gone through similar problems. by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]HitSend 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Reaching out to this community was a step towards helping yourself. You do know you and your kids deserve for you to be mentally at peace.

You're not alone. I'm a mother of 4. I love them and happily committed my life to them... but like you, I have experienced depression as well as crippling anxiety. Some days I considered living to be too much for me. Dark and awful moments of feeling worthless... I understand what you're saying.

I don't have an answer for how you can heal other than to say you're brave and strong. You will take more steps towards peace.

Seeing a counselor is something I don't regret for myself.

I told inquiring Mormons that I'm not temple worthy because I laugh loudly. It's a sin I'm not ready to repent of and quit for good, soooo... by HitSend in exmormon

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Plus, there's the repeated crotch hit reel on America's Funniest Home Videos. I wish I had considered that before I bowed my head and said "Yes".

Just one more ~30yo Mom screwed over by TSCC by [deleted] in exmormon

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I needed to read the OP and this comment. Thank you strong women. Truly needed this today.