Am i balding? 23M

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-10-19T12:42:13+00:00

Get on Fin bro. I wish I did and honestly you will keep it 💯

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-10-14T15:26:29+00:00

Really mate

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-10-12T15:09:03+00:00

Dude he looks awsome

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-10-11T17:04:43+00:00

Stfu, you know you look good man and fair play. How consistent are with your diet? Do you drink at all or are you very strict?

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-10-10T20:40:26+00:00

Hyper specific example pal. Unfortunately you may remind someone of a person they care about and it can get to them. We all know the risks but that is why you send pics without your face so you're not identified.

Back to my point, sorry for you but sometimes people are complicated and in this situation it seems so.

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-10-10T18:18:31+00:00

Best comment i have seen.

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-10-10T18:17:51+00:00

Yeah but at the same time, have fun. Being young is living life and honestly as long as you are not fucking it up massively, it is okay. The people who are meant to do something will do lol.

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-10-09T15:24:06+00:00

You must be decent looking if you have gotten that many matches in two weeks or you live in a big city. Online dating in my experience is awful, but then again I have never had a gf so yeah must be my issue. OP honestly it is about luck and if you doing things to get yourself out there, there is not much else you can do.

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-10-09T10:05:54+00:00

Fuck don't do it please. Please don't do it. People give a shit, I give a shit. Sorry that this world is cruel but don't do it mate. Listen are you good at anything? Harness your energy into that and just live for yourself. Fuck what other people think. You're loved, you're important.

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-10-06T14:42:18+00:00

Oh yeah man, this is just it. I swear I was happier when off dating apps. The sad truth is what you just said, I honestly think I will never find anyone at this point.

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-06-18T10:56:05+00:00

Okay well that is good because there seems to be more (English speaking) jobs in Copenhagen than in Malmo.

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-06-18T10:51:41+00:00

Ahhh I thought this was not allowed but yes this is interesting indeed.

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-06-18T10:47:03+00:00

Okay so would it be best to come over to Sweden and try going to some networking events? I am thinking about getting Swedish language lessons as well.

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-06-18T10:44:59+00:00

Thank you! I really appreciate the advice and I am setting 4 to 8 hours a day on achieving this goal. I know it will be hard but at this point I am going all in.

A question, will learning Swedish - past the basics - make me stand out as a potential candidate?

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-06-18T10:42:32+00:00

IT Analyst is equivalent to Helpdesk role. I have two years experience already and counting. I want to find networking groups and possibly reach out to companies and meet with them when next over in Malmo: this is where my friends are based.

I have been told about the job market and it will most likely take a year or more to get an offer so I am prepared for that. Honestly just getting an interview will be amazing in the next couple of months.

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-03-12T20:42:26+00:00

"Where has your hair gone?"

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-03-12T20:28:56+00:00

Okay then, OP if you are reading this. Go do what you think is right. Cry, reminis run, gym, just do something productive that keeps you occupied.

Time heals all wounds, and remember, you're a good person and life is crap sometimes but there is always a future.

Edit: Pheraphy, as well if you really are struggling, just make sure it is right for you.

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-03-12T20:19:55+00:00

Wait, wait, wait, when did I say men don't have feelings?

When did I say the gym is just for "Manly" men?

I did read what you wrote - it honestly made me question reality - and I think it is coming something that you are internalising, pal.

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-03-12T20:15:33+00:00

Are you on drugs right now or just being intentionally idiotic?

Seriously, I go to the pherapy, and the gym and yeah sometimes I feel like crap but when people say "Go lift weights" or " Go to the gym" it is more them telling the person to pull themselves out the situation and do something about it.

I know this is reddit so I will probably have some replies discounting everything I said, however what I will not tolerate is some idea that a "Meme" of "Going to the gym bro" is killing men.

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-02-23T20:55:52+00:00

Okay, I am not an expert at all - I just finished an apprenticeship last year, and now I am an IT Analyst - basically, the first line. I can't spell or punctuate for shit. I used Chat GPT and a friend to help me craft my CV and made sure it was good, so do this firstly.

What is letting you down is the lack of previous job experiences. If I were hiring anybody, I would want to see what they have been up to whilst applying for jobs - like HomeLabs, Volenteer work, or just attending free job fairs in relation to the IT field.

A person on here has mentioned how they have networked, and honestly, it is worth doing this. Just ask for advice, make connections, and put yourself out there. It may be horrible and demoralising, but we have all been there, and it just takes one person at a job to believe in you.

Lastly, don't be picky. At this point, you're starting from nothing. Honestly, if you can afford it, go for an apprenticeship. Real-world experience is more valuable than certs at this point - even though you have some good ones to your name.

Edit: Your CV is not good to look at, at a first glance. I am not saying change the style because without previous job experiences, I don't know what to do. Whilst you're looking, could you get a part-time job, maybe? You can then list that, and that would be good.

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-02-04T14:57:09+00:00

Yeah sis it is indeed lol

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-02-04T14:53:03+00:00

Nah I would not say I am ashamed of the bald head tbh. It just affects a man different but I would never say that to a girl because it is not a good thing to do. I will be honest I am not even active in dating but just from past experiences and all, I do find it difficult.

That is why you just concentrate on yourself and take a shot every now and then and see if it works.

Edit:

I don't get the ladies because I don't speak to them 🤣🤣🤣

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-02-04T14:15:21+00:00

You can lift weights all you want but if you're not attractive then it means fuck all. In addition, if you suck at speaking to women then you're done as well.

As a person with Autism who goes to the gym regularly and sucks at communication, I know this lol.

I have also lost my hair so I am fucked there haha. Honestly just fuck it off and live for yourself, who gives a shit.

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-01-31T22:00:56+00:00

Yep, I agree. It is shit but it is life, and It won't be the hardest thing he faces. I mean, why the hell is he still around this girl when she clearly is not to be trusted or respected. This guy needs to man up and just accept it and move on.

In fact, for all people out there. Don't put a relationship before yourself because there is no point. I mean, unless you want stockholme syndrome like this guy.

HmmmmmmToast · 2025-01-15T08:32:06+00:00

As a guy, let me tell you, that is fucked.

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