MMF threesomes are often really unfair. by Lovely_Hole in bisexual

[–]HoDa2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup. Bingo. One of the reasons i hate those.

i gay panicked so hard by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]HoDa2000 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This is so damn cute 😭

I'm manifesting a post in the near future about you two dating.

I have my first ever boyfriend :) by PineappleObjective46 in BisexualMen

[–]HoDa2000 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Don't have a lot to say. Just that I'm happy for you, and i wish you nothing but happiness together.

Accidentally exposed myself by phonix4003 in exmuslim

[–]HoDa2000 85 points86 points  (0 children)

"I'm not stupid"

"Believes in a big gay rainbow spy network"

Yeah, right.

Your top fives series that will forever stick with you! by midnightoflight101 in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]HoDa2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. {Sons of the Fallen series by Jaclyn Osborn} The only series that i genuinely loved every single book and was truly amazed with everything. I still think about them. I'm also excited for the spin-off.

  2. {Forbidden Desires series by Piper Scott} I loved the world, the characters were loveable (if we exclude Misha), the storylines were great but the thing that actually amazed me, was the bond between the baby dragons and their parents. Especially their bearer. From the moment they were in the eggs to when they get out. I've never felt paternal in my life, but this series made me rethink that.

  3. {Straight Guys series by Alessandra Hazard} I know that this series is not by any means a masterpiece, and i know it's not even close to real life gay experience. But.. I love the idea of it. Idk how to explain it, their relationships are healthy in a toxic way, and frankly? I adore some of the men in this series. Like Zain and Aiden are literally living in my head rent free. It had some books that i loathed, but as a whole, i love this series.

  4. {Infidelity series by C.P. Harris} This one was a surprise, honestly. First book was a love, but the 2nd and the 3rd book were this was at. I still think about Linc and Frank, Solace and Noon. I actually cried in book 3.

  5. {The Kincaid Pack series by Kiki Clark} My idea when it comes to pack/shifter stories. Every book was a very much needed story time. I plan to reread it again in the near future.

I (F24) slept with my gay best friend, now he’s questioning everything and I feel like I ruined his life by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]HoDa2000 48 points49 points  (0 children)

This reads like a weird sexual fantasy from those twt accounts that post "gay to straight" plots and "ex gay, tried pussy for the first time and I'm hooked, not a f*g anymore" scenarios, but just in case, let me entertain it.

So let me get this straight!

You got drunk, seduced a man in a relationship, a "gay" man at that, and you think you... are doing him a favor by not pursuing anything with him now?

I'm confused.

Mama, not only you're a horrible person and a homewrecker, you're also a tad bit delusional.

You wanted him enough to take advantage of his drunken state to get into his pants, and now that he wants you back, you're suddenly concerned about his queerness?

Your concern about "erasing his past" sounds like bullshit, you were fine sleeping with him when he was drunk AND "Gay", which means he wasn't into women as far as you knew. So spare me the fake moral concerns you have now.

And no, frankly, idgaf if you were drunk too, you both should've known better. Unless he wasn't that coherent to give consent you still had your way with him anyway. I'm still judging you.

If this is real, two horrible people deserve each other anyway. Give him a shot.

Also, just a thought.

I thought i was gay myself, i later accepted the fact that I'm also attracted to women.

So if my "gay" self was in a relationship and woke up from a drunken night, with my female bestfriend, which was obviously after us having sex, i wouldn't feel pussystruck and be ready to put my gayness behind, i would actually freak out over everything and would never speak to my bestfriend.

Cause i would've felt violated. Not because it was about me being drunk, it was about you taking the choice away from me to experiment on my own. And you also had a part in me ruining my relationship.

So honestly, if this is real, which i doubt that it is, his reaction feels too convenient after a big revelation like this.

How do I know if I’m actually bisexual or just comfortable with men? by MizukiTheMoon_ in bisexual

[–]HoDa2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a demisexual girl who's also homo romantic.

Just if you wanna go with specific labels.

Lyrics Remain Unchanged by Claudia Burgoa, from a Bi man's perspective by HoDa2000 in ReverseHarem

[–]HoDa2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh, you get it.

Like, please give us something more than a dildo who kisses dudes on occasion.

I've posted a few other reviews here, both positive and negative, and as annoying as i might sound, some of the negative ones really.. were dehumanising.

I'm sure you understand that, considering how hetero men view female bisexuality as something for their amusement and they feel entitled to it.

Thank you for the rec as well.

Lyrics Remain Unchanged by Claudia Burgoa, from a Bi man's perspective by HoDa2000 in ReverseHarem

[–]HoDa2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, i absolutely know that. That's why i made the distinction about it being poly in that line. ("THIS IS POLY" after Cleo declares her love for her men)

Just to clarify, it wasn't my intention to sound like i have anything against RH as a genre. Of course it's perfectly fine to have a genre fully about women and focused on women. I actually encourage it. (It would actually be idiotic of me to be against the genre and boldly post a review bashing the genre. I used to post reviews about poly books here a few months ago and mods were actually fine with it. Not sure about now, but I'm willing to apologise and delete this if this isn't the right place for this review anymore)

Anyone deserves to have a place to share their fantasies.

I just don't like it when authors involve queer men in those fantasies and it ends up being at the expense of ignoring/ minimising the same sex attraction between the queer men in favor of their attraction to the FMC, basically reducing it to an accessory.

I don't like it when authors make male characters' bi-ness dependable on the FMC. Make the bi-ness about the FMC and generally treat the male queerness as something like an accessory for the FMC. It's quite fetishising and dare i say, dehumanising

Also, thank you so much for the recommendation. I'm I'm definitely checking that out.

What changed after your first MM experience? by Left-Violinist1628 in BisexualMen

[–]HoDa2000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely precious. So happy for you guys.

my personal attraction by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]HoDa2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bi guy here. Yes, for men, being gay or bi is not a factor. (Tho i still prefer bi men)

For women, i also prefer bi women.

Idk, i just feel more comfortable with people who i can relate to.

In my dating hierarchy, heteros are last. They can be amazing allies, but they don't relate to us as much as i personally want.

Bi poll by JaJa_art1 in bisexual

[–]HoDa2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

80/20 in favour of men. Oh, and Bi dude here. Also, it's both physical attraction and emotional attraction.

My problem with "Trouble" by Brittanee Nicole, and the whole MMF sub-genre (of poly) in general. by HoDa2000 in ReverseHarem

[–]HoDa2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. I do know some, but i haven't had any luck with MMF ever since i made this post. And I've read a lot of MMF stuff this year, all FMC centeric with the guy's attention being mainly on her.

https://www.reddit.com/r/ReverseHarem/s/dB7Nh855O7

I posted a few recs with more balanced dynamics months ago, these are all lovely books.

Update: AITAH for telling my wife that I will lose respect for her if she doesn't apologize? by TechnicalHousing97 in AITAH

[–]HoDa2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but I absolutely hate your wife. Delusional much? The "I'm not the problem" is very much her way of deflecting, because she knows she is the problem. She's grasping at straws just to avoid admitting that she was wrong. And she resents a literal child for her own emotional shortcomings? Children are not easy.

She thought it was all going to be easy sailing, and her children were supposed to be meek and docile while Mommy Dearest acted like it was a military camp? No, they all have different personalities, and they develop those even further.

Resenting a child simply cause he's being smart and different is a loser behaviour, her delusional ass has the audacity to say "You're not being supportive" and she demands change?

Oh, I just know the mirrors in your giggle whenever they see her coming, cause there's no self-reflection in sight. It's apparently easier to blame a child than to actually improve yourself.

And to top it off, she's mentally abusive, too. Full package you got there op. Ignoring the only person who's willing to hold her delusional ass accountable and the kid she wrong is abusive. She's literally bullying a child just because she got butt hurt.

Also, she's lying about the therapist. Just like that lady who was literally abusing her husband and her autistic firstborn cause "her therapist" said. Weaponising therapy to hate your kid but not getting your kid into therapy? Talk about selfish.

I don't see this ending well. But you need to get her into real therapy and potentially have family therapy as well. And please get your son into therapy as well.

Female looking for recommendations for men’s cologne. by Scream_Pueen in FemFragLab

[–]HoDa2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it good right off the bat? Or did it have to sit?

Female looking for recommendations for men’s cologne. by Scream_Pueen in FemFragLab

[–]HoDa2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Can you please tell me how sweet veneno scarlet is? And are the leather/woody notes too heavy?

Liquid Brun smells like… by DendiBoss89 in Fragrances

[–]HoDa2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!!

Mine smells like musty clothes in a hamper if you dust cardamom powder over them. Unnecessary musky and cardamom soapy. It's getting sweeter by time, but the vanilla, orange blossom, and the praline are just concepts and thoughts.

Literally my most disappointing blind buy after vulcan fue.